Are you a territorial friend?

Started by I. Hate. Monica., November 05, 2018, 09:34:39 AM

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I. Hate. Monica.

Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 09:52:53 AM
Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:44:20 AM
An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?

No necessarily. Unless it was something SUPER foul

you're such a sweet person. all of this would have be HAWT and ready to fight

Vonc2002

Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:51:00 AM
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 09:49:44 AM
Yeah im territorial af over my friends. I used to be more so possessive when I was younger and had those flop friendships.

It really depends on the kind of friendship you and your friends have. Id talk to my friend about it, mention my feelings, and get feedback from them.


finally someone with some damn sense

I recently had a blowup with a friend of mine who had started hanging out with someone I introduced him to without EVER inviting me. He did apologize but our friendship isn't the same
Were they romantic?  That's another level that u aren't necessarily entitled to either
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Young

Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 09:44:58 AM
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 09:41:16 AM
Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 09:39:22 AM
If I introduce you to one another don?t contact each other behind my fckn back. If you wanna talk to each other that?s all fine but I better be included in a group chat, even if I don?t reply.

That's a damn mess
No it?s not. I need some of my friends in separate groups. I know I?m a handful sometimes but I don?t need them joining up to bitch about me.

lemma fix it

YOU a damn mess

They should have nothing to bitch about--nothing seriously anyway


Gilgamesh.

Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:44:20 AM
An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?

No. That is so juvenile.

I. Hate. Monica.

Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 05, 2018, 09:54:23 AM
Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:51:00 AM
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 09:49:44 AM
Yeah im territorial af over my friends. I used to be more so possessive when I was younger and had those flop friendships.

It really depends on the kind of friendship you and your friends have. Id talk to my friend about it, mention my feelings, and get feedback from them.


finally someone with some damn sense

I recently had a blowup with a friend of mine who had started hanging out with someone I introduced him to without EVER inviting me. He did apologize but our friendship isn't the same
Were they romantic?  That's another level that u aren't necessarily entitled to either

no they weren't.

:fuming:

I. Hate. Monica.

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 05, 2018, 09:55:11 AM
Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:44:20 AM
An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?

No. That is so juvenile.

fuck you!

Young

Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:51:00 AM
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 09:49:44 AM
Yeah im territorial af over my friends. I used to be more so possessive when I was younger and had those flop friendships.

It really depends on the kind of friendship you and your friends have. Id talk to my friend about it, mention my feelings, and get feedback from them.


finally someone with some damn sense

I recently had a blowup with a friend of mine who had started hanging out with someone I introduced him to without EVER inviting me. He did apologize but our friendship isn't the same

That's what the fight was about


Kurama

November 05, 2018, 09:56:17 AM #38 Last Edit: November 05, 2018, 09:56:34 AM by Kurama
Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:51:00 AM
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 09:49:44 AM
Yeah im territorial af over my friends. I used to be more so possessive when I was younger and had those flop friendships.

It really depends on the kind of friendship you and your friends have. Id talk to my friend about it, mention my feelings, and get feedback from them.


finally someone with some damn sense

I recently had a blowup with a friend of mine who had started hanging out with someone I introduced him to without EVER inviting me. He did apologize but our friendship isn't the same

So you just dont vibe with the other friend and their connection wasnt romantic? Or are you cool with both and by their actions it seems like they enjoy each other more than they do you?

Vonc2002

Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:55:23 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 05, 2018, 09:55:11 AM
Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:44:20 AM
An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?

No. That is so juvenile.

fuck you!
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
So u want one to stop talking to the other?  Once u introduce people their connection is out of your hands. U can't dictate the way people are with each other :dead:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME


FlowerBomb

Yh my last ex became friends with all MY friends when we broke up lol
I cut them all off

Young

So it sounds like the other two just.."click" more right?

One is still very close to you, the other is a friend but not quite the same after a falling out. (About this very thing?)

Why would you  feel a way about that bby? --do you not like the fact that they might have a closer connection?


Young

Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 05, 2018, 09:57:43 AM
Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:55:23 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 05, 2018, 09:55:11 AM
Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:44:20 AM
An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?

No. That is so juvenile.

fuck you!
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
So u want one to stop talking to the other?  Once u introduce people their connection is out of your hands. U can't dictate the way people are with each other :dead:

!!!!!  dssssssssssssssssssssssss

Be friends--but under my rules!
gor..


Gilgamesh.

Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:55:23 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 05, 2018, 09:55:11 AM
Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:44:20 AM
An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?

No. That is so juvenile.

fuck you!

dndndnd

Let me explain, my best friend fell out with another friend in our group (someone i'm not close with) anyhow, they stopped talking for five years and made up earlier this year. I didn't mind but I found out she was crying her eyes out and saying shew was "blacklisted" from our group because most of us had taken my bestie's side.

So now I don't take sides and I always give the person chance to explain themselves.