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[Barbie Dangerous]

If I introduce you to one another don?t contact each other behind my fckn back. If you wanna talk to each other that?s all fine but I better be included in a group chat, even if I don?t reply.

That's a damn mess

No it?s not. I need some of my friends in separate groups. I know I?m a handful sometimes but I don?t need them joining up to bitch about me.

lemma fix it

YOU a damn mess

They should have nothing to bitch about--nothing seriously anyway

I?m not the problem. I know them well enough to know that their friendship won?t really last.

[Vonc2002]

An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?

No. That is so juvenile.

fuck you!

So u want one to stop talking to the other?  Once u introduce people their connection is out of your hands. U can't dictate the way people are with each other

!!!!!  dssssssssssssssssssssssss

Be friends--but under my rules!
gor..

!!!!!!!!!
People are a damn mess

[I. Hate. Monica.]

Yeah im territorial af over my friends. I used to be more so possessive when I was younger and had those flop friendships.

It really depends on the kind of friendship you and your friends have. Id talk to my friend about it, mention my feelings, and get feedback from them.

finally someone with some damn sense

I recently had a blowup with a friend of mine who had started hanging out with someone I introduced him to without EVER inviting me. He did apologize but our friendship isn't the same

So you just dont vibe with the other friend and their connection wasnt romantic? Or are you cool with both and by their actions it seems like they enjoy each other more than they do you?

this.

So the total story is I established a "friendship" (I use quotes because I take the term very seriously) with this guy (let's call him J). After several months I invited him to dinner with my best friend (let's call him M) of about 4 years. We all had a good time and said we would get together again. They exchanged numbers (I had been drinking so I didn't think too much of it).

In the beginning of myself and J's friendship I would have to practically beg him to go out and do anything as he is extremely introverted so it was quite surprising to me when I found out he had been asking M to go out and do things.


Anyway I mentioned it to M (best friend) and he said he agreed that it was strange and apologized. As far as I know now they don't communicate but the whole situation has left a bad taste in my mouth.

[I. Hate. Monica.]

An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?

No. That is so juvenile.

fuck you!

So u want one to stop talking to the other?  Once u introduce people their connection is out of your hands. U can't dictate the way people are with each other

you wanna bet?

[I. Hate. Monica.]

Yh my last ex became friends with all MY friends when we broke up lol
I cut them all off

love this

[Young]

Yeah im territorial af over my friends. I used to be more so possessive when I was younger and had those flop friendships.

It really depends on the kind of friendship you and your friends have. Id talk to my friend about it, mention my feelings, and get feedback from them.

finally someone with some damn sense

I recently had a blowup with a friend of mine who had started hanging out with someone I introduced him to without EVER inviting me. He did apologize but our friendship isn't the same

So you just dont vibe with the other friend and their connection wasnt romantic? Or are you cool with both and by their actions it seems like they enjoy each other more than they do you?

this.

So the total story is I established a "friendship" (I use quotes because I take the term very seriously) with this guy (let's call him J). After several months I invited him to dinner with my best friend (let's call him M) of about 4 years. We all had a good time and said we would get together again. They exchanged numbers (I had been drinking so I didn't think too much of it).

In the beginning of myself and J's friendship I would have to practically beg him to go out and do anything as he is extremely introverted so it was quite surprising to me when I found out he had been asking M to go out and do things.


Anyway I mentioned it to M (best friend) and he said he agreed that it was strange and apologized. As far as I know now they don't communicate but the whole situation has left a bad taste in my mouth.

ohhhh okay I got it

Well it sounds like this Introvert, J, feels very comfortable with being around M. Nothing against you per-say but some people just naturally click more in some ways. And if he is just a "friend" I wouldn't take it to heart too much .
Especially if you guys still have your own connection.


I wouldn't start to side eye unless you invited them to come over to your place and you keep getting ditched

[I. Hate. Monica.]

they're both dead to me babe

[Young]

cxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx  gorl

[I. Hate. Monica.]

whew thanks guys. Glad you all agree with me

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

S still trying to figure out who these faggots are

[yummy]

Yeah im territorial af over my friends. I used to be more so possessive when I was younger and had those flop friendships.

It really depends on the kind of friendship you and your friends have. Id talk to my friend about it, mention my feelings, and get feedback from them.

finally someone with some damn sense

I recently had a blowup with a friend of mine who had started hanging out with someone I introduced him to without EVER inviting me. He did apologize but our friendship isn't the same

Maybe they bonded over some things that you weren?t interested in? They probably thought you wouldn?t enjoy yourself.

[Kurama]

Yeah im territorial af over my friends. I used to be more so possessive when I was younger and had those flop friendships.

It really depends on the kind of friendship you and your friends have. Id talk to my friend about it, mention my feelings, and get feedback from them.

finally someone with some damn sense

I recently had a blowup with a friend of mine who had started hanging out with someone I introduced him to without EVER inviting me. He did apologize but our friendship isn't the same

So you just dont vibe with the other friend and their connection wasnt romantic? Or are you cool with both and by their actions it seems like they enjoy each other more than they do you?

this.

So the total story is I established a "friendship" (I use quotes because I take the term very seriously) with this guy (let's call him J). After several months I invited him to dinner with my best friend (let's call him M) of about 4 years. We all had a good time and said we would get together again. They exchanged numbers (I had been drinking so I didn't think too much of it).

In the beginning of myself and J's friendship I would have to practically beg him to go out and do anything as he is extremely introverted so it was quite surprising to me when I found out he had been asking M to go out and do things.


Anyway I mentioned it to M (best friend) and he said he agreed that it was strange and apologized. As far as I know now they don't communicate but the whole situation has left a bad taste in my mouth.

Where do you and J stand now? It could just be he was more comfortable going out with M or he could have been attracted to him and wanted alone time.

I'd also be curious about what M thought when J used to invite him out and not you. If he didn't know then how did he feel when you didn't show up to some of these outtings? U sure they don't still speak?

[I. Hate. Monica.]

I don't speak to J anymore.

M claims he though J was inviting me but that I was turning him down. They may still speak tbh

[Kurama]

Yeah...what you thinking? Cause this sounds a lil sketch.

[Kurama]

and bish this beyond territorial sdsdsd

this pretty possessive if you want M to disconnect from J because yall no longer speak.