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Are the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?

this isn't exclusive to gays.

edit: and the app for Straights is Tinder.

[Barbie Dangerous]

I don't really think all of the things are exclusive to gay men but men in general: just driven by sex.

[Barbie Dangerous]

And I posted that before I saw the post before me.

[Freemala Harris]

Tea

Although i'll say that this isn't exclusive to us

There are a lot of homewreckers, side chicks/dudes, & trashy people out there regardless of gender or sexuality

We just need to do better

[Kurama]

Are the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?

this isn't exclusive to gays.

edit: and the app for Straights is Tinder.

d

instead of trying to find a fallacy you can just contribute ya know?

[Young]

I just wanna know sdddddddddddddd

It seems like the gorls are okay w/ being the sideline of some DL trade with a wife, kids/ other significant others
It seems like the gorls are okay with just fckn anybody and whenever as long as Prep is in hand
It seems like the gorls are okay with being gay to an extent but you can't be too fem or its unattractive-- and many are still learning to accept trans
It seems like the gorls are okay with very shallow views on life/dating/ interactions with others and don't really care to navigate through life on a deeper and more emotionally connected level

Among other observations I've made

So where is the line drawn?

Are the gorls okay with pedophilia a bit--as long as it isn't too edgy?

Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?


Are we okay with the level of perversion circling around the community (and culture as a whole of course) and how we've almost become desensitized to it?




Are we happy with the community as a whole?

Its funny because I was gonna post in the random thread today about how I wish gay men (especially black gay men) didn't learn to see themselves as sexual beings and nothing more most times. I think that has a lot to do with the first couple of posts.

The pedophilia mess is FUCKIN WILD to me. I know how it was when we were growing up young and gay and having old niggas try to get us. Now im starting to see that some of my friends--or former friends-- are becoming predators now. I legit had someone I was close with tell me they try to get with younger dudes(18-23) cause they're gullible and let you do anything to them, this nigga is 33. Havent talked to his trash self since and we were cool for almost a decade.

Hate our community most times but ya still gotta stand up for it

Wooooo chile...I just..

This is crazy

[yummy]

I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.

I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.

[Young]

Are the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?

this isn't exclusive to gays.

edit: and the app for Straights is Tinder.

That's why I said the desensitization of sex/sexuality of a whole isn't just a gay thing

I agree

[Young]

Tea

Although i'll say that this isn't exclusive to us

There are a lot of homewreckers, side chicks/dudes, & trashy people out there regardless of gender or sexuality

We just need to do better

This is true too

[Young]

Are the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?

this isn't exclusive to gays.

edit: and the app for Straights is Tinder.

d

instead of trying to find a fallacy you can just contribute ya know?

sddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd

[Barbie Dangerous]

I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.

I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.

What did you learn from older gays?

[yummy]

And we should probably stop viewing queer relationships under a heteronormative lens or emulating some outdated nuclear family structure.

[Young]

I think it's definitely important to be aware of your community

For myself, I have some gay friends, however my closest friends are straight. And not to sound judgmental but its due to a lot of people within the community falling prey to a lot of what I talked about in the OP. Especially the shallow part.

[Kurama]

What is "Real gay love" ? 

Same sex individuals who truly love eachother and have devoted their lives to loving eachother through thick and thin . REALLY.

It doesn't exist. It's hard for a man and a woman to make a relationship work..two faggots? That's a recipe for disaster.  This, of course, doesn't apply to any of us here though. We the upper echelon of gay.

[yummy]

I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.

I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.

What did you learn from older gays?

Avoiding certain toxic relationships, learning how to being a better friend, the importance of self validation, emotional intelligence etc;

I have a great relationship with my father, but there are certain aspects of my life that he (or any other straight man) would never be able to relate to or empathize with.