I believe in real and true gay love. But in this day and age where everything is so fast and at your finger tips. You can see where it'll be hard for guys to settle down and build a life together. It's sad because many of us will grow old, miserable and most likely alone.
And at some point I was okay with being the side guy for the married, DL and/or guy with the significant other. But then I realized I'm not getting anything from that. After a quick fuck and rump on the beach or some secluded hill top. They go back home to their own lives. And I'm dropped off at home. And left alone in an empty bed.
We have to draw the line somewhere. So I just stopped with those type of guys.