"Can't be my man bringing in 1400 a month"

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Sinpool

I just need my mans to loves and supports me.

Thats it...just me...and my...heart


African Queen

Quote from: 13,000 yrs (i been on) on November 13, 2018, 11:55:03 AM
I'm so on the fence because:

A) I definitely believe in taking everything about a man into consideration. Of course there's the initial physical attraction (which is the easiest part obviously) but if you take the possibility of a future together with him seriously, there's so many other things to factor in .

BUT

B) If we were only making 1400 a month I'd be interested to know why.

Is he making so little because he's dedicated his time to helping those in need and doesn't make much profit from it? If that's the case I'd kinda be very impressed with something like that  - as long as he's able to pay his own bills.

And never asks me for one dime, etc.

Ultimately, I'd definitely prefer someone who is comfortable financially though. I'm not checking for ballers or anything. But someone who is just comfortable like I am. It'd just make things a lot simpler and smoother.

But I don't feel a need to hop on Facebook to say, "Broke niggas need not apply! LMAO!!!!"

OKAY! Now we all think certain things in our heads and have certain standards. BUT to blurt this mess out on social media is just plain ignorant.

yummy

What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states

yummy

Quote from: Sinyonc? on November 13, 2018, 11:46:50 AM
B

These the same type of girls that get pissed when a nigger gets famous and says fck black women cause the hoes didnt use when he was broke

s

Girl, most non black women aren?t drooling over a broke nigga either, especially in cultures where it?s engrained in them that a man is supposed to be the sole provider

African Queen

Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 11:59:38 AM
What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states

BITCH we don't need to be discouraging black men trying to earn an honest living. What we should be talking about is why do jobs exist that pay so little in 2018.

Young

Quote from: Michelle Williams on November 13, 2018, 11:58:28 AM
Quote from: 13,000 yrs (i been on) on November 13, 2018, 11:55:03 AM
I'm so on the fence because:

A) I definitely believe in taking everything about a man into consideration. Of course there's the initial physical attraction (which is the easiest part obviously) but if you take the possibility of a future together with him seriously, there's so many other things to factor in .

BUT

B) If we were only making 1400 a month I'd be interested to know why.

Is he making so little because he's dedicated his time to helping those in need and doesn't make much profit from it? If that's the case I'd kinda be very impressed with something like that  - as long as he's able to pay his own bills.

And never asks me for one dime, etc.

Ultimately, I'd definitely prefer someone who is comfortable financially though. I'm not checking for ballers or anything. But someone who is just comfortable like I am. It'd just make things a lot simpler and smoother.

But I don't feel a need to hop on Facebook to say, "Broke niggas need not apply! LMAO!!!!"

OKAY! Now we all think certain things in our heads and have certain standards. BUT to blurt this mess out on social media is just plain ignorant.

qqqqq

But who knows what kind of men was hitting Queen up on her messenger mess

Maybe she felt like giving a public service announcement mess to let some of the boys know


Sinpool

Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 12:01:28 PM
Quote from: Sinyonc? on November 13, 2018, 11:46:50 AM
B

These the same type of girls that get pissed when a nigger gets famous and says fck black women cause the hoes didnt use when he was broke

s

Girl, most non black women aren?t drooling over a broke nigga either, especially in cultures where it?s engrained in them that a man is supposed to be the sole provider

R u a gold diggers


Young

I?m sorry but where are you working making that much a month ?

That?s painful


Buy The Stars✨

Quote from: Young on November 13, 2018, 11:41:08 AM
Quote from: Nick'Challa on November 13, 2018, 11:38:32 AM
Quote from: BARD? on November 13, 2018, 11:34:56 AM
Lets be real though, 1400 a month can?t pay shit.

It can't buttttttt if it's a two income home it would be ok

n

Not unless the other half is clearing damn near 6 figures

1400 a month aint even 20k a year

Are we eating Ramen noodles and PB&J every night coz...

Sjsjsjsjsbs



I mean it's not a lot but you gotta take what you can get


yummy

Quote from: Michelle Williams on November 13, 2018, 12:03:49 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 11:59:38 AM
What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states

BITCH we don't need to be discouraging black men trying to earn an honest living. What we should be talking about is why do jobs exist that pay so little in 2018.

why are you talking to me

African Queen

Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 12:06:48 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on November 13, 2018, 12:03:49 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 11:59:38 AM
What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states

BITCH we don't need to be discouraging black men trying to earn an honest living. What we should be talking about is why do jobs exist that pay so little in 2018.

why are you talking to me

Cos you're a broke CUNT.

Mariah4ever



Opposites Attract.

Quote from: Sinyonc? on November 13, 2018, 11:46:50 AM
B

These the same type of girls that get pissed when a nigger gets famous and says fck black women cause the hoes didnt use when he was broke
n

If this was back in the day, that logic would work but we're in a different time. The cost of living has changed. If a relationship is 50/50 what bills could he pay bringing home $1.4k a month and still be able to take care of his personal necessities?

Make it make sense.


It's unconditional, these days you know....

Sinpool

My ex was homeless and I never left his side.

I always had his back. He could come visit me at my house at the appropriate times of day when Im not tryna sleep because I loved him