Update: Serious Question

Started by HUGO, January 20, 2019, 09:26:13 PM

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HUGO

January 20, 2019, 09:26:13 PM Last Edit: February 03, 2019, 12:57:13 PM by HUGO
If you met someone and you guys hit it off...vibed really well....Chemistry was there....figured out you guys had a lot in common...was looking forward to getting to know each other a little more...then find out they?re the ex of someone you used to mess with...what would you do?

:-/

HUGO

January 20, 2019, 09:26:54 PM #1 Last Edit: January 20, 2019, 09:28:32 PM by HUGO
God and the universe really be playing with me...like wtf

:stressed:

BAPHOMET.

I don't think that matters. As long as they're not a previous prostitute or Aided/diseased up. Ion care.


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u continue and see where it leads

energetically

they probably intended to come in your circle anyway but got sidetracked by someone else on the way to you

dont bring that baggage in to your union



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GLOCK

After all that time and bonding..
I?d not give af

The gay world is small.

U didn?t pursue them because of it so they shouldn?t matter

FRANCE

Depends on how close that ex was with me, how long ago we broke it off and they broke it off and why. Spill the deets...

HUGO

Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on January 20, 2019, 09:28:58 PM
u continue and see where it leads

energetically

they probably intended to come in your circle anyway but got sidetracked by someone else on the way to you

dont bring that baggage in to your union

I honestly started to put peices of the puzzle together and was hoping for a different outcome. But we just had a 2 hour conversation and I find out they dated for 4 years  :'(

HUGO

Quote from: Glock on January 20, 2019, 09:29:52 PM
After all that time and bonding..
I?d not give af

The gay world is small.

U didn?t pursue them because of it so they shouldn?t matter

It?s so fucking weird how it happened. What are the fucking odds out of al ppl this dude would be the ex of someone I was dealing with.

GLOCK

Quote from: HUGO on January 20, 2019, 09:34:01 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 20, 2019, 09:29:52 PM
After all that time and bonding..
I?d not give af

The gay world is small.

U didn?t pursue them because of it so they shouldn?t matter

It?s so fucking weird how it happened. What are the fucking odds out of al ppl this dude would be the ex of someone I was dealing with.
eek.
Ultimately it doesn?t matter
Y?all found each other
Keep building

HUGO

Quote from: SPARK on January 20, 2019, 09:30:07 PM
Depends on how close that ex was with me, how long ago we broke it off and they broke it off and why. Spill the deets...

So I was messing with his ex on and off for about a year or so. The last time they actually messed was in 2017 but they weren?t together at the time. Once he told me his nationality and that he went to school in Pittsburg I pretty much put 2 and 2 together based on what his ex told me about his last relationship.  I?m so conflicted. Cuz I really like this guy.

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January 20, 2019, 09:37:50 PM #10 Last Edit: January 20, 2019, 09:38:30 PM by Lew Scherzinger Norwood
Hugo gonna be givin



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MelMel

hoe, they are always going to be an ex of somebody. Keep it going and try to keep a man for once

HUGO

Quote from: Glock on January 20, 2019, 09:35:43 PM
Quote from: HUGO on January 20, 2019, 09:34:01 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 20, 2019, 09:29:52 PM
After all that time and bonding..
I?d not give af

The gay world is small.

U didn?t pursue them because of it so they shouldn?t matter

It?s so fucking weird how it happened. What are the fucking odds out of al ppl this dude would be the ex of someone I was dealing with.
eek.
Ultimately it doesn?t matter
Y?all found each other
Keep building
So yesterday we were just chillin and I was telling him about my past and told him about dude. I asked him straight up like  ?do you know so so and so because you guys went to school in the same area? He told me no because he says he likes me and really wanted to get to know me. So today during our phone conversation he broke everything down to me. Now he feels like he?s conflicted as well because he doesn?t want the ex thinking he?s doing this to get back at him.

HUGO

Quote from: MelMel on January 20, 2019, 09:38:29 PM
hoe, they are always going to be an ex of somebody. Keep it going and try to keep a man for once

Bitch cut the shit. I?m in my feelings.

GLOCK

Quote from: HUGO on January 20, 2019, 09:38:54 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 20, 2019, 09:35:43 PM
Quote from: HUGO on January 20, 2019, 09:34:01 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 20, 2019, 09:29:52 PM
After all that time and bonding..
I?d not give af

The gay world is small.

U didn?t pursue them because of it so they shouldn?t matter

It?s so fucking weird how it happened. What are the fucking odds out of al ppl this dude would be the ex of someone I was dealing with.
eek.
Ultimately it doesn?t matter
Y?all found each other
Keep building
So yesterday we were just chillin and I was telling him about my past and told him about dude. I asked him straight up like  ?do you know so so and so because you guys went to school in the same area? He told me no because he says he likes me and really wanted to get to know me. So today during our phone conversation he broke everything down to me. Now he feels like he?s conflicted as well because he doesn?t want the ex thinking he?s doing this to get back at him.
if he cares that much about what the ex thinks then meh

but if it kills u both.. how about yall reach out to him and let him know yall are getting to know each other and didnt know they knew each other

it's hard to find ppl u can really vibe with .. so i dont think this is some deal breaker

fuck that othr nigga