Y?all really feel like this place is genuinely negative?

Started by GLOCK, January 31, 2019, 12:52:41 PM

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GLOCK

Quote from: Promise. on January 31, 2019, 02:13:02 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 01:23:57 PM
Quote from: Black Indian on January 31, 2019, 01:20:25 PM
A lot of internet culture isn't the most positive.

People always speak about comments on ShadeRoom - how the people leaving comments are miserable, mean, inappropriate have no lives, etc.

But honestly people could look at this place the same as well considering its content.  It's understandable how people may see this as a negative place.

But ultimately, it's up to that person to sit and read it, engage in it, or log off. It's gonna keep going whether you put your two cents in or not.
That?s real

Idk. Maybe I?m just easy breezy about this place
I truly applaud every bit of mess I?ve partook in

Outside of exposing Adrian  :unsure:
That?s my one regret

When Lis and I gathered up his social media and fed it to the girls
Dragged him for a year..
I?m not proud of that
I don't remember doing this :ohwow:
ncjdjdjddn
Lis :damselindistress:
U went through his pics .. commented on them
And messaged his family that he was a closeted fag :omgwatshappening:
We were in cahoots

GLOCK

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 31, 2019, 02:19:55 PM
Quote from: HUGO on January 31, 2019, 02:16:16 PM
And you can tell who?s fucking miserable in real life or not happy with themselves. I won?t list names tho
:dead:
!!!!!!!!!
I'll list em but imma let it be lolz
yall are a mess

GLOCK

Quote from: LOONA. on January 31, 2019, 02:20:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on January 31, 2019, 02:07:49 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 01:20:19 PM
Quote from: Kurama on January 31, 2019, 01:00:44 PM
Ppl are built differently and i think sometimes folks downplay the impact that being an online "family" for so long can have on someone.

If someone decides this place is negatively affecting them i have no choice but to understand because thats their experience.
That?s real
I just don?t really understand how this place could negatively impact a person tho..
I?m literally nothing like my b source persona

But some ppl are who they are outside of this place while online.. so maybe those ppl?

I feel like I?m more fun and hilarious on here

In real life .. am more of a centered, calm, laid back person.. who happens to be funny if I feel comfortable around ya

I was there too. I just try to operate from a place of not knowing what someone deals with when they do log off. We toss jokes out about friendship and shitty personal lives but that could be a reality for folks. Also, we all have had positive experiences with members here that has allowed for us to get connected enough personally to have made friends offline so its not farfetched to think that the opposite of that can happen too.

You're a rare case Glock. You've changed and I argue that your offline self and online self have been merging a bit. You arent the same nigga who walked in here and the way you experience bsource (and how members treat you) could be different from another users.

Calm down

Glock is very much still trash
I will beat ur pink ass .. ape

GLOCK

Quote from: 1RIG on January 31, 2019, 02:23:36 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 12:52:41 PM
Eh.
I guess I really don?t allow it to interfere with my real life and that?s no shade to anyone.
I always find it odd tho when everyone discusses how much this place drains them or knocks them off their focus  :unsure:

I guess it?s just such a great pastime for me

Especially as a loner
It?s like a hobby mess

It pains me when y?all say this place changes y?all for the worst
I?ve actually learned a lot here... negativity is the culture here in a fun way imo but I don?t really see this place as somewhere bad for someone or a negative zone .. toxic? Nahhh. Not to me..


Hmm
it?s mostly jokes and all in fun

I don?t see it that way. I guess the ones that are always in mess would seddd
mcjdjdjd
Mess

I think I?m usually involved in the mess but I don?t see it like that  :plzstop:

I just don?t take it seriously but that?s probably why am able to conjure up mess after mess :damselindistress:

Vonc2002

This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





GLOCK

Quote from: Young on January 31, 2019, 02:24:27 PM
Quote from: HUGO on January 31, 2019, 02:16:16 PM
And you can tell who?s fucking miserable in real life or not happy with themselves. I won?t list names tho
:dead:

Whats going on in here
I love u my bby pop tart dipped in milk
But I do believe u get ur life off the mess

U always do this .. which essentially makes the girls rehash the mess or get fired up

Lowkey ur just as guilty
Very lowkey

But ur fun and i don?t think ur negative at all
I can tell ur heart is gorgeous

Yet u still love all the MESS.

:watchitfag:

GLOCK

Quote from: Nine on January 31, 2019, 02:29:20 PM
Idk I don't really take this board seriously. It's a kii.

Plus I'm not a messy gorl so I don't really indulge in the negativity.

:supluv:

9....


GLOCK

Quote from: jaguar. on January 31, 2019, 02:29:48 PM
95% of members here take this board way too seriously. The way y?all get and stay angry with each other makes me piss.

N
theo u kill me

Vonc2002

Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 04:12:19 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on January 31, 2019, 02:23:36 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 12:52:41 PM
Eh.
I guess I really don?t allow it to interfere with my real life and that?s no shade to anyone.
I always find it odd tho when everyone discusses how much this place drains them or knocks them off their focus  :unsure:

I guess it?s just such a great pastime for me

Especially as a loner
It?s like a hobby mess

It pains me when y?all say this place changes y?all for the worst
I?ve actually learned a lot here... negativity is the culture here in a fun way imo but I don?t really see this place as somewhere bad for someone or a negative zone .. toxic? Nahhh. Not to me..


Hmm
it?s mostly jokes and all in fun

I don?t see it that way. I guess the ones that are always in mess would seddd
mcjdjdjd
Mess

I think I?m usually involved in the mess but I don?t see it like that  :plzstop:

I just don?t take it seriously but that?s probably why am able to conjure up mess after mess :damselindistress:
i agree. I'm over here messing and having fun.  Aint really that big a damn deal. 
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Kalifornia.

Quote from: Promise. on January 31, 2019, 03:57:50 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on January 31, 2019, 03:55:11 PM
Quote from: Promise. on January 31, 2019, 03:52:27 PM
Bby Idk how many times in the past i signed up on adamn4adam to try and find 'Day in SoCal. Vvvcvccvvvvvcccvhvfgcvvvffcccccccccvvv;

Really toned it down. Love that jans ass nigger now
sd
bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbd
bdsvvd
vdddddddddddddddddddddddddddddf
fdfffffffffff

I just HOLLERED in my office!

We used to BATTLE. Those were the good ol' days :plzstop:

We've come such a log way :stressed: :sistas:
We would never back down from each other :plzstop: 2019 actually marks 10 years since the 1st time you made me fume over Ci shade

sdbbbbbbbbbb

Happy Anniversary :stressed:


Kurama

Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 04:03:38 PM
Quote from: Kurama on January 31, 2019, 02:07:49 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 01:20:19 PM
Quote from: Kurama on January 31, 2019, 01:00:44 PM
Ppl are built differently and i think sometimes folks downplay the impact that being an online "family" for so long can have on someone.

If someone decides this place is negatively affecting them i have no choice but to understand because thats their experience.
That?s real
I just don?t really understand how this place could negatively impact a person tho..
I?m literally nothing like my b source persona

But some ppl are who they are outside of this place while online.. so maybe those ppl?

I feel like I?m more fun and hilarious on here

In real life .. am more of a centered, calm, laid back person.. who happens to be funny if I feel comfortable around ya

I was there too. I just try to operate from a place of not knowing what someone deals with when they do log off. We toss jokes out about friendship and shitty personal lives but that could be a reality for folks. Also, we all have had positive experiences with members here that has allowed for us to get connected enough personally to have made friends offline so its not farfetched to think that the opposite of that can happen too.

You're a rare case Glock. You've changed and I argue that your offline self and online self have been merging a bit. You arent the same nigga who walked in here and the way you experience bsource (and how members treat you) could be different from another users.
aye that?s solid right there
I guess I never thought about how the things we throw at each other could be the reality of a member..

I guess the HIV jokes immediately come to mind and the suicide ones

As many members there are here.. it?s mostly a homosexual home of men..
And there?s just no way possible at least a fourth of us aren?t battling HIV or the thoughts of suicide

Eek.
I hate when u make me think think Bre  :wub:

This just ran up on me and I?m seeing sumn in this moment

Also I know my real off the board me is pouring out :damselindistress:
Everything else gets old I?ll admit
But who I am foreal foreal.. it just becomes easier and easier to be that guy and to stand it  :'(
Thank u

Ack! See what i mean. You're one of the few who can take a stance and discuss a topic with someone with a differing opinion and admit to valuing or seeing their perspective Niggas seldom do that here.

King  :wub:  :wub: :wub:


GLOCK

Quote from: HUGO on January 31, 2019, 02:31:43 PM
I will say this place gave my ex a different perception on me. I tried to explain to him like...you honestly wouldn?t get it unless you were a member on there. He really thought Glock and I had something serious going on.  :uhh:
nfjdjdjdjdj

Now u explain this exit of urs  :plzstop:

I guess one would?ve thought we were really fucking if if they observed our back and forth back in the day
We flirted heavy  :plzstop:

LOONA.

Quote from: Kurama on January 31, 2019, 04:16:59 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 04:03:38 PM
Quote from: Kurama on January 31, 2019, 02:07:49 PM
Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 01:20:19 PM
Quote from: Kurama on January 31, 2019, 01:00:44 PM
Ppl are built differently and i think sometimes folks downplay the impact that being an online "family" for so long can have on someone.

If someone decides this place is negatively affecting them i have no choice but to understand because thats their experience.
That?s real
I just don?t really understand how this place could negatively impact a person tho..
I?m literally nothing like my b source persona

But some ppl are who they are outside of this place while online.. so maybe those ppl?

I feel like I?m more fun and hilarious on here

In real life .. am more of a centered, calm, laid back person.. who happens to be funny if I feel comfortable around ya

I was there too. I just try to operate from a place of not knowing what someone deals with when they do log off. We toss jokes out about friendship and shitty personal lives but that could be a reality for folks. Also, we all have had positive experiences with members here that has allowed for us to get connected enough personally to have made friends offline so its not farfetched to think that the opposite of that can happen too.

You're a rare case Glock. You've changed and I argue that your offline self and online self have been merging a bit. You arent the same nigga who walked in here and the way you experience bsource (and how members treat you) could be different from another users.
aye that?s solid right there
I guess I never thought about how the things we throw at each other could be the reality of a member..

I guess the HIV jokes immediately come to mind and the suicide ones

As many members there are here.. it?s mostly a homosexual home of men..
And there?s just no way possible at least a fourth of us aren?t battling HIV or the thoughts of suicide

Eek.
I hate when u make me think think Bre  :wub:

This just ran up on me and I?m seeing sumn in this moment

Also I know my real off the board me is pouring out :damselindistress:
Everything else gets old I?ll admit
But who I am foreal foreal.. it just becomes easier and easier to be that guy and to stand it  :'(
Thank u

Ack! See what i mean. You're one of the few who can take a stance and discuss a topic with someone with a differing opinion and admit to valuing or seeing their perspective Niggas seldom do that here.

King  :wub:  :wub: :wub:

G

Kalifornia.

Quote from: Promise. on January 31, 2019, 03:59:46 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on January 31, 2019, 03:57:07 PM
BSource around 2010-11 was pure MESS

Keri vs Ciara alone :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

It's crazy how fast time flies.
omg, the simple days :plzstop: everyday was a read-fest or a couple hours in a Photoshop, dragging just for dragging's sake :plzstop:

I think we all just got older and matured since then. I used to take it very seriously

!!!
I used to be pissed & cackling at the same time. I remember when I first revealed that I was a Keri gorl.

You & the rest of the Ci's circled me like a pack of wolves :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

Then Taron went rogue and y'all wanted him dead :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

I miss those days