I love Brandy and I love Monica. I actually stan more for Brandy because of how she treats me as a fan. At my age now, I don't have the time to really stan for either like I used to but at one point both singers knew me, not my name really but they knew who I was when they saw me. Both are very welcoming, but Brandy is extremely open and personable with her fans, Monica is like thank you so much, Bye. I had met Monica about 5 times prior to meeting Brandy, because I was from the south and its easier to meet Monica, as she loves the chitlin circuit. After meeting Brandy I started feeling as if Monica did not appreciate me as a fan.
When I first met Brandy was at a club for a Ray j release party back in 07 when I moved to LA. She was so nice, accommodating and kind. She was protected at this time because it was not long after the accident, because I remember them leaving and she saw paparazzi can got VERY afraid, and screamed to Ray J, LETS GO NOW! but to us she was so nice! The next time was at The Ryan Seacrest show, fans would go and wait for the artist, me and a friend where the only one there. She let us inside the station, we gave her flowers, hugged took photos. I was leaving the parking lot, and Brandy was running between the cars to find us. This was before Human was released. She wanted to know our opinions on the songs, what we thought the next single should be, and many other things. I fell in love with her at the point. I saw her when she did a small show in Hollywood, and Ryan let us meet her before she went back to her hotel to get dressed. She asked him why he did not allow us to come watch her in rehearsal? Long story short, this is a bullshit post. I don't care what issues you claim Brandy has, this is not one!
I have met almost everyone, and there are few artist as personable as Brandy. Yes, Mariah seems very approachable also but that does not discredit Brandy. Sorry to write a novel, but Brandy has really made me feel respected as a fan, I am proud to stan for her. I will even fly to DC again with only a 50% chance that she may perform.