Friends ur Attracted to?

Started by Kurama, June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM

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Hatsumomo

I'm more concerned with the fact that most relationships do not last period and end up going sour. Why bring a friend" someone who we truly need outside of romance into it? It's a recipe for disaster.

reekz

Quote from: Scott. on June 12, 2019, 07:28:40 PM
Quote from: Thor on June 12, 2019, 07:24:49 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 12, 2019, 06:46:23 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM
Do you have friends that you are strongly attracted to?

Can you be in a friendship where you're attracted to someone or in one where yall have sex?

I'm in a friendship like that now. We had sex once like 3 years ago and we're still best friends. He has a boyfriend and I have someone as well. But he did admit that he thought about our friendship growing into something else at one point.

What are so many best friends like this?

I just don't understand it

:traciandchelle:

:dead: :dead:

People think it's weird and people pick up on our chemistry because he came to my job to see me one day and everyone thought he was my boyfriend  :dead:

And not to mention, he gave me some of the best sex I've ever had in life lol. But it never ruined anything

Yeah I wouldn't have done that to my friendship. Plus it makes it so hard for future partners on both ends to feel comfortable. Good luck bby

Scott.

June 12, 2019, 07:42:51 PM #47 Last Edit: June 12, 2019, 07:44:02 PM by Scott.
Quote from: Thor on June 12, 2019, 07:39:55 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 12, 2019, 07:28:40 PM
Quote from: Thor on June 12, 2019, 07:24:49 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 12, 2019, 06:46:23 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM
Do you have friends that you are strongly attracted to?

Can you be in a friendship where you're attracted to someone or in one where yall have sex?

I'm in a friendship like that now. We had sex once like 3 years ago and we're still best friends. He has a boyfriend and I have someone as well. But he did admit that he thought about our friendship growing into something else at one point.

What are so many best friends like this?

I just don't understand it

:traciandchelle:

:dead: :dead:

People think it's weird and people pick up on our chemistry because he came to my job to see me one day and everyone thought he was my boyfriend  :dead:

And not to mention, he gave me some of the best sex I've ever had in life lol. But it never ruined anything

Yeah I wouldn't have done that to my friendship. Plus it makes it so hard for future partners on both ends to feel comfortable. Good luck bby

Done what to it? Nothing ever changed. It's a one time thing that happened YEARS ago and that's it. *shrugs*

Cartierline

I might be attracted to a person initially, but if/when we become friends the attraction fades away and I just don't see them in a romantic way anymore.

reekz

June 12, 2019, 07:54:22 PM #49 Last Edit: June 12, 2019, 07:57:17 PM by Thor
Quote from: Scott. on June 12, 2019, 07:42:51 PM
Quote from: Thor on June 12, 2019, 07:39:55 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 12, 2019, 07:28:40 PM
Quote from: Thor on June 12, 2019, 07:24:49 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 12, 2019, 06:46:23 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM
Do you have friends that you are strongly attracted to?

Can you be in a friendship where you're attracted to someone or in one where yall have sex?

I'm in a friendship like that now. We had sex once like 3 years ago and we're still best friends. He has a boyfriend and I have someone as well. But he did admit that he thought about our friendship growing into something else at one point.

What are so many best friends like this?

I just don't understand it

:traciandchelle:

:dead: :dead:

People think it's weird and people pick up on our chemistry because he came to my job to see me one day and everyone thought he was my boyfriend  :dead:

And not to mention, he gave me some of the best sex I've ever had in life lol. But it never ruined anything

Yeah I wouldn't have done that to my friendship. Plus it makes it so hard for future partners on both ends to feel comfortable. Good luck bby

Done what to it? Nothing ever changed. It's a one time thing that happened YEARS ago and that's it. *shrugs*

Whewww chile

Guess it's not that bad

Murrah

I had a situation where a "friend" tried to push up on me while we were in Vegas. I was so put off by the idea he had been harboring a secret desire for me.  :uhh:

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Kurama on June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM
Do you have friends that you are strongly attracted to?

Can you be in a friendship where you're attracted to someone or in one where yall have sex?

You question is rooted in the duality of relationships and friendships having limitations

If u like your friend
And your friend likes you
And sexual attraction is mutual

Theres nothing stopping you from having a great sexual chemistry and friendship with them

If u love them and they love you you can also have a great sexual relationship and friendship

If u want to be closer u can if u dont you dont

Ppul have these rules that if we fuck we must be exclusive and our friendship must change to in a relationship

None of that needs to happen

Ppul will say oh it will ruin the friendship if it was honestly rooted in friendship and not a subtle way to be more

Nothing changes

Fuck and playin playstation rest of the nite lol



Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Thor on June 12, 2019, 07:24:49 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 12, 2019, 06:46:23 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM
Do you have friends that you are strongly attracted to?

Can you be in a friendship where you're attracted to someone or in one where yall have sex?

I'm in a friendship like that now. We had sex once like 3 years ago and we're still best friends. He has a boyfriend and I have someone as well. But he did admit that he thought about our friendship growing into something else at one point.

What are so many best friends like this?

I just don't understand it

:traciandchelle:

Best friends are usually soul mates but the soul just desires the connection with them
It is our mind that interprets it wrong sometimes



Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

Murrah

Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on June 12, 2019, 10:53:41 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM
Do you have friends that you are strongly attracted to?

Can you be in a friendship where you're attracted to someone or in one where yall have sex?

You question is rooted in the duality of relationships and friendships having limitations

If u like your friend
And your friend likes you
And sexual attraction is mutual

Theres nothing stopping you from having a great sexual chemistry and friendship with them

If u love them and they love you you can also have a great sexual relationship and friendship

If u want to be closer u can if u dont you dont

Ppul have these rules that if we fuck we must be exclusive and our friendship must change to in a relationship

None of that needs to happen

Ppul will say oh it will ruin the friendship if it was honestly rooted in friendship and not a subtle way to be more

Nothing changes

Fuck and playin playstation rest of the nite lol
You're ignoring the obvious, which is that having sex with those friends can feel borderline incestuous

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Murrah on June 12, 2019, 11:00:50 PM
Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on June 12, 2019, 10:53:41 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM
Do you have friends that you are strongly attracted to?

Can you be in a friendship where you're attracted to someone or in one where yall have sex?

You question is rooted in the duality of relationships and friendships having limitations

If u like your friend
And your friend likes you
And sexual attraction is mutual

Theres nothing stopping you from having a great sexual chemistry and friendship with them

If u love them and they love you you can also have a great sexual relationship and friendship

If u want to be closer u can if u dont you dont

Ppul have these rules that if we fuck we must be exclusive and our friendship must change to in a relationship

None of that needs to happen

Ppul will say oh it will ruin the friendship if it was honestly rooted in friendship and not a subtle way to be more

Nothing changes

Fuck and playin playstation rest of the nite lol
You're ignoring the obvious, which is that having sex with those friends can feel borderline incestuous

If they feel that way they shouldnt happen and usually dont

But

Many best friend dynamics do feel like family or home or completion
And its perfectly okay to desire that

Just like husband and wife arent blood related but are family
So is ur life partner in the form of ur best friend



Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

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reekz

Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on June 12, 2019, 10:53:41 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 12, 2019, 01:25:45 PM
Do you have friends that you are strongly attracted to?

Can you be in a friendship where you're attracted to someone or in one where yall have sex?

You question is rooted in the duality of relationships and friendships having limitations

If u like your friend
And your friend likes you
And sexual attraction is mutual

Theres nothing stopping you from having a great sexual chemistry and friendship with them

If u love them and they love you you can also have a great sexual relationship and friendship

If u want to be closer u can if u dont you dont

Ppul have these rules that if we fuck we must be exclusive and our friendship must change to in a relationship

None of that needs to happen

Ppul will say oh it will ruin the friendship if it was honestly rooted in friendship and not a subtle way to be more

Nothing changes

Fuck and playin playstation rest of the nite lol

You're every free and have no boundaries.

Kind of loosen.

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