Why do people always question others happiness/growth?

Started by Herb., November 30, 2015, 08:13:07 PM

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Kurama

Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.

That would be plausible had this just been "people on the internet". This is an online community. Some might even say an online family, people have grew up here and shared many of their own personal narratives with others. There have been several times when ppl have taken things quite personally, Herb included, and its understandable.

Also, the reason I'm speaking of online is for the same reason, we don't know him offline. Can't attest to his offline personality thus why I said if it's really him then stick with it, but dont act oblivious to why some people have this perception of you ONLINE....


Herb.

November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM #19 Last Edit: November 30, 2015, 09:26:25 PM by Herbie
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

mauza

I had to google "ramen noodles" to visualize what that bitch was talking about...

what kind of evil land this board has become

I want a butter pecan ice cream too

Herb.

Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:07:03 PM
Nah I don't get fake from your evolution. Probably because we're around the same age, I get you.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>><<<<<<<

BITCH. :plzstop:

L0NZ.

Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:22:55 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.

That would be plausible had this just been "people on the internet". This is an online community. Some might even say an online family, people have grew up here and shared many of their own personal narratives with others. There have been several times when ppl have taken things quite personally, Herb included, and its understandable.

Also, the reason I'm speaking of online is for the same reason, we don't know him offline. Can't attest to his offline personality thus why I said if it's really him then stick with it, but dont act oblivious to why some people have this perception of you ONLINE....

I see, I just think its immature for "those people" to not be able to consider that people change, and that it can very well be genuine because we AREN'T around them in their real lives to see that it was in fact, gradual.


Herb.

Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:29:11 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:22:55 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.

That would be plausible had this just been "people on the internet". This is an online community. Some might even say an online family, people have grew up here and shared many of their own personal narratives with others. There have been several times when ppl have taken things quite personally, Herb included, and its understandable.

Also, the reason I'm speaking of online is for the same reason, we don't know him offline. Can't attest to his offline personality thus why I said if it's really him then stick with it, but dont act oblivious to why some people have this perception of you ONLINE....

I see, I just think its immature for "those people" to not be able to consider that people change, and that it can very well be genuine because we AREN'T around them in their real lives to see that it was in fact, gradual.
Book.

I love you.

GLOCK

November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM #24 Last Edit: November 30, 2015, 09:43:28 PM by G L O C K
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion

Herb.

Honestly I was seriously considering leaving this board for good.

But then I realized I enjoy you guys, this is really like a family. You guys make me laugh. Why take that away from myself? And deprive myself of a place I have so much fun at :dead:. But I told myself if I were to stay here, I have to be representing MYSELF in a way that I find to be respectable at this point in MY life. I am to conduct myself NO DIFFERENT than I would in my real life.

This is why you guys see no makeup, you see no cheap wigs (insert curly/ramen noodle joke here :dead: ) , you see no KEN DAHL. You see no AFRO. You see Herbert. I'm tired of playing characters and portraying things that I am not.

Respect for me is no longer being acknowledged for dragging someone the best. Or a handclap for a wonderful exposure of someone. Or effortlessly hurting someone's feelings. But I don't sit here and JUDGE people on here who still find joy in these things. Cuz guess what, that was me not too long ago, so who am I to sit on a high horse and say "oh no this is a mess, clean yourself up guys! :uhh: "

But this is what some of you are doing to ME. You're telling me I'm a fake, I'm a try hard, I'm this, I'm that.....You're JUDGING me. I'm not on here to argue with you guys or to read all day and all night.

I can see if I sat on a soapbox giving speeches about "don't read each other guys" and "you fucking heathens", but I am not doing that to ya'll. I'm letting you be without judgement. And that's nothing hard for me to do. I know what BSource is about. If I log on I should know what to expect. And i LOVE my BSource family, "flaws" and all.




Phantom

Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion


Yeah sometimes it's just best to leave well enough alone. You're never gonna see eye to eye with some people no matter how many times you try to explain yourself. Hell, some people will give opposition just because it's you :dead: You know what it is. If they don't buy in, oh the fuck well. It is annoying to feel misunderstood, but sometimes you just gotta :letsmessfag: