Why do people always question others happiness/growth?

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Herb.

Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion
Well if that's my personality, what's the problem? This is who I am. There was never a real issue before with me "elevating" things when it was a thread about someone's exposure, etc. But this type of thread is just completely and overtly orchestrated? And uncalled for? This is where my confusion lies....

I make ONE thread about growth (cuz literally this is the only thread I've made about it) and I'm automatically RUNNING this topic into the ground? I'm sorry, but where's the logic in that?  This is what I'm talking about...... :plzstop:

However, I can accept that I do have a habit of LATCHING onto things and getting a bit obsessed! :cheerup: There are some things that NEVER change about people. Maybe that's the one thing that will be a mainstay with me. And I can definitely accept that, wholeheartedly. I believe there's truth in some of your words.

But I just believe there are some things you guys would rather not read. If this were a straight up dramatic call out thread with a cute read, drag and exposure, I doubt you'd be saying anything about me running something into the ground. It would simply be time 4 some mess. And if you say that I'm lying Glock..I will HURT u. :plzstop: U know its true.

And that's fine. But just say that you don't feel like reading about positivity or growth or whatever. I can understand that. It's just accusing people of being fake, etc. is what can get under skin.

Kurama

Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

Secondly, this thread is based off of ppl on what? Bsource, which is an online forum correct? So why would i be discussing the changes in your real life when you proclaim that you have always been this person? There is actually a time frame as well...you still were fuckin messing when this board was created.

Maybe someone could point me to where I said anything about you offline, since you two seem to be harping on it. Which is interesting cuz it shouldnt really matter seeing how you take things personally here as if its "real life".... :uhh:

Kurama

November 30, 2015, 10:01:17 PM #32 Last Edit: November 30, 2015, 10:02:02 PM by Kurama
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Like did I miss something :dead: ? Did I say I knew him in real life? Either way Im not here for that  "completely opposite offline" shenanigans. So we can agree to disagree. I honestly chimed in since no one else was but not here for the obliviousness and deflections. Especially when several ppl have the exact same perception :uhh:

GLOCK

Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:57:43 PM
Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion
Well if that's my personality, what's the problem? This is who I am. There was never a real issue before with me "elevating" things when it was a thread about someone's exposure, etc. But this type of thread is just completely and overtly orchestrated? And uncalled for? This is where my confusion lies....

I make ONE thread about growth (cuz literally this is the only thread I've made about it) and I'm automatically RUNNING this topic into the ground? I'm sorry, but where's the logic in that?  This is what I'm talking about...... :plzstop:

However, I can accept that I do have a habit of LATCHING onto things and getting a bit obsessed! :cheerup: There are some things that NEVER change about people. Maybe that's the one thing that will be a mainstay with me. And I can definitely accept that, wholeheartedly. I believe there's truth in some of your words.

But I just believe there are some things you guys would rather not read. If this were a straight up dramatic call out thread with a cute read, drag and exposure, I doubt you'd be saying anything about me running something into the ground. It would simply be time 4 some mess. And if you say that I'm lying Glock..I will HURT u. :plzstop: U know its true.

And that's fine. But just say that you don't feel like reading about positivity or growth or whatever. I can understand that. It's just accusing people of being fake, etc. is what can get under skin.
Funny thing is..
I enjoy every fucking thing u post TBRFHWY

I was just stating what it gives off
It never bothers me..
I just want u to know how impressionable u are here..
I run into every thread u make .. I find it all enjoyable..

But I'm observant and I watch what ur topics and posts do..
Even the new ones with different intent!

But I just wanted to say that.. Don't mind me king


Herb.

Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 10:02:32 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:57:43 PM
Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion
Well if that's my personality, what's the problem? This is who I am. There was never a real issue before with me "elevating" things when it was a thread about someone's exposure, etc. But this type of thread is just completely and overtly orchestrated? And uncalled for? This is where my confusion lies....

I make ONE thread about growth (cuz literally this is the only thread I've made about it) and I'm automatically RUNNING this topic into the ground? I'm sorry, but where's the logic in that?  This is what I'm talking about...... :plzstop:

However, I can accept that I do have a habit of LATCHING onto things and getting a bit obsessed! :cheerup: There are some things that NEVER change about people. Maybe that's the one thing that will be a mainstay with me. And I can definitely accept that, wholeheartedly. I believe there's truth in some of your words.

But I just believe there are some things you guys would rather not read. If this were a straight up dramatic call out thread with a cute read, drag and exposure, I doubt you'd be saying anything about me running something into the ground. It would simply be time 4 some mess. And if you say that I'm lying Glock..I will HURT u. :plzstop: U know its true.

And that's fine. But just say that you don't feel like reading about positivity or growth or whatever. I can understand that. It's just accusing people of being fake, etc. is what can get under skin.
Funny thing is..
I enjoy every fucking thing u post TBRFHWY

I was just stating what it gives off
It never bothers me..
I just want u to know how impressionable u are here..
I run into every thread u make .. I find it all enjoyable..

But I'm observant and I watch what ur topics and posts do..
Even the new ones with different intent!

But I just wanted to say that.. Don't mind me king
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Herb.

Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

L0NZ.

Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

sis is itching for your take on it. Did I miss!? I mean!?? Pardon!! WHEW!




Herb.

Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:09:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

sis is itching for your take on it. Did I miss!? I mean!?? Pardon!! WHEW!
sssss

I mean I didn't make this thread to argue with anyone or anything...
just wanted to be heard. it's only fair given the accusations that have been swirling around this board recently. :plzstop:

I'm good now  :stressed:

luv u GODnz