I'm sorry guys, I'm just so sick of the hypocrisy in the gay world period!
and these are the same ppl that have changed coming out from an independent act of strength and bravery ... to a public cry for acceptance
the same ppl that promote loving yourself ... yet encourage self-modification and personality warping just to fit within the parameters of the "gay culture"
the same ppl that cry about not being viewed with respect & dignity ... but conform to EVERY negative stereotype by choosing to be loud, messy, and sexually immoral
the same ppl that want to distinguish themselves as a viable culture .. but continuously push the boundaries just to mirror heterosexuals. Even to the extent of taking the sexual positions of tops and bottom, and creating an entire culture of dom/sub, only for the purpose of creating heteronormative environments to assuage their own insecurities of being gay
the same ppl that promote inclusivity, yet excluding an entire sector of gay men who don't conform to the notion of "acting gay" or living the gay lifestyle. Instead those men are sought after, looked as pieces of meat, and then exposed for not behaving accordingly
let's call this entire situation wtf it is... a big crockpot full of SHIT, and it's been fed to the community for decades