remember the guy I told ya'll about here:
http://brandy.4fans.net/index.php?topic=3705.msg89117#msg89117One of my coworkers happened to looking through her phone in the breakroom -- going through social media I suppose. He was right next to her looking at the phone , pointing out people saying "she's ugly."...."she's ugly"......like multiple people
Like carelessly just throwing around the "u" word...which
always makes me cringe.
But there's been plenty of instances when I've walked in the bathroom to see him in the mirror touching his face, where his acne, etc. is at. clearly he feels some type of way about the way he looks.
Normally, we're quick to label people as "haters", etc. And tbh if I didn't know his story, I would be looking at him like... "r u shemar?
" But sometimes its worth the time to consider and understand where its coming from. when people don't like something about themselves they may project that onto others. without even being aware of it.
Not saying he is right, just saying I can understand.
