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[Naomi Hit Me]

This was selfish of him. I just had to say it, sorry.

Didn't wanna say  but this was my first thought too. Leaving them behind was too much but.......that's exactly what u did
I'll always think that suicidal thoughts are either signs that someone is crazy or having major lapses in cognitive, rational thought because there's literally no logic behind it

Pressure hits people differently.
Not everyone is able to withstand that amount of stress and still manage
Plus he was a baby, starting college and still being homeless?

He wasn't that young to grabs this. He's mother is scarred for life because she made them homeless and he took his life.

He had a chance to turn it around. He was top rated, they would have made sure his family was good just so he could bring them wins and money.

Yh lots of couldves and maybes, someone in his situation needs certainties, can't live off hopes and dreams whilst being homeless
I'll never judge these people because I'm not in their situation to fully appreciate the severity of what they're going through

[LOONA.]

https://www.gofundme.com/f/bryce-gowdy-family

Already over 100K but like, her son is dead. Imaging raising a child from infancy to damn near college life and them suddenly dying before you. No amount of coin will ever be able to comfort her.     

[Bruce]

This is so sad, it's crazy how there is so much money here in the USA, yet people are homeless.

Everyone is not meant to be a parent. I just cannot understand having multiple children that you can't take care of. I feel sorry for her because she will have to live with the fact that her child reached out to her and she ignored him. She talks completely about herself. It is very hard having narcissistic parents, imagine need love and protection from your mother, and all she talks about is how SHE feels. People get through a lot of things in life, just knowing that someone cares. I don't really blame her, because you can see that she doesn't even have anyone around her that really cares. Its just so sad, you have to break those toxic cycles.

I noticed a few things from her video, when she said:

1) He was talking crazy
2) I told him I was dealing with my own demons
3) I wouldn't let him touch me
4) He was just talking for a few days - when she said this, she waved her hand in a way that shows that she dismissed whatever he was saying

Black parents have to start taking mental illness more serious.

[Naomi Hit Me]

I think it's important to remember that we are discussing a 19 year old

while we're judging him. And I think that there were possibly some mental health issues that may not have been addressed.

I've never lived out of a car as a kid, nor was I ever faced with the pressure of supporting my whole family as a teenager so I can't begin to comprehend what was going thru his mind.

!!!!
It's easy to say what he should've been done whilst typing from ya brand new phone in ya warm house whilst having ya dinner ubered to ya
Like fuck off

[Navyman]

This was selfish of him. I just had to say it, sorry.

!!!!
I'm so sorry and god bless him. But now they will stay there also with more pain than before he left. Like if he was one of the best wide receivers in the state he could've used that drive to get him into the NFL in 1 - 2 years and they wouldn't have to worry about that in the long run.

[reekz]

I think it's important to remember that we are discussing a 19 year old

while we're judging him. And I think that there were possibly some mental health issues that may not have been addressed.

I've never lived out of a car as a kid, nor was I ever faced with the pressure of supporting my whole family as a teenager so I can't begin to comprehend what was going thru his mind.

!!!!
It's easy to say what he should've been done whilst typing from ya brand new phone in ya warm house whilst having ya dinner ubered to ya
Like fuck off

But he was a week away from a warm bed bby. I don't get it.

[Bruce]

I think it's important to remember that we are discussing a 19 year old

while we're judging him. And I think that there were possibly some mental health issues that may not have been addressed.

I've never lived out of a car as a kid, nor was I ever faced with the pressure of supporting my whole family as a teenager so I can't begin to comprehend what was going thru his mind.

!!!!
It's easy to say what he should've been done whilst typing from ya brand new phone in ya warm house whilst having ya dinner ubered to ya
Like fuck off

He was only 17. So sad, to be going through so much and to not have anyone who cared.

[reekz]

This was selfish of him. I just had to say it, sorry.

!!!!
I'm so sorry and god bless him. But now they will stay there also with more pain than before he left. Like if he was one of the best wide receivers in the state he could've used that drive to get him into the NFL in 1 - 2 years and they wouldn't have to worry about that in the long run.

He wouldn't even have to wait tho. They would have gave his mother and brothers a room on campus or elsewhere. They wanted him BAD.

[Vonc2002]

This is so sad, it's crazy how there is so much money here in the USA, yet people are homeless.

Everyone is not meant to be a parent. I just cannot understand having multiple children that you can't take care of. I feel sorry for her because she will have to live with the fact that her child reached out to her and she ignored him. She talks completely about herself. It is very hard having narcissistic parents, imagine need love and protection from your mother, and all she talks about is how SHE feels. People get through a lot of things in life, just knowing that someone cares. I don't really blame her, because you can see that she doesn't even have anyone around her that really cares. Its just so sad, you have to break those toxic cycles.

I noticed a few things from her video, when she said:

1) He was talking crazy
2) I told him I was dealing with my own demons
3) I wouldn't let him touch me
4) He was just talking for a few days - when she said this, she waved her hand in a way that shows that she dismissed whatever he was saying

Black parents have to start taking mental illness more serious.

I honestly didn't even watch the video.  I knew there was some mental issues OFF TOP tho

[Navyman]

This is so sad, it's crazy how there is so much money here in the USA, yet people are homeless.

Everyone is not meant to be a parent. I just cannot understand having multiple children that you can't take care of. I feel sorry for her because she will have to live with the fact that her child reached out to her and she ignored him. She talks completely about herself. It is very hard having narcissistic parents, imagine need love and protection from your mother, and all she talks about is how SHE feels. People get through a lot of things in life, just knowing that someone cares. I don't really blame her, because you can see that she doesn't even have anyone around her that really cares. Its just so sad, you have to break those toxic cycles.

I noticed a few things from her video, when she said:

1) He was talking crazy
2) I told him I was dealing with my own demons
3) I wouldn't let him touch me
4) He was just talking for a few days - when she said this, she waved her hand in a way that shows that she dismissed whatever he was saying

Black parents have to start taking mental illness more serious.

Wow. I didn't watch the video. Too much for me, but this added a entire different layer to it.

[LOONA.]

This was selfish of him. I just had to say it, sorry.

!!!!
I'm so sorry and god bless him. But now they will stay there also with more pain than before he left. Like if he was one of the best wide receivers in the state he could've used that drive to get him into the NFL in 1 - 2 years and they wouldn't have to worry about that in the long run.

He wouldn't even have to wait tho. They would have gave his mother and brothers a room on campus or elsewhere. They wanted him BAD.

That's not how college works     

[Vonc2002]

This was selfish of him. I just had to say it, sorry.

!!!!
I'm so sorry and god bless him. But now they will stay there also with more pain than before he left. Like if he was one of the best wide receivers in the state he could've used that drive to get him into the NFL in 1 - 2 years and they wouldn't have to worry about that in the long run.

He wouldn't even have to wait tho. They would have gave his mother and brothers a room on campus or elsewhere. They wanted him BAD.

That's not how college works     

[Naomi Hit Me]

This was selfish of him. I just had to say it, sorry.

!!!!
I'm so sorry and god bless him. But now they will stay there also with more pain than before he left. Like if he was one of the best wide receivers in the state he could've used that drive to get him into the NFL in 1 - 2 years and they wouldn't have to worry about that in the long run.

He wouldn't even have to wait tho. They would have gave his mother and brothers a room on campus or elsewhere. They wanted him BAD.

And don't you think that would ADD to the stress?
Even IF that's how it would work (which it doesn't )
Now at 19 he's the breadwinner, if he flops they're back on the street
What kind of pressure is that for a teenager that sounds like he already has mental health problems
Everything doesn't need resolute judgment guys, just more emphathy

[Naomi Hit Me]

I think it's important to remember that we are discussing a 19 year old

while we're judging him. And I think that there were possibly some mental health issues that may not have been addressed.

I've never lived out of a car as a kid, nor was I ever faced with the pressure of supporting my whole family as a teenager so I can't begin to comprehend what was going thru his mind.

!!!!
It's easy to say what he should've been done whilst typing from ya brand new phone in ya warm house whilst having ya dinner ubered to ya
Like fuck off

But he was a week away from a warm bed bby. I don't get it.

He was a week away from a warm bed ...knowing that he'd be leaving his family behind in a car.

DId you watch the news video in the OP?

djdjdjdj who is this

[reekz]

This was selfish of him. I just had to say it, sorry.

!!!!
I'm so sorry and god bless him. But now they will stay there also with more pain than before he left. Like if he was one of the best wide receivers in the state he could've used that drive to get him into the NFL in 1 - 2 years and they wouldn't have to worry about that in the long run.

He wouldn't even have to wait tho. They would have gave his mother and brothers a room on campus or elsewhere. They wanted him BAD.

That's not how college works     

Man, do you know how many strings coaches will pull just to have a star player on their team.

I'm talking from personality experiences I've heard from boys of high school and college.