Birl Talk: Does phobia = preference? Will more BLK women end up with DL men....

Started by HUGO, February 28, 2020, 09:38:54 AM

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Gilgamesh.

First of all, Balleralert could care less about this dicussion they just want traffic to their blog :dead:

I'll post my thoughts a lil later...


Eh...

Phobia = an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion

People who say it's a preference but can't explain why I assume it's a phobia for the simple fact they keep referring to bisexual men as DL (not saying they have to explain to anyone but they should be able to). DL men consider themselves straight but sneak around with men "on the DL". Bisexual men aren't sneaking, if they are with a man they are with a man if they are with a woman they are with a woman. The reason I consider it a phobia bc they say "well I don't want a man who wants the same thing I want" but as a bisexual man I've never wanted a dick in my life but bc I've been with men that's the thought process when it comes to that. It's funny bc they'll say stuff like I don't want to have to worry about competing with women let alone women and men but there's a bigger underlining issues if you are worried about me cheating with anyone anyway.

I will never agree with needing to share that I'm bi immediately bc why would it matter for the simple fact that who I hooked up with before you is irrelevant if I'm only pursuing you. And I'll never understand gay guys that say it's wrong to not tell immediately bc if I get with a guy I don't tell them and there's no issue with that but it's an issue if I don't immediately tell women 🤦🏾‍♂️. I do believe it's wrong to not tell them when you all get serious bc it'll probably come back to bite you in the butt if you never mention it.
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Eh...

Tldr: I believe a lot of it stems from a phobia but at the same time not everyone is bi-phobic. Bisexuality is misunderstood by a lot of people especially black women bc they look at men as sexual beings so bisexuals are just out here fucking everybody in their minds or they believe men can't be bisexual if they get with men they want a man and are only pretending to like women
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Bentley. HARRIS!

this is tough

cause some women won't date a man that has slept with loose women, it turns them off

I still think it falls under preference, but their attitude about gays in general and the emasculating DOES happen without them dating them.

As a human being you have to be truly happy with yourself

like me... if I come across a person that's not interested in an extremely handsome, insanely talented, immensely creative, very intelligent, ambitious entrepreneur-ed up cocoa King with BODY ... well... their loss

basically I feel like too many ppl spend too much time tryna convince ppl to buy what they're selling.
If ppl are missing out on something, then they'll have to figure that out themselves.

I no longer have time to worry bout it

HUGO

Quote from: Eh... on February 28, 2020, 10:05:28 AM
DL men consider themselves straight but sneak around with men "on the DL". Bisexual men aren't sneaking, if they are with a man they are with a man if they are with a woman they are with a woman.
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HUGO

I just don't like the double standard as how women are free to be experimental With their sexuality  yet men can't. It's late

GLOCK

I wouldn't say anyone is wrong here 
I can't say I want to date someone who has a whorish past  so someone not wanting to date someone because they are  bi  doesn't give me phobia 

It gives me limited thinking 
now If they are bashing and such Yes it's phobia 

GLOCK

Quote from: Hugo on February 28, 2020, 10:31:28 AM
I just don't like the double standard as how women are free to be experimental With their sexuality  yet men can't. It's late
well men are allowed to be hoes.. women aren't

Eh...

Quote from: Bentley. THE Moderator. on February 28, 2020, 10:18:54 AM

basically I feel like too many ppl spend too much time tryna convince ppl to buy what they're selling.
If ppl are missing out on something, then they'll have to figure that out themselves.

I no longer have time to worry bout it


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REALucid

Quote from: Hugo on February 28, 2020, 10:31:28 AM
I just don't like the double standard as how women are free to be experimental With their sexuality  yet men can't. It's late
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