Birl Talk: Does phobia = preference? Will more BLK women end up with DL men....

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Dr Naomi Campbell

Quote from: Hugo on February 28, 2020, 10:31:28 AM
I just don't like the double standard as how women are free to be experimental With their sexuality  yet men can't. It's late

wizzy

I kinda get it. Its usually rooted in homophobia, doesn't always mean the woman is hateful or vicious towards gays. Not many women realize sexuality can be a spectrum for men also. So they're intolerant of openly bisexual men.

Eh...

Quote from: Gifted. on February 28, 2020, 11:20:41 AM
Ch...

I would never date a Bi man either.

cuz the ones I've come across platonically are the types who will jump ship as soon as they want marriage and chirren.

Lol the biggest issue I'm noticing doesn't seem to be a preference issue it seems to be a trust issue..
Both men and women think bi guys will jump ship as soon as they want something they can't provide women believing "a penis" and guys believing "ability to bare children" it's as if no one thinks a bisexual male has the capability of being faithful
Eh... 🤷🏾‍♂️

REALucid

Quote from: Estelle Ghetto on February 28, 2020, 11:45:09 AM
Not many women realize sexuality can be a spectrum for men also.

I had a discussion about this a while back with a female and she sincerely believed that a woman can be bisexual but a man can't. How can it be possible for one and not the other? Like we're different species or something. It's really interesting.
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Dr Naomi Campbell

Quote from: Eh... on February 28, 2020, 11:46:24 AM
Quote from: Gifted. on February 28, 2020, 11:20:41 AM
Ch...

I would never date a Bi man either.

cuz the ones I've come across platonically are the types who will jump ship as soon as they want marriage and chirren.

Lol the biggest issue I'm noticing doesn't seem to be a preference issue it seems to be a trust issue..
Both men and women think bi guys will jump ship as soon as they want something they can't provide women believing "a penis" and guys believing "ability to bare children" it's as if no one thinks a bisexual male has the capability of being faithful
!!!
I think a lot of it stems from "competition" and insecurity
Dating a Bi man may seem like now not only you have to watch out for other women but men too, and women can't compete with men or vice versa.

I. Hate. Monica.

Quote from: RealMatic on February 28, 2020, 11:49:51 AM
Quote from: Estelle Ghetto on February 28, 2020, 11:45:09 AM
Not many women realize sexuality can be a spectrum for men also.

I had a discussion about this a while back with a female and she sincerely believed that a woman can be bisexual but a man can't. How can it be possible for one and not the other? Like we're different species or something. It's really interesting.

:wub:


MelMel

Quote from: RealMatic on February 28, 2020, 11:49:51 AM
Quote from: Estelle Ghetto on February 28, 2020, 11:45:09 AM
Not many women realize sexuality can be a spectrum for men also.

I had a discussion about this a while back with a female and she sincerely believed that a woman can be bisexual but a man can't. How can it be possible for one and not the other? Like we're different species or something. It's really interesting.
awww Gramps  :wub:



Eh...

Quote from: RealMatic on February 28, 2020, 11:49:51 AM
Quote from: Estelle Ghetto on February 28, 2020, 11:45:09 AM
Not many women realize sexuality can be a spectrum for men also.

I had a discussion about this a while back with a female and she sincerely believed that a woman can be bisexual but a man can't. How can it be possible for one and not the other? Like we're different species or something. It's really interesting.

Yeah it seems to be a common mindset for women that if a guy gets with a guy he's just gay and can't possibly be interested in a women. Bisexuality doesn't exist in their mind for men
Eh... 🤷🏾‍♂️

wizzy

I liked when they did this story arc on Insecure. Very accurate and needed discussion.

MelMel

but there are gay people who don't believe in bisexuality either. Biphobia and bi-erasure  needs to be stopped


wizzy

Quote from: MelMel on February 28, 2020, 11:58:55 AM
but there are gay people who don't believe in bisexuality either. Biphobia and bi-erasure  needs to be stopped
very true. super limited mindset