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[Eh...]

but there are gay people who don't believe in bisexuality either. Biphobia and bi-erasure  needs to be stopped

Definitely!!

It always kills me when a gay dude asks someone who says they are bi well when the last time you been with a woman and if his response is longer than like a month or 2 ago then "he must be gay and just afraid to admit it" but if he's only been sleeping with women and it's been over a month or 2 since he's been with a guy no one says well he must be straight and just can't accept it 🤦🏾‍♂️

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I just don't like the double standard as how women are free to be experimental With their sexuality  yet men can't. It's late

well men are allowed to be hoes.. women aren't

That too. Which I think is wack af

[Seashell]

at the end of the day, it's a woman's right to date who she wants to date. if she's not interested in bi men and a bi man is interested in her, it's his responsibility to disclose his sexuality to her first. what the bigger problem here that no-one wants to discuss outright is the attitude towards LGBT within the Black community period. strides have been made but the community is still not that accepting. if it was, men wouldn't feel the need to hide themselves. there is a stigma against LGBT people in general but it's worse if you're a minority.
i don't think it's okay to throw Black women under the bus because they are the ones who care for Black LGBT the most. not all, but most younger women and a few older ones.
straight black men aren't going to cape for you.

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https://twitter.com/sunnydaejones/status/1232397315748614144?s=21

This was a good thread

Wow she made really good points

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Do you all think white women would be more excepting of a bisexual partner?

[Seashell]

Do you all think white women would be more excepting of a bisexual partner?

i think most would be. there are more positive representation for bisexuals within their community compared to our (Black) community therefore their people may understand it more. majority of white people are more accepting for LGBT anyway and it's probably the reason why DL men seem to go for white women.

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Debating over what someone else finds attractive is pointless. Date people genuinely who want you and shut the fuck up.

[Kaeli.]

I think women in general merge DL & Bisexual together and that's the real issue here 

but I really don't see why it's a big deal to gays/bi's that a black woman doesn't wanna date one. I mean it's a preference like everything else  

[Gilgamesh.]

Ch...

I would never date a Bi man either.

cuz the ones I've come across platonically are the types who will jump ship as soon as they want marriage and chirren.

Lol the biggest issue I'm noticing doesn't seem to be a preference issue it seems to be a trust issue..
Both men and women think bi guys will jump ship as soon as they want something they can't provide women believing "a penis" and guys believing "ability to bare children" it's as if no one thinks a bisexual male has the capability of being faithful

Do you think that's a valid concern though?

Cause ultimately I can't give what a woman can (not that I WANT to) but if ole boy says he misses coochie one day, what am I supposed to do? Lol

[Eh...]

Ch...

I would never date a Bi man either.

cuz the ones I've come across platonically are the types who will jump ship as soon as they want marriage and chirren.

Lol the biggest issue I'm noticing doesn't seem to be a preference issue it seems to be a trust issue..
Both men and women think bi guys will jump ship as soon as they want something they can't provide women believing "a penis" and guys believing "ability to bare children" it's as if no one thinks a bisexual male has the capability of being faithful

Do you think that's a valid concern though?

Cause ultimately I can't give what a woman can (not that I WANT to) but if ole boy says he misses coochie one day, what am I supposed to do? Lol

It's only valid if you are untrusting... If the guy wants you he wants you. If he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat, if he wants to leave he's gonna leave whether he's gay, straight, or bi. There's always something someone else can offer that you can't but if you are in a relationship you trust your partner not to go after that thing.

[Bentley. HARRIS!]

ppl can't grasp Bisexuality for the same reason they can't grasp homosexuality.

They really only see the sexual aspect, especially women who are insecure. Nobody likes to feel like they don't have something their partner might want.

And it does kinda get exhausting with ppl wanting open relationships and polygamy. They want it all. So I do see why ppl take that and go against bisexuality

But the truth of it it, whatever you have between your legs or whatever you get cut off or snapped on, it's not gonna stop ppl like that. These days if ppl have a wandering eye, they won't be happy with any one person.

If a person loves you, they won't feel like they're missing out on a thing

Whew ...

[REALucid]

Ch...

I would never date a Bi man either.

cuz the ones I've come across platonically are the types who will jump ship as soon as they want marriage and chirren.

Lol the biggest issue I'm noticing doesn't seem to be a preference issue it seems to be a trust issue..
Both men and women think bi guys will jump ship as soon as they want something they can't provide women believing "a penis" and guys believing "ability to bare children" it's as if no one thinks a bisexual male has the capability of being faithful

Do you think that's a valid concern though?

Cause ultimately I can't give what a woman can (not that I WANT to) but if ole boy says he misses coochie one day, what am I supposed to do? Lol

It's only valid if you are untrusting... If the guy wants you he wants you. If he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat, if he wants to leave he's gonna leave whether he's gay, straight, or bi. There's always something someone else can offer that you can't but if you are in a relationship you trust your partner not to go after that thing.

Good points

[Eh...]

at the end of the day, it's a woman's right to date who she wants to date. if she's not interested in bi men and a bi man is interested in her, it's his responsibility to disclose his sexuality to her first. what the bigger problem here that no-one wants to discuss outright is the attitude towards LGBT within the Black community period. strides have been made but the community is still not that accepting. if it was, men wouldn't feel the need to hide themselves. there is a stigma against LGBT people in general but it's worse if you're a minority.
i don't think it's okay to throw Black women under the bus because they are the ones who care for Black LGBT the most. not all, but most younger women and a few older ones.
straight black men aren't going to cape for you.

I do agree that it's a PERSON'S choice who they date but why is it that you only mention bisexual guys only telling women they are bisexual but not men? If we openly date both why is there so much pressure that we share our sexuality to the women we date immediately but no one cares if we share it with the men we date ever?

[BAPHOMET.]

Do you all think white women would be more excepting of a bisexual partner?

[BAPHOMET.]

Debating over what someone else finds attractive is pointless. Date people genuinely who want you and shut the fuck up.