ok, u gorls gotta use some intellectual honesty.
TRUE:
- there is a stigma about transgender people in this country
- transgender can and many times do face physical danger due to their sexual identity
ALSO TRUE:
- there are transgender ppl that intentionally misled and trick people into sexual situation KNOWING that the individual does not or may not desire to be with a trans
this is deception
you have to be able to acknowledge that trans girls that are victims while ALSO acknowledging the trans girls that are not. are we really going to pretend that every trans girls is just an innocent flower being terrorized by the world? no. being trans has nothing to do with your CHARACTER. some people are good people and some people are bad people. being trans does not admonish someone from the possibility of being deceptive. no one is saying all trans people are deceptive. but some of them do. and again, not disclosing your sexual identity to a potential partner is a prime example of this.
and no one has yet to provide ONE good reason why a trans person SHOULDN'T disclose their gender identity to someone that they are looking to pursue. the idea that one can be comfortable enough to drop down and suck a niggas dick but not comfortable enough to tell him about your mess?
and is anyone going to acknowledge how unfair it is for a trans person's partner to be left in the dark about this? is anyone going to address how this unfairly takes the partner's choice away? honestly don't reply to me until you can address that.
