This is why (trans mess)

Started by L0NZ., April 08, 2020, 02:46:45 PM

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L0NZ.

Like if a bisexual man told a woman he wanted to date that he's been with men too, and she didn't use.....

I mean is that homophobic? And if it is, is she wrong? Like, thats her right.


Edge gorl

April 08, 2020, 07:50:07 PM #91 Last Edit: April 08, 2020, 07:53:19 PM by You'nt know nann ho!
but yea...tha gorls should stop this shit narrative.
i told tha current nigga im wit...guess wat he ask me?..."u fine idc, u smke?"

aint like niggas gaf an'ways...especially if u fine
like myself

GLOCK

April 08, 2020, 07:50:10 PM #92 Last Edit: April 08, 2020, 07:50:52 PM by GLOCK
the girls wanna call folks transphobic but that gooping shit only leaves them DEAD somewhere...
i love everyone.. my growth over the years cant be denied..
but I dont agree with folks laying with ppl and not telling them the whole truth..

it's one of the many reasons why I stay away from women now.. because unless they are really worth me telling them all of who I am.. im not fucking laying with them..
the trans girls arent getting a pass..

if u were born a nigga.. or born a bitch.. let the person fucking  know..
it's simple..use it as a teaching moment.. and you might be surprised at how many folks would wanna fuck u ..

its the acting for me.. no matter how much work u do.. and the lies u speak.. u were no biologically born a woman.. and thats fine.. be proud IN THAT

yummy

April 08, 2020, 07:50:34 PM #93 Last Edit: April 08, 2020, 07:50:53 PM by animmai.
Quote from: LOONA. on April 08, 2020, 07:47:20 PM
But yh

The trans gurs are subjected to violence on the daily, and your safety isnt guaranteed around someone you're romantically or platonically involved with.

All the more reason why you probably shouldn't playing around with being truthful to potential partners, especially when you like to chase after tradey hood niggas

This is all common sense and I'm kinda confused as to why I even have to say it  :dead:

Sovereign.

Quote from: GLOCK on April 08, 2020, 07:38:27 PM
if you arent comfortable.. u shouldnt be trans tbh
just be drag..

I wouldnt dare change my sex and not be proud of everything I am.. despite those that may question it or look down at it.
the only way we will move forward if girls are out loud with it.. and looking the part..and allowing us to live among them to change our ignorances and mess surrounding them.

So a lot of what you say here, King, is the majority's argument.

Trans and drag are distinctly different. Drag is an art form. Trans is how someone identifies outside of their given gender assignment.

And I can't argue for you what your journey as trans person would be because that wouldn't be MY journey. All I will say is that the stigma surrounding trans lives is similar to that of a black life. There are oppressive forces that still won't allow you to BE.

But salute to those trans folk who are unafraid to walk in their truth despite those forces that do everything they can to silence them.

LOONA.

Quote from: animmai. on April 08, 2020, 07:50:34 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on April 08, 2020, 07:47:20 PM
But yh

The trans gurs are subjected to violence on the daily, and your safety isnt guaranteed around someone you're romantically or platonically involved with.

All the more reason why you probably shouldn't playing around with being truthful to potential partners, especially when you like to chase after tradey hood niggas

This is all common sense and I'm kinda confused as to why I even have to say it  :dead:

Yeah but the type of trans gurs running around playing russian roulette with trade arent really looking for anything past a hookup and they don't represent the majority of their community. They're most likely sex workers.

Sovereign.

Quote from: L0NZ. on April 08, 2020, 07:46:30 PM
Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:43:23 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 08, 2020, 07:40:09 PM
Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:32:26 PM
There is actual stigma (patriarchy) that prevent what appears to be something as trivial as professing to your partner "I'm trans" to turning around and being murdered by that same person.


Why would that happen? Why would the partner murder the trans person out of nowhere?

It happens alllllll the time. Folks insecurity will have them misbehave.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/US/boyfriend-charged-death-22-year-transgender-woman-found/story%3fid=65179146

I know it does, and I read the article hoping to find something pertaining to when, or if the victim disclosed the information to the guy but no mention of it. Its important and makes a difference.

So not finding that information in the article leaves room enough for her boyfriend to take her life?

GLOCK

there is nothing wrong with being trans (if you do it right and dress the part).. so im so confused why girls are ashamed

spending thousands of dollars but walking around playing halloween everyday.. because subsequently that is what they are saying.. that it's an act that they have to stay in character for to pull off.. 
do u girls not see how the whole concept of "being born in the wrong body".. gets canceled out when u get surg and mones to look like women.. but also shy away from sharing your journey with intimate potentials? 

REALucid

Used to write our names in car fog



L0NZ.

Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:53:16 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 08, 2020, 07:46:30 PM
Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:43:23 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 08, 2020, 07:40:09 PM
Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:32:26 PM
There is actual stigma (patriarchy) that prevent what appears to be something as trivial as professing to your partner "I'm trans" to turning around and being murdered by that same person.


Why would that happen? Why would the partner murder the trans person out of nowhere?

It happens alllllll the time. Folks insecurity will have them misbehave.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/US/boyfriend-charged-death-22-year-transgender-woman-found/story%3fid=65179146

I know it does, and I read the article hoping to find something pertaining to when, or if the victim disclosed the information to the guy but no mention of it. Its important and makes a difference.

So not finding that information in the article leaves room enough for her boyfriend to take her life?

If he felt deceived, tricked, and was unstable enough to do so because she....didnt....tell....him....from....jump..... I guess the answer is yes :uhh:


BAPHOMET.



GLOCK

Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:50:56 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on April 08, 2020, 07:38:27 PM
if you arent comfortable.. u shouldnt be trans tbh
just be drag..

I wouldnt dare change my sex and not be proud of everything I am.. despite those that may question it or look down at it.
the only way we will move forward if girls are out loud with it.. and looking the part..and allowing us to live among them to change our ignorances and mess surrounding them.

So a lot of what you say here, King, is the majority's argument.

Trans and drag are distinctly different. Drag is an art form. Trans is how someone identifies outside of their given gender assignment.

And I can't argue for you what your journey as trans person would be because that wouldn't be MY journey. All I will say is that the stigma surrounding trans lives is similar to that of a black life. There are oppressive forces that still won't allow you to BE.

But salute to those trans folk who are unafraid to walk in their truth despite those forces that do everything they can to silence them.
u know I love u fave.. but bby..they just arent the same
like not remotely..

trans is a choice.. ive always felt this way and that is where most pro trans girls differ from me..
like someone being FAT.. and getting lipo and that staple stomach mess to be thin..is far more relative to trans than that of a black person in america  :unsure:

I feel that it is very much so appropriate to not like the skin (trans, weight, plastic surg) you are in.. and change it..
and understand that you had a choice in the matter..

I really want the girls to embrace this

BigDawg

Why would anyone want to be in a relationship under false pretenses? To me that is entrapment, for a trans to romantically get involved with a straight person and not disclose that they are transgender. That is completely stripping away someone's right to proactively choose who they want to be with.

GLOCK

I mean we have freedom to do what we want..
and call it that!


trans is a choice when it comes to physically changing and remixing your MESS.
IM NOT MOVING ON IT

LOONA.

April 08, 2020, 07:59:38 PM #104 Last Edit: April 08, 2020, 07:59:47 PM by LOONA.
Quote from: GLOCK on April 08, 2020, 07:58:52 PM
I mean we have freedom to do what we want..
and call it that!


trans is a choice when it comes to physically changing and remixing your MESS.
IM NOT MOVING ON IT

Boy shutup