This is why (trans mess)

Started by L0NZ., April 08, 2020, 02:46:45 PM

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Sovereign.

Quote from: MelMel on April 08, 2020, 03:23:53 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on April 08, 2020, 03:19:49 PM
Why would u not proudly say it.. since there's no shame behind it :blink:

youre a trans woman...there should be delight in that
there's a stigma attached to it,unfortunately

like there is one to being gay still

I get it. Society is stupid and late as fuck on things (there are still men who believe a woman should only be a housewife, for instance) so not saying about anything about being trans is understandable. It ain't anyone's business--unless you plan to do anything sexual with a person. Let them make a choice if they want to be with you.

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LOONA.

Y'all know Glock is retarded 

fedswatchin

Quote from: L0NZ. on April 08, 2020, 02:46:45 PM
https://mobile.twitter.com/damienxpat/status/1247746092814352384

Like wtf? Shut the fuck UP. This is so ridiculous. I'm moreso speaking on the part about withholding that info when the intent is romantic involvement
I agree

fedswatchin

Like, that's purposefully playing games

fedswatchin

Quote from: Apollo XXI on April 08, 2020, 04:00:56 PM
Quote from: 🌮. on April 08, 2020, 03:44:20 PM
Quote from: ophelia on April 08, 2020, 03:43:02 PM
its really simple

no u don't have to tell any ole random person that you're trans

however

you OWE that information to a potential sexual/romantic partner

some people do no want to be with a trans person for their own reasons. the trans gorls know this. so when they opt to keep this a secret they are intentionally being DECEPTIVE.

they know there is a possibility a partner might reject them if they disclose being trans, so they keep it a secret. thats literally the only reason you would keep this from a potential partner.

and that is WRONG.

i don't even understand why some of them are so hell bent in tricking these niggas. i don't want anybody who don't want ME  :uhh:

also a lying trans + a unstable murderous fuckboy = a potentially deadly situation.

like i understand a trans gor being hesitant to just shout it from the rooftops. our society is growing but it aint there yet. however, there is NO excuse for not disclosing this to a potential partner. trans are obligated to share this info in THAT situation. absolutely no excuse or justification for no doing so.

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Sovereign.

And some of the rhetoric in here is dangerous which is why trans folk don't feel SAFE to disclose.

deceive!

No....y'all are just harmful.

oph.

Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:03:19 PM
And some of the rhetoric in here is dangerous which is why trans folk don't feel SAFE to disclose.

deceive!

No....y'all are just harmful.

so are you saying that deception plays NO part in regards to a trans individual not disclosing this to a potential sexual and/or romantic partner?

Dr Naomi Campbell

Eek faggots really lack empathy

Sovereign.

What a trans identified person chooses to disclose to their partners is their business. If they feel SAFE and affirmed by their partner then be it as it may....do Y'ALL! But trans folk don't owe the general public anything or anyone for that matter anything.

Sovereign.

And remove deception from your vocabulary. Trans folk take the necessary precautions to stay alive. The transphobia performed on this board is great example of surviving. And this is a bunch of anonymous niggas on the internet hiding behind a screen.

Think of how transphobia functions in our daily lives. It's very much so the byproduct of white Herero-patriarchy. 

yummy

So, is this in regards to people you're dating or platonic relationships?

:udontlookok:

MelMel

Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:17:38 PM
What a trans identified person chooses to disclose to their partners is their business. If they feel SAFE and affirmed by their partner then be it as it may....do Y'ALL! But trans folk don't owe the general public anything or anyone for that matter anything.

oph.

Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:17:38 PM
What a trans identified person chooses to disclose to their partners is their business. If they feel SAFE and affirmed by their partner then be it as it may....do Y'ALL! But trans folk don't owe the general public anything or anyone for that matter anything.

this is literal deception in addition to being selfish and completely self-serving. their partner has the RIGHT to decide wether or not they want to be with a trans a person. they don't have the right to take that choice from a potential partner.

also, why would a trans person even consider persueing a physical or romantic relationship with someone that they DIDN'T feel comfortable enough yo disclose their identity to?

see, any way you slice it, there just no justification gor keeping this from potential partners.

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: ophelia on April 08, 2020, 07:14:42 PM
Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:03:19 PM
And some of the rhetoric in here is dangerous which is why trans folk don't feel SAFE to disclose.

deceive!

No....y'all are just harmful.

so are you saying that deception plays NO part in regards to a trans individual not disclosing this to a potential sexual and/or romantic partner?


BAPHOMET.

Quote from: ophelia on April 08, 2020, 07:24:39 PM
Quote from: Sovereign. on April 08, 2020, 07:17:38 PM
What a trans identified person chooses to disclose to their partners is their business. If they feel SAFE and affirmed by their partner then be it as it may....do Y'ALL! But trans folk don't owe the general public anything or anyone for that matter anything.

this is literal deception in addition to being selfish and completely self-serving. their partner has the RIGHT to decide wether or not they want to be with a trans a person. they don't have the right to take that choice from a potential partner.

also, why would a trans person even consider persueing a physical or romantic relationship with someone that they DIDN'T feel comfortable enough yo disclose their identity to?

see, any way you slice it, there just no justification gor keeping this from potential partners.