its really simple
no u don't have to tell any ole random person that you're trans
however
you OWE that information to a potential sexual/romantic partner
some people do no want to be with a trans person for their own reasons. the trans gorls know this. so when they opt to keep this a secret they are intentionally being DECEPTIVE.
they know there is a possibility a partner might reject them if they disclose being trans, so they keep it a secret. thats literally the only reason you would keep this from a potential partner.
and that is WRONG.
i don't even understand why some of them are so hell bent in tricking these niggas. i don't want anybody who don't want ME

also a lying trans + a unstable murderous fuckboy = a potentially deadly situation.
like i understand a trans gor being hesitant to just shout it from the rooftops. our society is growing but it aint there yet. however, there is NO excuse for not disclosing this to a potential partner. trans are obligated to share this info in THAT situation. absolutely no excuse or justification for no doing so.
patchwork selves