and anyone who knows me in real life will tell u exactly how black i am.
as in, many of the same people who questioned my origins when they first met me.
as in, people like u who ZOOM in on things like hair, skin tones, bone structures, undertones, features and mess when they have a whole human being in front of them
then use them to tell someone who different they are.
i knew absolutely nothing about the nuances of race until i met people like you. who are clearly fixated on the smallest things about others that honestly shouldn't matter at the end of the day.
if i were u i'd be somewhere questioning why u r so obsessed with this conversation about hair. because your assumptions are WAY off.