does anyone believe OG experienced colorism on BBW yet?

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Quote from: Kalifornia. on March 26, 2021, 11:46:00 PM
I think them forcing her to sit in a separate area at that reunion is a bit suspect
yea that definitely had colorist undertones
I don't even know why she agreed to that. Either I'm there with everybody or I'm not doing it



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March 27, 2021, 01:18:44 PM #18 Last Edit: March 27, 2021, 01:18:52 PM by Nine Fushiguro.
Damn this thread backfired on Oph' huh?


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Quote from: RAY7 on March 27, 2021, 09:19:30 AM
Quote from: Kalifornia. on March 26, 2021, 11:46:00 PM
I think them forcing her to sit in a separate area at that reunion is a bit suspect
yea that definitely had colorist undertones
I don't even know why she agreed to that. Either I'm there with everybody or I'm not doing it

!!! Especially considering that Evelyn is probably the most violent bitch in the history of reality TV and they never treated her like that.

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March 27, 2021, 01:46:31 PM #22 Last Edit: March 27, 2021, 02:02:36 PM by conceit.
reminds me of that scene in the people vs. OJ Simpson

where chris darden was forced to do a pre-interview with mark furhman

he came back and told the DA (marcia clark). "i cant do this. he's too blatantly racist. can someone else take him on?"

marcia said, "what did he say?"

he replied, "he was very 'polite'. with me. kept saying 'yes sir'. it was very condescending."

she said, "ummmm if he was being polite, how is that racist? :shannonsmissing: or condescending? he's racist because he was extra polite to you?  :uhh: :uhh: u good? boy get back in htere lol and stop acting like he called u a n*gger lolz "

he said , "NO its a feeling. i cant explain it. but i dont think this is gonna go well."

it was so hard for him to CONVEY what he FELT to her because she wasn't a black man.
i can imagine the frustration is the same for someone like OG

dark skinned, unambiguously black women definitely know when they're feeling something
im glad funky finally stepped away from the conversation cuz he admitted that he didn't even now what "featurism" is in 2021.

the fact that someone as dark as tatyana ali was asked to be included in that "light girls" documentary shows that there are so many NUANCES within the conversation that need to be explored before you step into it.

a lot of unspoken mess that you need to pay attention to and take time to learn about before you begin hushing dark skinned women like OG.



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RAY7

I do think that her issues with her cast members have little to do with colorism. Ppl don't have to think she's attractive to not be colorist 

Scott.

It's not about whether she's attractive or not. It's the clear double standards in the situation 

RAY7

What situation? I already said the reunion was messed up. 

klappa.

Quote from: RAY7 on March 27, 2021, 02:20:44 PM
I do think that her issues with her cast members have little to do with colorism. Ppl don't have to think she's attractive to not be colorist

THANK YOU.

and in regard to the reunion mess:

a) she WAS aggressive and made threats
b) yea EV and TAMI , def shoulda had seperate stages in the past but they are best friends with shaunie... an EP. so i agree there def a souble standard. and that doesble standard is favortism, NOT colorism.

klappa.

Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on March 27, 2021, 01:18:44 PM
Damn this thread backfired on Oph' huh?

i asked a question and it's being answered!

but backfired!

:dead:

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Quote from: conceit. on March 27, 2021, 01:46:31 PM
reminds me of that scene in the people vs. OJ Simpson

where chris darden was forced to do a pre-interview with mark furhman

he came back and told the DA (marcia clark). "i cant do this. he's too blatantly racist. can someone else take him on?"

marcia said, "what did he say?"

he replied, "he was very 'polite'. with me. kept saying 'yes sir'. it was very condescending."

she said, "ummmm if he was being polite, how is that racist? :shannonsmissing: or condescending? he's racist because he was extra polite to you?  :uhh: :uhh: u good? boy get back in htere lol and stop acting like he called u a n*gger lolz "

he said , "NO its a feeling. i cant explain it. but i dont think this is gonna go well."

it was so hard for him to CONVEY what he FELT to her because she wasn't a black man.
i can imagine the frustration is the same for someone like OG



Could Chris Darden have had his own issues with an inferiority complex? Was he thrown aback by Mark, or any White man answering to him as "sir?" Was THAT what didn't feel right? His inner turmoil and trauma manifesting inexplicable feelings of unease, by the mere presence of a successful, confident White man calling you "sir?"  If his words were actually "take him on", I mean its clear.


klappa.

Quote from: The Night King on March 27, 2021, 07:50:24 AM
Well....maybe they shouldn't use that word to describe her on national TV with the optics of the way others perceive it. She's the darkest amongst them and if they call her ugly people will immediately think it's colorist because her features are very African and as black as they come.

OR ppl need to stop thinking its colorist anytime you call a dark skinned person ugly or say ANYTHING else for that matter lol