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[FRANCE]

Why are some of putting pressure on this kid to represent the entire spectrum of the gay community? The gay community is a SPECTRUM. There are manly gays, fem gays, DL gays, hood gays, you name it. The only person he owes representation to is HIMSELF. If he's fem, or on some spectrum thereabouts, he doesn't owe shit to any of you. What the fuck is wrong with y'all? Stop projecting YOUR desires onto this kid and let him live HIS fucking truth. Damn.

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I really don't get it either.

IF and I mean IF I felt he wasnt being himself, I would call him out on it. But this nigga is a damn queen. Let him queen the fuck out.

[Dr Naomi Campbell]

These mannish water drinking battygorls spoke the word in here

[JCJ]

Some of you have some internalized homophobia to work through

[FRANCE]

Some of you have some internalized homophobia to work through

[Young]

I get wanting more representation and diversity  for the LGBT community—particularly how Gay Black men are represented.

However that really has nothing to do with Lil Nas doing HIM.

Put pressure on some of these closeted gays in the industry now. I think the bigger issue is why don't they feel comfortable coming out?

The fumes seem a bit misplaced in here. I applaud him for his bravery—truly.

[Freemala Harris]

Aw

King seems so happy now 

Proud self

[FRANCE]

I get wanting more representation and diversity  for the LGBT community—particularly how Gay Black men are represented.

However that really has nothing to do with Lil Nas doing HIM.

Put pressure on some of these closeted gays in the industry now. I think the bigger issue is why don't they feel comfortable coming out?

The fumes seem a bit misplaced in here. I applaud him for his bravery—truly.

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They dont wanna have that convo tho.

[Freemala Harris]

I get wanting more representation and diversity  for the LGBT community—particularly how Gay Black men are represented.

However that really has nothing to do with Lil Nas doing HIM.

Put pressure on some of these closeted gays in the industry now. I think the bigger issue is why don't they feel comfortable coming out?

The fumes seem a bit misplaced in here. I applaud him for his bravery—truly.

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where they @ where they @?

[Freemala Harris]

Shit

We'll get hyper masc zorl representation when one of these kings tip the fuck OWT no chaser

[pCj]

Wow the repressed gorls got stomped the fuck out in here

[stillpretty]

Lil nas is just doing him

Flamboyant gays will always get more media coverage cuz it's more "fun" .

And the comments in this thread are kinda why I was confused about why so many gay men were upset with Nipseys comments about gay feminine men being pushed in the media

Even as a gay non-masculine guy I could kinda see where he's coming from , just as I can understand where non-feminine gay men are coming from when they complain about the lack of representation

It's not a figment of the imagination that the media favors flamboyant gay representation over more relaxed or tamed teas.

It's not a figment of the imagination that a lot of people expect all gays to know how to do people's hair, have a great sense of fashion, do great interior decorating and be their best "girlfriends".  Which all can kinda be taken back to media representation.

[stillpretty]

I just think we tend to always see things from one side ... which is usually OUR side of it. As opposed to being open to reasonably consider ALL sides .

We get super emotional and our thinking cap is thrown to the backseat .

which is understandable. It's a touchy topic with a lot of mess, trauma and hurt involved . But I'm never offended if I see a masculine gay man saying he wishes he could see more of "him" on TV.

[Nine]

Some of you have some internalized homophobia to work through

[❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️]

Why are some of putting pressure on this kid to represent the entire spectrum of the gay community? The gay community is a SPECTRUM. There are manly gays, fem gays, DL gays, hood gays, you name it. The only person he owes representation to is HIMSELF. If he's fem, or on some spectrum thereabouts, he doesn't owe shit to any of you. What the fuck is wrong with y'all? Stop projecting YOUR desires onto this kid and let him live HIS fucking truth. Damn.

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Battybwoy. Chat tuh meh fucking back.

[BRockaBaby]

For the record, my comments were not asking Lil Nas to wear the burden of black gay representation on his shoulders. In fact, I said multiple times I'm all for freedom of expression and am happy he can express himself. I was speaking to the diversity, which isn't condemning him. 

Wanting more of one thing does not mean you want less of  another. Very "yes add some more chicken to that rice". Not "nah that's too much rice, take some off and add some chicken." Stupid way to put it but yea, you get what I mean. 

Not sure why the aggression about letting him live his life. I,for one, never said there was anything WRONG with how he chooses to express himself.