Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 09, 2023, 07:09:43 PMSorry Afro but I'm not buying it. The fact that u felt the need to AUDIO RECORD people having conversation about ur hair is weird and I definitely have my thoughts about what all that was, so the "outrage" is a lil hysterical to me.
the bolded: that's absolutely fair. and yes the audio recordings were a LOT luv. i def agree with u.
in retrospect it was pretty embarrassing.
but let me break it down to u....
i share my experience: saying..."guys people keep asking me where im from. telling me that i remind me of this group of people, or that group, or that my hair reminds them of ancient egyptians
... and bringing me pics of somalis . or swearing im dominican. just the most random shit.
they seem genuinely interested in where my family is from
"
the response is: "stop lying , why r u making this stuff up? u good fro?
the delusions !
omf! "
so what was i left to do in order to prove i wasnt sitting around making up lies about my life experiences?
is it embarrassing in the rear view? umm yeah . do i agree with u that i was doing too much...
or maybe even SHARING too much on here? yes. yes. yes. i have to take accountability for that part.
however,
am i shocked that i actually found out that two of my grandparents are multi-ethnic? one of them coming from a rare group of people that are actually known for their racial ambiguity?
nope, it makes sense.
but i def overshared. and was doing the most. sfsfsfsfs
ill give u that for sure.
