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Question: would u forgive ha?
Option 1: Yes.
Option 2: Coon, plea.
Title: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 17, 2021, 05:59:37 PM
i know she tried to apologize but it was really half-ass and nobody bought it. but if she were to come out with a GENUINE (seemingly, at least) mess... would you use ?

some reminders on what got ha cancelled to begin with

https://youtu.be/zGwjWcFbvPo
https://youtu.be/gsSln064ZJ4
https://youtu.be/FAppNlNSnXk
https://youtu.be/68rpl0rFQTU

bonus:
https://youtu.be/nsWhStEJSx

the "apology"
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/dailymailtv/video-2373024/Stacey-Dash-says-shes-stepping-away-political-scene.html


deducting 1 from the "Yes" votes to account for 'fro

:ATLcameo:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 17, 2021, 06:13:59 PM
Hell no

She did her dirt

Pay the price  :trannyjblige:

Kwee is beautiful but I don't trust ha

I don't ever see myself believing anything she does is "heartfelt". That whole "angry black woman" apology she came with was offensive in itself and shows how DISCONNECTED she is .

She couldn't even fake apologize correctly with the right language . :omf: like a damn white womuh or something

How do U manage to do FURTHER damage by promoting stereotypes of black women with ur APOLOGY

:plzstop:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: CHOKE on September 17, 2021, 06:20:31 PM
What's to forgive?  :uhh:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Kalifornia. on September 17, 2021, 06:25:49 PM
I don't fuck with her and still wouldn't if she apologized. She was very aware of what she was doing and now it blew up in her face.

I can see if she made an honest mistake, but her cooning was a conscious effort and was harmful to our community.

People like that don't deserve forgiveness.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 17, 2021, 06:26:29 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 17, 2021, 06:13:59 PM
Hell no

:guys:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 17, 2021, 06:27:12 PM
(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 17, 2021, 06:33:04 PM
And GODlli is another one

Dressing up in full Indian garb on twitter to celebrate curry seasoning from her great great grandpa .

But can't type "BLM" or speak up on black shit just ONE  time . ONE TIME 😡

I love me a pretty gor but I ain't with the SHITS.
I ain't blind either. I see ALL the mess

(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on September 17, 2021, 06:35:14 PM
Kwee had everyone's best interest when she said that mess.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Kalifornia. on September 17, 2021, 06:36:35 PM
(https://thejasminebrand.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/stacey-dash-vs-BET-the-jasmine-brand.jpg)
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on September 17, 2021, 06:39:05 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia. on September 17, 2021, 06:36:35 PM
(https://thejasminebrand.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/stacey-dash-vs-BET-the-jasmine-brand.jpg)
Period.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 17, 2021, 06:47:44 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 17, 2021, 06:27:12 PM
(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)

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Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on September 17, 2021, 07:21:31 PM
yes everyone deserves forgiveness 
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Freemala Harris on September 17, 2021, 08:23:52 PM
(https://empirebbk.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/stacey-dash-bet.gif)
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on September 17, 2021, 08:24:41 PM
Quote from: Freemala Harris on September 17, 2021, 08:23:52 PM
(https://empirebbk.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/stacey-dash-bet.gif)
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Queen said the segregation must STOP!
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Freemala Harris on September 17, 2021, 08:29:20 PM
Quote from: Planet Her on September 17, 2021, 08:24:41 PM
Quote from: Freemala Harris on September 17, 2021, 08:23:52 PM
(https://empirebbk.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/stacey-dash-bet.gif)
gbbbbbbvbvgv

Queen said the segregation must STOP!

(https://i.gifer.com/FdPD.gif)

:supluv:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Hatsumomo on September 17, 2021, 08:34:55 PM
Yes because she's woman enough to admit her mistakes of outright cooning, unlike Candace. Who owes the entire black community the most sincerest apologies for all the vitriol she's been spewing over the years to advance her political career and make money off  of it. Karma getting that ass. Candace is gonna gag. Already is. 
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Annie on September 18, 2021, 11:56:10 AM
I think she said what she said..
and just because you are pretty doesn't mean you can get chance after chance 
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 11:59:17 AM
Would I use? For what?

Who is she mmmmmm. Not really thinking about her.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Nine on September 18, 2021, 12:02:38 PM
I mean, the gorls can sweep anything that KOONye does under the rug so sure, why not

(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on September 18, 2021, 12:04:05 PM
Quote from: Annie on September 18, 2021, 11:56:10 AM
just because you are pretty doesn't mean you can get chance after chance
Says WHO?

(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Annie on September 18, 2021, 12:05:24 PM
I am glad she snapped out of it. But the Capitol riots were after Trump was fired. There were already so many red flags before. 
Didn't she get arrested and had trouble in her relationship? I do believe what she said that she had personal problems and that somewhat explains her behavior. 
So yes I feel bad for her in a way and I'm glad she won't be in politics anymore but also don't really know what it means to give her another chance. I have no clue if she is still acting.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Annie on September 18, 2021, 12:06:10 PM
Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on September 18, 2021, 12:02:38 PM
I mean, the gorls can sweep anything that KOONye does under the rug so sure, why not

(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)

Yes you do have a point
Same thing that Chrisette Michele was talking about
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:10:39 PM
Kanye is a man. For one.

2, he's much more valuable than they are from an entertainment angle. Not because he's a man, but his contributions to our culture far outweigh Stacey's 2 movies and Chrisette's ... hit song. We don't "forgive" these people because they are people, we show them that we forgive them by the way we consume their offerings. And he continues to feed us. He's more present, stands in his mess and doesn't cower away in silence, and fights for us to pay attention to him again. Those differences have to play a part in the way we accept him back.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Nine on September 18, 2021, 12:13:09 PM
FUCK Kanye

(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:13:33 PM
And again who is Stacey Dash?

She's the Black girl in Clueless. Then what? A pretty face with White features? Oh, in this age of pro-Black everything, from politics to phenotypes, I see why the gorls arent tripping over themselves to save her. She's not a fkn commodity anymore. Gone.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:14:15 PM
Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on September 18, 2021, 12:13:09 PM
FUCK Kanye

(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)
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Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:15:58 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:13:33 PM
And again who is Stacey Dash?

She's the Black girl in Clueless. Then what? A pretty face with White features? Oh, in this age of pro-Black everything, from politics to phenotypes, I see why the gorls arent tripping over themselves to save her. She's not a fkn commodity anymore. Gone.
especially with her claiming to be an "angry black woman" and using that as an excuse for her behavior

a phrase that mostly affects unambiguously black women and is used to silence them when they are trying to express GENUINE concerns and feelings

along with words like "bitter" and "aggressive" or "jealous".

i love stacey but she's a mess. not pouring MORE fuel to the fire with her apology :plzstop:


Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:16:37 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:15:58 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:13:33 PM
And again who is Stacey Dash?

She's the Black girl in Clueless. Then what? A pretty face with White features? Oh, in this age of pro-Black everything, from politics to phenotypes, I see why the gorls arent tripping over themselves to save her. She's not a fkn commodity anymore. Gone.
especially with her claiming to be an "angry black woman" and using that as an excuse for her behavior

a phrase that mostly affects unambiguously black women and is used to silence them when they are trying to express GENUINE concerns and feelings

i love stacey but she's a mess. not pouring MORE fuel to the fire with her apology :plzstop:

nnnnnnnnnn when u right, u right sis
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:17:17 PM
but when you wrong, you wrong. Im the bomb. 
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:18:42 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:17:17 PM
but when you wrong, you wrong. Im the bomb.
dont recall that happenin yet :woohoo:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:26:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:10:39 PM
Those differences have to play a part in the way we accept him back.

no they don't. those "differences" are nothing more than attempts to justify a double standard, tbh
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

look at the backlash Oprah got for going after those Black men with those specials she was doing

it was way easier for HER to brush mess under the rug because she's "Oprah". people were more willing to forgive her and let it go because she's "Oprah". Her career survived the HIT of backlash because she's "Oprah".

It really does matter and make a huge difference.

doesn't make anyone less or more wrong...it's just the way it works.


Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.

kanye is so talented, i have NO CHOICE but to forgive him

nah
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
who said i allow it to? im simply aware of how things work in the real world. lol

i thought the gorls were wondering why kanye is still thriving

thats what i was answering.

how things work in general. and brought Oprah...who is a bLack woman....to the conversation

Black women get away with things too as well if they have enough influence and money.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syo2wGaMHJg





Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:37:58 PM
i think ur real concern really should be why people with lots of money and power get to do what they want.

cuz if u talk to mo'nique she'll definitely tell you that Oprah got away with a lot of mess she did to her AND her family because she's "Oprah".
she's said it a million times.

this is a clout convo, not really gender.

if u just wanna stick up for Black women...i'm all for that
i have a laundry list of things we can talk about and we can dig in


Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:39:08 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
i thought the gorls were wondering why kanye is still thriving


no we weren't. we know its a double standard. we established that in my chrisette v. kanye thread

and the excuses being made in here for him again only reiterate that point.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:39:47 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
who said i allow it to?

speaking in general hun

:melmel:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:40:26 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:08 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
i thought the gorls were wondering why kanye is still thriving


no we weren't. we know its a double standard.
double standard based on gender?
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:41:23 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:37:58 PM
i think ur real concern really should be why people with lots of money and power get to do what they want.

that's always a concern of mine, but has no relevance to the topic i presented
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:43:20 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:40:26 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:08 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
i thought the gorls were wondering why kanye is still thriving


no we weren't. we know its a double standard.
double standard based on gender?

popularity. gender plays a part as well.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:44:44 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:47 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
who said i allow it to?

speaking in general hun

:melmel:
well u must be typing from disneyland

cuz it's not about people "allowing" power and influence to matter

power and influence have real effects which many cannot opt-out of when they feel like it.

mo'nique didn't "allow" Oprah's influence to overshadow what she did to her family
Oprah basically did what she wanted to do and all Mo'nique could scrream as loud as she could afterwards HOPING someone would hear her over the audience cheers for Oprah lol.

Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:47:28 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:44:44 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:47 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
who said i allow it to?

speaking in general hun

:melmel:
well u must be typing from disneyland

cuz it's not about people "allowing" power and influence to matter

when it comes to forgiving someone and choosing to support them again, yes it is about allowing, which is what i specifically stated i was referring to

don't remove my statements from the context in which they were made in order to digress bby
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:47:49 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:26:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:10:39 PM
Those differences have to play a part in the way we accept him back.

those "differences" are nothing more than attempts to justify a double standard, tbh

No they aren't.

The acceptance of an entertainer back into our households is solely reliant on what they are feeding us with for that is the measure by which we value them......... because they are entertainers. That's why I made the distinction between accepting an apology and leaving it there, and allowing a disgraced entertainer to prosper again. Chrisette isnt worried about you or me accepting her apology. She's questioning why she doesn't have a seat at that table anymore, but Kanye does. And the obvious answer is what have you done for us lately?
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:48:12 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:47:28 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:44:44 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:47 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
who said i allow it to?

speaking in general hun

:melmel:
well u must be typing from disneyland

cuz it's not about people "allowing" power and influence to matter

when it comes to forgiving someone and choosing to support them again, yes it is about allowing, which is what i specifically stated i was referring to

don't remove my statements from the context in which they were made in order to digress bby
u literally said power and influence doesn't matter unless u allow it to.

it's right in this quote thread we're in right now luv. review it

im saying that's not true. if we're speaking in general - which u said we are.


Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.



Based on what? Oprah is a woman  :uhh:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:51:14 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.



Based on what? Oprah is a woman  :uhh:
i coulda swore his argument was double standards based on gender

dsddsdssd especially from what i remember last time we had this convo

i gave him an example of Oprah getting away with all types of tea and now im confused
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:52:38 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:47:49 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:26:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:10:39 PM
Those differences have to play a part in the way we accept him back.

those "differences" are nothing more than attempts to justify a double standard, tbh

No they aren't.

The acceptance of an entertainer back into our households is solely reliant on what they are feeding us with for that is the measure by which we value them......... because they are entertainers. That's why I made the distinction between accepting an apology and leaving it there, and allowing a disgraced entertainer to prosper again. Chrisette isnt worried about you or me accepting her apology. She's questioning why she doesn't have a seat at that table anymore, but Kanye does. And the obvious answer is what have you done for us lately?

all you did here was explain WHY you support the double standard.

also kanye apologized ?
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:52:49 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter



kanye is so talented, i have NO CHOICE but to forgive him

nah

Oh girl, nobody said that.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:54:19 PM
oph let me clarify this

ur argument is based on gender right?

ur saying it seems black men seem to get away with a tea while the black women do not?

i think i remember being ur stance last time we had this convo...just checking in to make sure im on the same page with you in here.

if not gender, what is the double standard ur referring to specifically?


Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:55:35 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:52:38 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:47:49 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:26:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:10:39 PM
Those differences have to play a part in the way we accept him back.

those "differences" are nothing more than attempts to justify a double standard, tbh

No they aren't.

The acceptance of an entertainer back into our households is solely reliant on what they are feeding us with for that is the measure by which we value them......... because they are entertainers. That's why I made the distinction between accepting an apology and leaving it there, and allowing a disgraced entertainer to prosper again. Chrisette isnt worried about you or me accepting her apology. She's questioning why she doesn't have a seat at that table anymore, but Kanye does. And the obvious answer is what have you done for us lately?

all you did here was explain WHY you support the double standard.

also kanye apologized ?

You don't make any sense, I used specific names not any pronouns. A popular and undeniable female artist could also very well redeem themselves in the same manner  :dead:. Nowhere in my statement did I say that wasn't a possibility :uhh:

all you did was! double standard! boy gone.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:55:56 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:51:14 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.



Based on what? Oprah is a woman  :uhh:
i coulda swore his argument was double standards based on gender

dsddsdssd especially from what i remember last time we had this convo

i gave him an example of Oprah getting away with all types of tea and now im confused

because he is. hhhhhhhhhh
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 12:56:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.



Based on what? Oprah is a woman  :uhh:

popularity? yall realize gender ain't the only way double standards can be exercised, right ?

i haven't mentioned gender in this thread ONCE
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:59:06 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:43:20 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:40:26 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:08 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
i thought the gorls were wondering why kanye is still thriving


no we weren't. we know its a double standard.
double standard based on gender?

popularity. gender plays a part as well.

so, clout? After you just said clout has no relevance to what you're talking about.

So what are you even talking about?

Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 12:59:54 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:56:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.



Based on what? Oprah is a woman  :uhh:

popularity? yall realize gender ain't the only way double standards can be exercised, right ?

i haven't mentioned gender in this thread ONCE
well it's not unreasonable to conclude ur referencing gender when u compare a male to a female and mention a double standard.

and u kinda left plenty of room to do so since u didn't specify anything else. what is the double standard u are referring to specifically?

clarify your point luv

Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 01:01:16 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:55:35 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:52:38 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:47:49 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:26:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:10:39 PM
Those differences have to play a part in the way we accept him back.

those "differences" are nothing more than attempts to justify a double standard, tbh

No they aren't.

The acceptance of an entertainer back into our households is solely reliant on what they are feeding us with for that is the measure by which we value them......... because they are entertainers. That's why I made the distinction between accepting an apology and leaving it there, and allowing a disgraced entertainer to prosper again. Chrisette isnt worried about you or me accepting her apology. She's questioning why she doesn't have a seat at that table anymore, but Kanye does. And the obvious answer is what have you done for us lately?

all you did here was explain WHY you support the double standard.

also kanye apologized ?

You don't make any sense, I used specific names not any pronouns. A popular and undeniable female artist could also very well redeem themselves in the same manner  :dead:. Nowhere in my statement did I say that wasn't a possibility :uhh:

all you did was! double standard! boy gone.

boy you not even understanding what im saying

i ain't said nothing about what a female artist could or could do hypothetically

im saying that what is HAPPENING is a double standard.

oh kanye make good music so hes forgive but christette aint giving shit si throw ha away.

OR

oh kanye make good music so hes forgive but stacey, whats the last thing she played in. throw ha away.

THOSE are double standards. period. kanye aint even apologize, the other two at least tried.im really not seeing whats confusing about this.

Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 01:02:28 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:59:54 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:56:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.



Based on what? Oprah is a woman  :uhh:

popularity? yall realize gender ain't the only way double standards can be exercised, right ?

i haven't mentioned gender in this thread ONCE
well it's not unreasonab--

u made an assumption and u were wrong. got it, no worries bby
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 01:03:15 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 01:02:28 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:59:54 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:56:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.



Based on what? Oprah is a woman  :uhh:

popularity? yall realize gender ain't the only way double standards can be exercised, right ?

i haven't mentioned gender in this thread ONCE
well it's not unreasonab--

u made an assumption and u were wrong. got it, no worries bby
ok oph.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 01:03:54 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:59:06 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:43:20 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:40:26 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:08 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
i thought the gorls were wondering why kanye is still thriving


no we weren't. we know its a double standard.
double standard based on gender?

popularity. gender plays a part as well.

so, clout? After you just said clout has no relevance to what you're talking about.

So what are you even talking about?

incorrect. i said rich people doing what they want because they have money has no relevance to what im talking about

so what are YOU even talking about?
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 01:04:55 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:41:23 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:37:58 PM
i think ur real concern really should be why people with lots of money and power get to do what they want.

that's always a concern of mine, but has no relevance to the topic i presented

for anyone needing a refresher
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 01:05:02 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:56:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to. it's a choice. and its a double standard. nothing is changing that fact.



Based on what? Oprah is a woman  :uhh:

popularity? yall realize gender ain't the only way double standards can be exercised, right ?

i haven't mentioned gender in this thread ONCE

You're ducking and dodging. But I'll entertain this, too.

When you said
Quotethose "differences" are nothing more than attempts to justify a double standard, tbh

And if you're now claiming the double standard is "clout", then why would I need to justify it?  :kii: The differences I listed were an artist's propensity to persevere and work hard to become accepted into our homes again. Popularity, brand, and clout play a major part in that as well. So if we're talking about Kanye West vs. Chrisette fkn Michelle...... that's not a double standard it just... IS.

To flourish as an entertainer you HAVE to be popular/have clout :dead: There's noting that needs to be justified, it's a fkn logical requirement. You're literally just talking to be talking right now.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 01:08:41 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 01:01:16 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:55:35 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:52:38 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:47:49 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:26:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:10:39 PM
Those differences have to play a part in the way we accept him back.

those "differences" are nothing more than attempts to justify a double standard, tbh

No they aren't.

The acceptance of an entertainer back into our households is solely reliant on what they are feeding us with for that is the measure by which we value them......... because they are entertainers. That's why I made the distinction between accepting an apology and leaving it there, and allowing a disgraced entertainer to prosper again. Chrisette isnt worried about you or me accepting her apology. She's questioning why she doesn't have a seat at that table anymore, but Kanye does. And the obvious answer is what have you done for us lately?

all you did here was explain WHY you support the double standard.

also kanye apologized ?

You don't make any sense, I used specific names not any pronouns. A popular and undeniable female artist could also very well redeem themselves in the same manner  :dead:. Nowhere in my statement did I say that wasn't a possibility :uhh:

all you did was! double standard! boy gone.

boy you not even understanding what im saying

i ain't said nothing about what a female artist could or could do hypothetically

im saying that what is HAPPENING is a double standard.

oh kanye make good music so hes forgive but christette aint giving shit si throw ha away.

OR

oh kanye make good music so hes forgive but stacey, whats the last thing she played in. throw ha away.

THOSE are double standards. period. kanye aint even apologize, the other two at least tried.im really not seeing whats confusing about this.

They don't want Oph to forgive them. They want seats at the industry table. I dont know how many more ways I can explain that the way we show an artist that we as consumers forgive them, is to support their ventures, create a demand for them again. So yes, they have to PUT OUT in order for that to happen. Me questioning the last thing Stacey has done for us makes total sense. Jesus Christ.
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 01:10:09 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 01:03:54 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:59:06 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:43:20 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:40:26 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:08 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
i thought the gorls were wondering why kanye is still thriving


no we weren't. we know its a double standard.
double standard based on gender?

popularity. gender plays a part as well.

so, clout? After you just said clout has no relevance to what you're talking about.

So what are you even talking about?

incorrect. i said rich people doing what they want because they have money has no relevance to what im talking about

so what are YOU even talking about?

You said popularity. Its in the quote, from you.

Im done in here. Ew.

Beginning to see what the gorls mean, I just hadnt experienced it nnnnnnn. Love you
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: DopeSoul. on September 18, 2021, 01:11:06 PM
:omf:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 01:20:34 PM
do you even know what a double standard is?

Quoteyou claiming the double standard is "clout"

like what? i never said what the double standard was BASED on because a) i don't know for sure i just have my ideas (popularity) and b) it could be a culmination of multiple things

all i know is that one EXISTS as evidence by the differences in the way these celebs have been handled by the public

your response "was well its different because kanye contribute as an artist blah blah blah"

i don't give a shit about none of that. hes a pround trump supporting coon to this DAY who never apologized for anything he's said or done, but he supposed to be given a pass cuz current! makin mus! while these others get cancelled for less. yea, if anyone cant see how thats a double standard, im just gon pray

it aint about what oph want. oph just calling it what it IS
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 01:23:29 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 01:10:09 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 01:03:54 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 18, 2021, 12:59:06 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:43:20 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:40:26 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:08 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
i thought the gorls were wondering why kanye is still thriving


no we weren't. we know its a double standard.
double standard based on gender?

popularity. gender plays a part as well.

so, clout? After you just said clout has no relevance to what you're talking about.

So what are you even talking about?

incorrect. i said rich people doing what they want because they have money has no relevance to what im talking about

so what are YOU even talking about?

You said popularity. Its in the quote, from you.

Im done in here. Ew.

Beginning to see what the gorls mean, I just hadnt experienced it nnnnnnn. Love you

i literally quoted what i said and you chose to ignore it, so maybe u should be done

hadn't experienced! yet you read the same posts they do

boy

:omf:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: klappa. on September 18, 2021, 01:24:06 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 01:04:55 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:41:23 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:37:58 PM
i think ur real concern really should be why people with lots of money and power get to do what they want.

that's always a concern of mine, but has no relevance to the topic i presented

for anyone needing a refresher

:dead:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on September 18, 2021, 01:39:37 PM
Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on September 18, 2021, 12:02:38 PM
I mean, the gorls can sweep anything that KOONye does under the rug so sure, why not

(https://uploadir.com/u/4urf190o)

Very good point
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Gilgamesh. on September 18, 2021, 01:46:50 PM
No. It's one thing to sing at inauguration in order to elevate your career and another thing altogether to actively troll Black people. She's disgusting 
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 01:49:08 PM
still will always have a tiny luv for kwee tho. :stressed:

she's just lost.

(https://i1.wp.com/insidejamarifox.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/bcf5aff5df028baefa4e3b821e362a0f.png?fit=500%2C468&ssl=1)
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Kalifornia. on September 18, 2021, 02:20:59 PM
Clueless & Dionne will forever be iconic to me but Stac' is done. 
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: Kalifornia. on September 18, 2021, 02:25:08 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:44:44 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:39:47 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:35:53 PM
Quote from: ophliyah on September 18, 2021, 12:33:04 PM
Quote from: daydreamin' on September 18, 2021, 12:29:08 PM
someone's influence/power does matter

only if u allow it to.
who said i allow it to?

speaking in general hun

:melmel:
well u must be typing from disneyland


What the hell is going on in here  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: if stacey dash came out and gave a heartfelt apology, would u forgive ha?
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on September 18, 2021, 03:09:06 PM
:woohoo: