OK so there's this new person at my job, a young lady who just moved here from Georgia. She's 24 and has no family in the state. Yesterday, she told me that she was waiting on funds from her aunt and that she was trying to figure out what she'd be doing for the night, and asked if she could come back with me for an hour or two until she gets the word from her aunt.
I'm fiercely protective and private when it comes to where I stay and who I invite to come in, so instead I booked her a hotel room to stay in for the night so she didn't have to worry about everything and had more than enough time to relax and sort things out.
I checked in on her today at work and she said everything was fine. She told me that things were good and everything was in place. I was glad to hear that. And just glad I could help in general.
But now she's texting me saying she's pretty much still in a bind with her aunt, waiting for stuff to come through, etc. At this point, I'm ignoring the texts and calls as well. It seems like she doesn't have her ducks in a row. And on top of that, it bothers me that she said she was expecting money last night, but it never came.
So your temporary "hour visit" at my place could've possibly turned into an all nighter? I'm glad she doesn't know where I rest my head. And happy I trusted my gut instincts. It seems like she's bitten off more than she can chew.
It's bothering me that she may be stranded. :'( But another part of me is saying that I did what I could, but I cannot continue bailing her out. It's becoming a pattern now, and frankly I feel the need to nip it in the bud immediately so she knows.
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Helping her the first time was the mistake.
Don't move if you ain't prepared.
luvly
You aren't wrong at all.
This flop maniac gorl JUST met you and she's like: woo! Invite me to tha crib! Perched for a few mins! :cheerup:
that was really nice of you. I would say continue to help until you no longer can. think about if it was you and what would you want someone to do if you needed help. There could be a lot she hasnt told you on why she is in the position she is in now. That is how i always try to think of things. "what if it were me?"
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You did the right thing by ignoring and not showing her your place. You were nice enough to get her a hotel room. It sounds to me like she has used the "1 hour" excuse in the past and squatted at other people's places. That's tacky. Just ignore her and keep it short and sweet when you see her at work. No need to get wrapped into another person's issues. I bet that whole aunt story was fake.
You could've done more for her, you know.
She's only 24 yrs old, of course she's gonna be a bit rusty moving to a whole new place.
IMO, you're an asshole.
She clearly didn't have her shit in place before she decided to move
:letsmessfag:
bOY... the real question is ... did u FUCK ?
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cvxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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I recently did a personality test and it said that it's actually a weakness of mine to make other people's problems my own. If I see someone in trouble and there's something I can do to help, I just automatically swoop in. I'm glad I read that because it came back to me once I helped her the first time. Like, "you're doing it again...this is not your problem" :dead:
I don't see anything wrong with helping people at all. But I don't like feeling like I've been lied to. And can't believe there are people out there who take advantage of kindness, cuz there aren't many genuinely kind people left in the world to be quite fucking honest. Regardless of how blessed they are themselves.
But like lil sis said, I need to keep it short and sweet with her at work. If she even shows up Monday. :dead: She just needs to truck it back to Georgia.
Quote from: Nicholas_Styles on July 24, 2015, 09:46:12 PM
that was really nice of you. I would say continue to help until you no longer can. think about if it was you and what would you want someone to do if you needed help. There could be a lot she hasnt told you on why she is in the position she is in now. That is how i always try to think of things. "what if it were me?"
I disagree. If we looked at everything that way then a lot of us would be dealing with so much issues ;ff :uhh: No ma'am. Afro was nice enough to get sis a hotel room for the night cause the average person would've just ignored her completely.
She should go to a homeless shelter. There are actually a lot of shelters for women in need, there are churches that usually let homeless people eat and sleep for free.
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Wow, wonder what will happen when u see her at work on Monday. Let us know how that pans out.
But you did enough. Nice enough to put her up in a hotel. She did say a couple hrs and u gave her that and more by booking that hotel. If she comes up with more shit when u see her on Monday, ask her for the aunt's number to speak to her and see how she reacts.
Quote from: iman on July 24, 2015, 09:53:32 PM
Quote from: Nicholas_Styles on July 24, 2015, 09:46:12 PM
that was really nice of you. I would say continue to help until you no longer can. think about if it was you and what would you want someone to do if you needed help. There could be a lot she hasnt told you on why she is in the position she is in now. That is how i always try to think of things. "what if it were me?"
I disagree. If we looked at everything that way then a lot of us would be dealing with so much issues ;ff :uhh: No ma'am. Afro was nice enough to get sis a hotel room for the night cause the average person would've just ignored her completely.
She should go to a homeless shelter. There are actually a lot of shelters for women in need, there are churches that usually let homeless people eat and sleep for free.
thats true .. i feel bad for ppl in fucked up situations though but yeah thats a good point he could take her to a homless shelter for woman in need i guess .. i would prolly let the girl stay on my couch
So, where has she been staying all before? Like whats the address she gave the job?
:diddraispoot:
Not her hour stay lasting the rest of 2015
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 24, 2015, 10:17:26 PM
So, where has she been staying all before? Like whats the address she gave the job?
:diddraispoot:
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I'd feel bad for her but that's it. You can't feel bad for not basically taking care of her. That isn't your obligation and you haven't known her long enough for all that
If she's gotten to this point, it's sad to say, but she may have been irresponsible and squandered the money she's made in the past. Who's to say she won't do it again after you help her out or loan her money? People like that can't be enabled further or trusted, honestly. I'd feel horrible though. For sure. Only so much you can do, though.
Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 02:12:00 AM
I'd feel bad for her but that's it. You can't feel bad for not basically taking care of her. That isn't your obligation and you haven't known her long enough for all that
If she's gotten to this point, it's sad to say, but she may have been irresponsible and squandered the money she's made in the past. Who's to say she won't do it again after you help her out or loan her money? People like that can't be enabled further or trusted, honestly. I'd feel horrible though. For sure. Only so much you can do, though.
You summed up exactly how I feel King
It's still bothering me this morning. :plzstop: I think it's because it's a female involved. And I have sisters. A grown nigger would have automatically got the "end call" button on my phone a long time ago.
But I have to stick to my guns. :stressed:
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 10:49:40 AM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 02:12:00 AM
I'd feel bad for her but that's it. You can't feel bad for not basically taking care of her. That isn't your obligation and you haven't known her long enough for all that
If she's gotten to this point, it's sad to say, but she may have been irresponsible and squandered the money she's made in the past. Who's to say she won't do it again after you help her out or loan her money? People like that can't be enabled further or trusted, honestly. I'd feel horrible though. For sure. Only so much you can do, though.
You summed up exactly how I feel King
It's still bothering me this morning. :plzstop: I think it's because it's a female involved. And I have sisters. A grown nigger would have automatically got the "end call" button on my phone a long time ago.
But I have to stick to my guns. :stressed:
O shit. What else did u do for her?
Quote from: Francois Lite on July 25, 2015, 10:54:50 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 10:49:40 AM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 02:12:00 AM
I'd feel bad for her but that's it. You can't feel bad for not basically taking care of her. That isn't your obligation and you haven't known her long enough for all that
If she's gotten to this point, it's sad to say, but she may have been irresponsible and squandered the money she's made in the past. Who's to say she won't do it again after you help her out or loan her money? People like that can't be enabled further or trusted, honestly. I'd feel horrible though. For sure. Only so much you can do, though.
You summed up exactly how I feel King
It's still bothering me this morning. :plzstop: I think it's because it's a female involved. And I have sisters. A grown nigger would have automatically got the "end call" button on my phone a long time ago.
But I have to stick to my guns. :stressed:
O shit. What else did u do for her?
Didn't do anything else. I pretty much ignored her calls and texts last night. She literally sent a text asking if I could book a room for another night. Which I thought was a bit presumptuous. "oh! charge 1 more night. ok thnx lolz :supluv: "
I really hope she's OK. I can't help but to feel a need to help her because she's a young black woman. My little sister's age. But on the other hand, my sister would never jump to another city without having a concrete plan -- or at least an idea as to where she'd be staying, at the very least.
death...i was reading this earlier and shortly after one of my old school friends hit me up on fb, telling me he's not getting his money until next month and has to send his moving boxes next week, otherwise he would end up homeless or something. asking me to transfer some money to ha acct and i'd get it back + $10.
people nowadays...
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:01:43 AM
Quote from: Francois Lite on July 25, 2015, 10:54:50 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 10:49:40 AM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 02:12:00 AM
I'd feel bad for her but that's it. You can't feel bad for not basically taking care of her. That isn't your obligation and you haven't known her long enough for all that
If she's gotten to this point, it's sad to say, but she may have been irresponsible and squandered the money she's made in the past. Who's to say she won't do it again after you help her out or loan her money? People like that can't be enabled further or trusted, honestly. I'd feel horrible though. For sure. Only so much you can do, though.
You summed up exactly how I feel King
It's still bothering me this morning. :plzstop: I think it's because it's a female involved. And I have sisters. A grown nigger would have automatically got the "end call" button on my phone a long time ago.
But I have to stick to my guns. :stressed:
O shit. What else did u do for her?
Didn't do anything else. I pretty much ignored her calls and texts last night. She literally sent a text asking if I could book a room for another night. Which I thought was a bit presumptuous. "oh! charge 1 more night. ok thnx lolz :supluv: "
I really hope she's OK. I can't help but to feel a need to help her because she's a young black woman. My little sister's age. But on the other hand, my sister would never jump to another city without having a concrete plan -- or at least an idea as to where she'd be staying, at the very least.
She'll be fine.
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:01:43 AM
Quote from: Francois Lite on July 25, 2015, 10:54:50 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 10:49:40 AM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 02:12:00 AM
I'd feel bad for her but that's it. You can't feel bad for not basically taking care of her. That isn't your obligation and you haven't known her long enough for all that
If she's gotten to this point, it's sad to say, but she may have been irresponsible and squandered the money she's made in the past. Who's to say she won't do it again after you help her out or loan her money? People like that can't be enabled further or trusted, honestly. I'd feel horrible though. For sure. Only so much you can do, though.
You summed up exactly how I feel King
It's still bothering me this morning. :plzstop: I think it's because it's a female involved. And I have sisters. A grown nigger would have automatically got the "end call" button on my phone a long time ago.
But I have to stick to my guns. :stressed:
O shit. What else did u do for her?
Didn't do anything else. I pretty much ignored her calls and texts last night. She literally sent a text asking if I could book a room for another night. Which I thought was a bit presumptuous. "oh! charge 1 more night. ok thnx lolz :supluv: "
I really hope she's OK. I can't help but to feel a need to help her because she's a young black woman. My little sister's age. But on the other hand, my sister would never jump to another state without having a concrete plan -- or at least an idea as to where she'd be staying, at the very least.
Tell the bitch to sit her ass down at some public library, sign up on couchsurfing.com or post a damn craigslist ad. or sell ha phone and book a damn hostel or motel room herself. doesnt she feel ashamed honestly?
I'm about to call my grandmother now. I'll let her have the final word on this, whatever she tells me to do I'll do it. I'm just not a peace right now and want to make sure I am doing the right thing.
I feel so bad right now that I want to cry.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 11:03:06 AM
death...i was reading this earlier and shortly after one of my old school friends hit me up on fb, telling me he's not getting his money until next month and has to send his moving boxes next week, otherwise he would end up homeless or something. asking me to transfer some money to ha acct and i'd get it back + $10.
people nowadays...
sss I watch too much Judge Judy to have a heart...
i've been lucky for the most part...whenever i lend money to a co-worker they gave it back to me in time.
I'm not really concerned about getting the money back though. I don't like "loaning" people things because then they have a debt hanging over their head, and ultimately your relationship with them as well. If I give something to someone I always do it as a gift. Money isn't everything to me. But I don't want to be taken advantage either.
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Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:13:03 AM
I'm not really concerned about getting the money back though. I don't like "loaning" people things because then they have a debt hanging over their head, and ultimately your relationship with them as well. If I give something to someone I always do it as a gift. Money isn't everything to me. But I don't want to be taken advantage either.
rich! philantropist! fine dining!
is this story made up or wha :plea:
Nip it in the bud.
You did what you could.
You will regret it, if you do more. Trust.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 11:17:03 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:13:03 AM
I'm not really concerned about getting the money back though. I don't like "loaning" people things because then they have a debt hanging over their head, and ultimately your relationship with them as well. If I give something to someone I always do it as a gift. Money isn't everything to me. But I don't want to be taken advantage either.
rich! philantropist! fine dining!
is this story made up or wha :plea:
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QuoteDidn't do anything else. I pretty much ignored her calls and texts last night. She literally sent a text asking if I could book a room for another night. Which I thought was a bit presumptuous.
It's sad I have to post receipts on here but some of you are so selfish and one dimensional minded that you cannot absorb the concept of true selflessness. Just because someone doesn't make money their top concern doesn't mean they are rich. It means that they realized they are blessed and want to help others if they can.
I have nothing to lie about. If my truth offends you in some way, that sounds like its a problem on your end.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 11:17:03 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:13:03 AM
I'm not really concerned about getting the money back though. I don't like "loaning" people things because then they have a debt hanging over their head, and ultimately your relationship with them as well. If I give something to someone I always do it as a gift. Money isn't everything to me. But I don't want to be taken advantage either.
rich! philantropist! fine dining!
is this story made up or wha :plea:
:uhh:
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:24:58 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 11:17:03 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:13:03 AM
I'm not really concerned about getting the money back though. I don't like "loaning" people things because then they have a debt hanging over their head, and ultimately your relationship with them as well. If I give something to someone I always do it as a gift. Money isn't everything to me. But I don't want to be taken advantage either.
rich! philantropist! fine dining!
is this story made up or wha :plea:
(http://i57.tinypic.com/zl2c4.jpg)
QuoteDidn't do anything else. I pretty much ignored her calls and texts last night. She literally sent a text asking if I could book a room for another night. Which I thought was a bit presumptuous.
It's sad I have to post receipts on here but some of you are so selfish and one dimensional minded that you cannot absorb the concept of true selflessness. Just because someone doesn't make money their top concern doesn't mean they are rich. It means that they realized they are blessed and want to help others if they can.
No shade but some of you come off as a bit hateful and ignorant sometimes.
You didn't have to provide anything to us, AF.
I gotta say, I love BSource, but there's some people on here that are so negative. You can't discuss anything without someone thinking...
"Oh! He thinks he's above it! Educated! Money!"
Like... there's no real intelligent conversations around here.
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:24:58 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 11:17:03 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:13:03 AM
I'm not really concerned about getting the money back though. I don't like "loaning" people things because then they have a debt hanging over their head, and ultimately your relationship with them as well. If I give something to someone I always do it as a gift. Money isn't everything to me. But I don't want to be taken advantage either.
rich! philantropist! fine dining!
is this story made up or wha :plea:
(http://i57.tinypic.com/zl2c4.jpg)
QuoteDidn't do anything else. I pretty much ignored her calls and texts last night. She literally sent a text asking if I could book a room for another night. Which I thought was a bit presumptuous.
It's sad I have to post receipts on here but some of you are so selfish and one dimensional minded that you cannot absorb the concept of true selflessness. Just because someone doesn't make money their top concern doesn't mean they are rich. It means that they realized they are blessed and want to help others if they can.
I have nothing to lie about. If my truth offends you in some way, that sounds like its a problem on your end.
U don't have to explain anything to her ..
It's pressed!
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:28:03 AM
I gotta say, I love BSource, but there's some people on here that are so negative. You can't discuss anything without someone thinking...
"Oh! He thinks he's above it! Educated! Money!"
Like... there's no real intelligent conversations around here.
I agree with you.
But there are some very enlightening/educational conversations that go down here and there. Especially when race is brought up. :dead:
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:29:53 AM
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
I missed that thread. :ohwow: where is it
ssssss
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:29:57 AM
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:28:03 AM
I gotta say, I love BSource, but there's some people on here that are so negative. You can't discuss anything without someone thinking...
"Oh! He thinks he's above it! Educated! Money!"
Like... there's no real intelligent conversations around here.
I agree with you.
But there are some very enlightening/educational conversations that go down here and there. Especially when race is brought up. :dead:
Well, I don't get involved in those race topics.
:dead:
So I don't get to enjoy intelligent conversations here. Which is fine, I guess.
Quote from: Herb. on July 25, 2015, 11:30:14 AM
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:29:53 AM
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
I missed that thread. :ohwow: where is it
ssssss
I just locked it, then tossed it. I was annoyed. It was just a page.
A page full of ignorance.
Stewie was nice though. I like him.
I guess I feel like... I know everyone here is not 12-17.
It's more like 21-35 here. Right?
So I expect a bit more... maturity? I don't know.
ralf ur so hot :ohwow:
immature people on bsource? on the internet?
omgah.
:ohwow:
Quote from: SUPREME on July 25, 2015, 11:38:06 AM
immature people on bsource? on the internet?
omgah.
:ohwow:
Lol. Touch?.
Enabling would've been worse for her. You showed her kindness and that was more than most.
You actually did her a favor. Now she'll be forced to learn the skills to make it on her own.
Whether she manages her money better next time, or plans things out a little more, it's a lesson.
I don't know her, if she's young and really trying, just having a hard time, I feel bad. But she'll figure it out.
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:29:53 AM
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
s
Quote from: Bentley! on July 25, 2015, 11:51:35 AM
Enabling would've been worse for her. You showed her kindness and that was more than most.
You actually did her a favor. Now she'll be forced to learn the skills to make it on her own.
Whether she manages her money better next time, or plans things out a little more, it's a lesson.
I don't know her, if she's young and really trying, just having a hard time, I feel bad. But she'll figure it out.
!!!!
Just postponing the inevitable, really. She clearly isn't equipped to live there right now
so what did u end up doing ?
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:28:03 AM
I gotta say, I love BSource, but there's some people on here that are so negative. You can't discuss anything without someone thinking...
"Oh! He thinks he's above it! Educated! Money!"
Like... there's no real intelligent conversations around here.
m
Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 01:15:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:29:53 AM
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
s
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 25, 2015, 01:35:30 PM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 01:15:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:29:53 AM
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
s
rdfgfhxnxmmznmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmv
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Quote from: Herb. on July 24, 2015, 09:39:31 PM
OK so there's this new person at my job, a young lady who just moved here from Georgia. She's 24 and has no family in the state. Yesterday, she told me that she was waiting on funds from her aunt and that she was trying to figure out what she'd be doing for the night, and asked if she could come back with me for an hour or two until she gets the word from her aunt.
I'm fiercely protective and private when it comes to where I stay and who I invite to come in, so instead I booked her a hotel room to stay in for the night so she didn't have to worry about everything and had more than enough time to relax and sort things out.
I checked in on her today at work and she said everything was fine. She told me that things were good and everything was in place. I was glad to hear that. And just glad I could help in general.
But now she's texting me saying she's pretty much still in a bind with her aunt, waiting for stuff to come through, etc. At this point, I'm ignoring the texts and calls as well. It seems like she doesn't have her ducks in a row. And on top of that, it bothers me that she said she was expecting money last night, but it never came.
So your temporary "hour visit" at my place could've possibly turned into an all nighter? I'm glad she doesn't know where I rest my head. And happy I trusted my gut instincts. It seems like she's bitten off more than she can chew.
It's bothering me that she may be stranded. :'( But another part of me is saying that I did what I could, but I cannot continue bailing her out. It's becoming a pattern now, and frankly I feel the need to nip it in the bud immediately so she knows.
ugh im dealing with some bs like that now
nah fuck that getting the hotel was an extention enough
im not here for the sob stories
bitch you aint crashin at my muthafuckin place
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I would just tell her that she can't keep loaning money. It's kinda self-explanatory. You paid for her hotel stay. That's way more than she asked for.
What was grandma's advice?
Quote from: squid on July 25, 2015, 04:16:41 PM
I would just tell her that she can't keep loaning money. It's kinda self-explanatory. You paid for her hotel stay. That's way more than she asked for.
What was grandma's advice?
She's in church today, I forgot. :kii:
But it's fine. I feel better since the girl has not texted or called me again today.
I think she figured something out. We'll see Monday.
I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 04:30:24 PM
I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
I see.
Sorry I snapped just a bit. But you have gorls on here who genuinely believe someone has to lie about something on here. :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Herb. on July 26, 2015, 11:44:58 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 04:30:24 PM
I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
I see.
Sorry I snapped just a bit. But you have gorls on here who genuinely believe someone has to lie about something on here. :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
lol it does make it hard to share stuff on here cause some are soo quick to drag and read lol no matter what u say. even the simplest things
"i got up and watched some tv and ate some cereal."
LIES YOU TELL! 2 BROKE for a tv! you dnt eat CEREAL!
Quote from: Herb. on July 26, 2015, 11:44:58 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 04:30:24 PM
I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
I see.
Sorry I snapped just a bit. But you have gorls on here who genuinely believe someone has to lie about something on here. :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
c
Been a bit on
edge lately.
Is everything gewd?
:holdupguys:
Quote from: Nicholas_Styles on July 26, 2015, 11:49:28 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 26, 2015, 11:44:58 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 04:30:24 PM
I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
I see.
Sorry I snapped just a bit. But you have gorls on here who genuinely believe someone has to lie about something on here. :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
lol it does make it hard to share stuff on here cause some are soo quick to drag and read lol no matter what u say. even the simplest things
"i got up and watched some tv and ate some cereal." LIES YOU TELL! 2 BROKE for a tv! you dnt eat CEREAL!
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Crabs in a barrel. Crabs in a muthafucking barrel.
That's all I'll say
Quote from: Boomer on July 26, 2015, 11:50:03 AM
Quote from: Herb. on July 26, 2015, 11:44:58 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 04:30:24 PM
I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
I see.
Sorry I snapped just a bit. But you have gorls on here who genuinely believe someone has to lie about something on here. :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
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Been a bit on edge lately.
Is everything gewd?
:holdupguys:
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hey boo (https://38.media.tumblr.com/38890d937c31059c3b4c267c7c29b160/tumblr_n6kpqfztOP1r0se92o1_400.gif)
Sense a lil shade but...
:ohhey:
Quote from: Boomer on July 26, 2015, 11:53:28 AM
Sense a lil shade but...
:ohhey:
imma be nice to u this week. :stressed:
:wub: :wub:
wevsrg
Not this week!
:-P
Quote from: Boomer on July 26, 2015, 12:03:34 PM
wevsrg
Not this week!
:-P
enjoy the 12 hours remaining luv :ohwow:
QuoteSo your temporary "hour visit" at my place could've possibly turned into an all nighter? I'm glad she doesn't know where I rest my head.
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Almost forgot to update ya'll. :dead:
She was there today. Looks like she grabbed more stability over the weekend. Still had her suitcase with her though. She stayed out of town for the weekend with friends. She told me she had my money for me for booking the room which was a pleasant surprise. But I was rushing out the door to go home so I told her not to worry about it right now.
I'm honestly just glad she's OK and finding her footing. And also happy that she clearly got the message that I am not going to be anyone's sponsor. Part of me wants her to keep the money if it would help her, for some reason I feel that she thinks I am looking for it back. It was my idea to get her the room, so in my book she shouldn't have to pay it back.
but hell, if she's offering me the money back I damn sure ain't gonna fight her about it. I don't know her like that. :dead:
gorl Pay IT FORWARD let ha keep the lil money for the motel .. she needs it more than u obvious.. tell her its her welcome to the company gift :cheerup: