I feel so bad. But should I?

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SUPREME

immature people on bsource? on the internet?

omgah.

:ohwow:

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July 25, 2015, 11:41:52 AM #46 Last Edit: July 25, 2015, 11:42:39 AM by Ralf
Quote from: SUPREME on July 25, 2015, 11:38:06 AM
immature people on bsource? on the internet?

omgah.

:ohwow:

Lol. Touch?.
BRANDY

Bentley!

Enabling would've been worse for her. You showed her kindness and that was more than most.

You actually did her a favor. Now she'll be forced to learn the skills to make it on her own.

Whether she manages her money better next time, or plans things out a little more, it's a lesson.

I don't know her, if she's young and really trying, just having a hard time, I feel bad. But she'll figure it out.

RekeRig

Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:29:53 AM
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
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RekeRig

Quote from: Bentley! on July 25, 2015, 11:51:35 AM
Enabling would've been worse for her. You showed her kindness and that was more than most.

You actually did her a favor. Now she'll be forced to learn the skills to make it on her own.

Whether she manages her money better next time, or plans things out a little more, it's a lesson.

I don't know her, if she's young and really trying, just having a hard time, I feel bad. But she'll figure it out.
!!!!

Just postponing the inevitable, really. She clearly isn't equipped to live there right now

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yummy

Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:28:03 AM
I gotta say, I love BSource, but there's some people on here that are so negative. You can't discuss anything without someone thinking...
"Oh! He thinks he's above it! Educated! Money!"

Like... there's no real intelligent conversations around here.

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yummy

Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 01:15:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:29:53 AM
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
s

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Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 25, 2015, 01:35:30 PM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 25, 2015, 01:15:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2015, 11:29:53 AM
I posted a thread the other day, about "careers and where you want to go"... and even that turn into something horrible.
Some people are just miserable.
s

rdfgfhxnxmmznmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmv
mvccxcccccccccccc

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Quote from: Herb. on July 24, 2015, 09:39:31 PM
OK so there's this new person at my job, a young lady who just moved here from Georgia. She's 24 and has no family in the state. Yesterday, she told me that she was waiting on funds from her aunt and that she was trying to figure out what she'd be doing for the night, and asked if she could come back with me for an hour or two until she gets the word from her aunt.

I'm fiercely protective and private when it comes to where I stay and who I invite to come in, so instead I booked her a hotel room to stay in for the night so she didn't have to worry about everything and had more than enough time to relax and sort things out. 

I checked in on her today at work and she said everything was fine. She told me that things were good and everything was in place. I was glad to hear that. And just glad I could help in general.

But now she's texting me saying she's pretty much still in a bind with her aunt, waiting for stuff to come through, etc. At this point, I'm ignoring the texts and calls as well. It seems like she doesn't have her ducks in a row. And on top of that, it bothers me that she said she was expecting money last night, but it never came.

So your temporary "hour visit" at my place could've possibly turned into an all nighter? I'm glad she doesn't know where I rest my head. And happy I trusted my gut instincts. It seems like she's bitten off more than she can chew.

It's bothering me that she may be stranded.  :'( But another part of me is saying that I did what I could, but I cannot continue bailing her out. It's becoming a pattern now, and frankly I feel the need to nip it in the bud immediately so she knows.

ugh im dealing with some bs like that now

nah fuck that getting the hotel was an extention enough
im not here for the sob stories

bitch you aint crashin at my muthafuckin place




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I would just tell her that she can't keep loaning money. It's kinda self-explanatory. You paid for her hotel stay. That's way more than she asked for.

What was grandma's advice?

Herb.

Quote from: squid on July 25, 2015, 04:16:41 PM
I would just tell her that she can't keep loaning money. It's kinda self-explanatory. You paid for her hotel stay. That's way more than she asked for.

What was grandma's advice?
She's in church today, I forgot. :kii:

But it's fine. I feel better since the girl has not texted or called me again today.
I think she figured something out. We'll see Monday.

Purple Moon

I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Herb.

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 04:30:24 PM
I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
I see.

Sorry I snapped just a bit. But you have gorls on here who genuinely believe someone has to lie about something on here.  :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

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Quote from: Herb. on July 26, 2015, 11:44:58 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 25, 2015, 04:30:24 PM
I apologize Herbert. My statement was merely made out of fun.
I see.

Sorry I snapped just a bit. But you have gorls on here who genuinely believe someone has to lie about something on here.  :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:


lol it does make it hard to share stuff on here cause some are soo quick to drag and read lol no matter what u say. even the simplest things

"i got up and watched some tv and ate some cereal." LIES YOU TELL! 2 BROKE for a tv! you dnt eat CEREAL!