I know it's the "it" thing to be unbothered or to make someone else mad online but im sure we have pet peeves or things that offend us sometimes.
What types of things offend you(online, offline, work, family setting, professional etc.)? How do you handle them in the moment?
I really like to TALK instead of arguing with people, especially my with family and they can't take that :dead:
and I like to make-up ASAP after a fight, like it never happened.
They call me "soft" because of it
We come from a culture where the loudest voice wins and mines is def not loud
idk..im jus laid bac
I'm not offended often but when I am, I feel like it's the end of the world.
I'm not offended by anything that happens online.
People become exaggerated versions of themselves and say and do things they wouldn't normally do in person.
But in real life, I hate when people make sly remarks and throw subtle shade.
Just be direct. So that I can DIRECTLY respond.
otherwise i'm cool with everything
:omgwatshappening:
I am rarely offended, but I think it's important to address it in the moment so things don't bottle up. I try to stay as calm as possible when bringing it to someone's attention, because I've noticed that people are on edge with young men of color almost as a default.
*writes this down*
Ugly children with no home training
Like sit your ugly ass down somewhere and get out my face :uhh:
Bad odor offends me and yes, I'll let you know or you will know from my gesture. (https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee) I don't give a fuck.
Annoying kids that run around stores and yea, I will tell that little demon to calm down and go to his mom.
Loud people annoy me. I just don't look at them since that's what they want. (https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
Rude customer service. I will report your bitchass. (https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
hmph! (https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
People that try to micromanage me and boss me around, I'll call you out (https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee) IDGAF. I really don't (https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
I can't stand people who talk loud on their phones while on the train.
Just the other day I was coming home and some hoodrat was on her phone with her boyfriend telling him she was gonna have him jumpes and beat his mother's ass etc;
:rudone:
And I left my headphones at home that day so I had no choice but to listen.
I hate when you hold the door open for people and they don't say thank you.
I politely say 'you're welcome' and make sure the next door closes right behind me
I thought this was about things that offend you
:diddraispoot:
Offensive things...not pet peeves :plzstop:
People who stand too close to me really offend me. I just take 3 or 4 steps back. Get away from me (https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
One thing I don't really overly react to is men. Either I just act like I didn't hear you or I'll play nice. You not finna Rihanna me boy. (https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
vvvvvvv
am mean, I don't really get offended by things, just annoyed...
Go AWF 'man :dead:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 05:05:49 PM
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am mean, I don't really get offended by things, just annoyed...
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lols yea..im jus laid bac
things dnt get to me
i may get a lil annoyed tho............
Disrepect, rudeness, shadiness etc, I find offensive.
I used to keep it very PG and didn't say what I really wanted to when I was offended, but I find myself giving less fucks nowadays tbh.
Some people really need to be checked.
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 18, 2016, 05:05:03 PM
Offensive things...not pet peeves :plzstop:
what I posted offends me, bitch
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fdgdg Iman ain't playing with you niggers
dssssssssss
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on July 18, 2016, 05:10:47 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 18, 2016, 05:05:03 PM
Offensive things...not pet peeves :plzstop:
what I posted offends me, bitch
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
You're so...edgy
u should be
sxdfgvhbjnm
:wheresmymeds:
oh & i cnt stands wen a group of ppl r gigglin' b'hind me in a public place
like can u guys shut tha fck up & let me be bettr than u in peace
ugh
(https://uploadir.com/u/l0pc896u)
ffff clearly some of you fags are offended by bars of soap and hot water.
Quote from: Chao on July 18, 2016, 05:15:31 PM
oh & i cnt stands wen a group of ppl r gigglin' b'hind me in a public place
like can u guys shut tha fck up & let me be bettr than u in peace
ugh
(https://uploadir.com/u/l0pc896u)
they're probably laughing at your some assembly required pussy hun
Quote from: r u ok on July 18, 2016, 04:59:28 PM
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 04:57:07 PM
Bad odor offends me and yes, I'll let you know or you will know from my gesture. (http://loud%20people%20annoy%20me.%20i%20just%20don't%20look%20at%20them%20since%20that's%20what%20they%20want.%20%5Bimg%5Dhttps://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
fffggfffffffhhhhhhhgggghggggggghhhh
cccccvvvv
Iman seems like a bitch that would get SLAPPED
lemme jus ignore
cuz i will kill u two faggots
(https://uploadir.com/u/l0pc896u)
bett' ask brand'n 'bout wat happen to his rite eye wen he kept mentionin my child tho faggot
not a damn thing. and fck you aided child
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These damn surface level "offenses" :helpme:
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I low key get offended with micro-aggressive behavior from white or straight people. I got into it with the CEO of my organization 4 months into working here because she got a lil too comfortable with her little ignorant slights.
Someone calling out my character also bothers me. Especially if they don't really know me and it's probably inaccurate.
Quote from: r u ok on July 18, 2016, 05:34:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:32:20 PM
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These damn surface level "offenses" :helpme:
is make me hitting the surface
Is Ton's credit score?
I don't really get offended but more like annoyed, and by really small things.
Although one thing that kinda offends me is when you do nice things for people and they give you their ass to kiss.
I'm very conscientious. I always say thank you, you're welcome etc and it really offends me when people don't do the same out in public.
Sometimes I have to catch myself because I'll be on this rampage and be total complete bitch to people who have nothing to do with what just happened.
Ummm don't raise your voice to me in front of a lot of people or give me constructive criticism because I feel like ur tryna show out and use me as some type of "example" in front of others
That offends me.
(https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
Oh wait another thing that offends me is people who suck at communicating and would rather sweep mess under the rug than have an open and honest conversation.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 05:05:49 PM
vvvvvvv
am mean, I don't really get offended by things, just annoyed...
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 05:42:24 PM
I'm very conscientious. I always say thank you, you're welcome etc and it really offends me when people don't do the same out in public.
Sometimes I have to catch myself because I'll be on this rampage and be total complete bitch to people who have nothing to do with what just happened.
Ummm don't raise your voice to me in front of a lot of people or give me constructive criticism because I feel like ur tryna show out and use me as some type of "example" in front of others
That offends me.
(https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
!!!
i dnt like rude ppl
if i can muster sum kinda smile on my worse day
sure u could do tha sames
bitch
idk if i evr mention this but i LOATHE...uppity ppl
Quote from: Nine on July 18, 2016, 05:17:44 PM
Quote from: Chao on July 18, 2016, 05:15:31 PM
oh & i cnt stands wen a group of ppl r gigglin' b'hind me in a public place
like can u guys shut tha fck up & let me be bettr than u in peace
ugh
(https://uploadir.com/u/l0pc896u)
they're probably laughing at your some assembly required pussy hun
dhhhhxxxxxxxxxx
Not a 20 piece clit kit.
Quote from: Chao on July 18, 2016, 05:44:22 PM
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 05:42:24 PM
I'm very conscientious. I always say thank you, you're welcome etc and it really offends me when people don't do the same out in public.
Sometimes I have to catch myself because I'll be on this rampage and be total complete bitch to people who have nothing to do with what just happened.
Ummm don't raise your voice to me in front of a lot of people or give me constructive criticism because I feel like ur tryna show out and use me as some type of "example" in front of others
That offends me.
(https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
!!!
i dnt like rude ppl
if i can muster sum kinda smile on my worse day
sure u could do tha sames
bitch
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Djjdjdjdjd
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Ddjdnnd
Sndndn
Sndndn
Dmd
Something that definitely offends me when a non poc meets you and tries to be "down" and mess.
Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 05:48:40 PM
Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.
!
I get annoyed with my female friends or potential friends. You don't have to call me "hunh" or "boo" every 5 secs to let me know you're aware of my sexuality.
Or even girls who feel like because you're gay you're automatically more aligned with being a woman. Some of us are and thats cool. My classmate tried to invite me to her "ladies night" event and I was politely had to let her know :uhh:
I hate talking to a non person of color in casual conversation and they put on that "hood, down, ghetto" accent to emphasize their point. Especially when I myself don't do it :plzstop: Depending upon the person/relationship I'll question the intent or just ignore it/them. But it irks my nerves
(https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
It kinda offends me when white people are snappy towards younger black people. I was at the store the other day and this younger black girl was working the register; u can tell sis was a bit new. But here comes CAROL and her kids walking up to the counter with her bargain mess being impatient and bitchy. It was just unwarranted :uhh: like give the girl a break. Obviously the girl is still being trained. She visibly looked pissed and like she wanted to cry
I wanted to knock the white bitch upside her head so bad tbh
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 05:57:00 PM
It kinda offends me when white people are snappy towards younger black people. I was at the store the other day and this younger black girl was working the register; u can tell sis was a bit new. But here comes CAROL and her kids walking up to the counter with her bargain mess being impatient and bitchy. It was just unwarranted :uhh: like give the girl a break. Obviously the girl is still being trained. She visibly looked pissed and like she wanted to cry
I wanted to knock the white bitch upside her head so bad tbh
:fuming:
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:35:15 PM
Someone calling out my character also bothers me. Especially if they don't really know me and it's probably inaccurate.
!!!!
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:32:20 PM
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These damn surface level "offenses" :helpme:
s
stfu
(https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:52:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 05:48:40 PM
Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.
!
I get annoyed with my female friends or potential friends. You don't have to call me "hunh" or "boo" every 5 secs to let me know you're aware of my sexuality.
Or even girls who feel like because you're gay you're automatically more aligned with being a woman. Some of us are and thats cool. My classmate tried to invite me to her "ladies night" event and I was politely had to let her know :uhh:
dddhhvffffffffffff
My female coworkers be trying to do the same mess. Ladies night!
And then one of them called me a girl one time and I was like :shannonsmissing:
Then she was like :everythingok: :diddraispoot:
Quote from: Pearls on July 18, 2016, 05:56:03 PM
I hate talking to a non person of color in casual conversation and they put on that "hood, down, ghetto" accent to emphasize their point. Especially when I myself don't do it :plzstop: Depending upon the person/relationship I'll question the intent or just ignore it/them. But it irks my nerves
!!!!!!
I also don't like when older white males call me son and boy. IDK it makes me feel uncomfortable.
So,
I be over the HIV/AIDS jokes sometimes. I just feel like as Black gay men, you're more likely to know or have encountered someone who has contracted it. A friend, an ex, someone you know. Especially with the rates being the way they are now.
I couldn't see anyone who may be dealing with it alone, coming to some of you for support. I think the way black men speak about it sometimes plays a role in why so many people don't get tested and are afraid to seek help. Which ultimately plays a role in the contraction rates.
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 06:01:49 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:52:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 05:48:40 PM
Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.
!
I get annoyed with my female friends or potential friends. You don't have to call me "hunh" or "boo" every 5 secs to let me know you're aware of my sexuality.
Or even girls who feel like because you're gay you're automatically more aligned with being a woman. Some of us are and thats cool. My classmate tried to invite me to her "ladies night" event and I was politely had to let her know :uhh:
dddhhvffffffffffff
My female coworkers be trying to do the same mess. Ladies night!
And then one of them called me a girl one time and I was like :shannonsmissing:
Then she was like :everythingok: :diddraispoot:
fvgbhnvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeq
What's happening
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 06:03:54 PM
So,
I be over the HIV/AIDS jokes sometimes. I just feel like as Black gay men, you're more likely to know or have encountered someone who has contracted it. A friend, an ex, someone you know. Especially with the rates being the way they are now.
I couldn't see anyone who may be dealing with it alone, coming to some of you for support. I think the way black men speak about it sometimes plays a role in why so many people don't get tested and are afraid to seek help. Which ultimately plays a role in the contraction rates.
(https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:05:27 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 06:03:54 PM
So,
I be over the HIV/AIDS jokes sometimes. I just feel like as Black gay men, you're more likely to know or have encountered someone who has contracted it. A friend, an ex, someone you know. Especially with the rates being the way they are now.
I couldn't see anyone who may be dealing with it alone, coming to some of you for support. I think the way black men speak about it sometimes plays a role in why so many people don't get tested and are afraid to seek help. Which ultimately plays a role in the contraction rates.
(https://uploadir.com/u/l5npvyee)
gtyfff3
ur wretched
im also am offended wen my struggles as a gay man r diminish
it rlly lets me kno tht ppl r IDIOTS & cant have empathy for an'one else but themselves & their struggles
LOLS!
o u jus gay! u can hide it!
dnt evr evr EVR..say tht mess to me
(https://uploadir.com/u/3egnrx37)
an unkept and stank weave upsets me
(https://uploadir.com/u/3egnrx37)
nhgbvfgdcbjnm,d
(https://uploadir.com/u/3egnrx37)
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 06:01:49 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:52:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 05:48:40 PM
Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.
!
I get annoyed with my female friends or potential friends. You don't have to call me "hunh" or "boo" every 5 secs to let me know you're aware of my sexuality.
Or even girls who feel like because you're gay you're automatically more aligned with being a woman. Some of us are and thats cool. My classmate tried to invite me to her "ladies night" event and I was politely had to let her know :uhh:
dddhhvffffffffffff
And then one of them called me a girl one time and I was like :shannonsmissing:
Then she was like :everythingok: :diddraispoot:
DGHCSJKSKMBVSMBVNMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:52:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 05:48:40 PM
Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.
!
I get annoyed with my female friends or potential friends. You don't have to call me "hunh" or "boo" every 5 secs to let me know you're aware of my sexuality.
Or even girls who feel like because you're gay you're automatically more aligned with being a woman. Some of us are and thats cool. My classmate tried to invite me to her "ladies night" event and I was politely had to let her know :uhh:
I'm annoyed for you guys when I hear and see them do this tbh. I think a lot of them feel like the have to assimilate black gay culture when around gay men. It's similar to how certain white people will start to throw "girlll" "what's up" and rap music around.
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:09:38 PM
an unkept and stank weave upsets me
(https://uploadir.com/u/3egnrx37)
!!!!
or badly done. I was sitting behind this lady in church yesterday and the fact that I could see exactly where the tracks were on her scalp when she sat down offended the fck outta me
(https://uploadir.com/u/3egnrx37)
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Being a woman just seems so time consuming tho. I'd probably have a quick weave or cap mess too for the prices women pay every 2 weeks.
'Man are you put together/snatched all the time?
she bettr fckin be
wit tha way she call me ugl' all tha damns times
bnm
:omgwatshappening:
I hate liars
I hate when ppl drag me out of my element as well.. Like i don't like being around a lot of ppl.. If we agreeing to hanging .. Don't invite others and put me in a situation that I'll have to be rude.. Hate that
I don't like folks asking me a series of questions about shit..
I Hate for ppl to make me feel like the things I've done aren't good enough
Hate when ppl give me advice that I didn't ask for
I hate when there's something wrong with me and my dude or bestfriend can't tell without me having to tell them.. That pisses me off
Hate when ppl disregard my feelings as well
Quote from: Chao on July 18, 2016, 06:35:08 PM
she bettr fckin be
wit tha way she call me ugl' all tha damns times
wtf :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
:omgwatshappening:
I'm offended when people don't worship INOJ
Makes me wanna punch them
U know what .. Recently I realized that I'm way too giving and way too good of a friend
I have to dial back on my niceness because I've been really feeling slighted by ppl .., and I'm not one to look for anything in return but there's ways to show ppl u appreciate them and I don't feel as though ppl have been returning the fucking love
I'm DONE
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 06:33:48 PM
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Being a woman just seems so time consuming tho. I'd probably have a quick weave or cap mess too for the prices women pay every 2 weeks.
'Man are you put together/snatched all the time?
It seems impossible
Hair, makeup, nails, toes etc.
Just too much
Are you a cancer?
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:38:26 PM
I hate when ppl drag me out of my element as well.. Like i don't like being around a lot of ppl.. If we agreeing to hanging .. Don't invite others and put me in a situation that I'll have to be rude.. Hate that
Hate when ppl give me advice that I didn't ask for
!!!!!!!
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:38:26 PM
I hate when ppl drag me out of my element as well.. Like i don't like being around a lot of ppl.. If we agreeing to hanging .. Don't invite others and put me in a situation that I'll have to be rude.. Hate that
!!!!!! Omffff
I need to know every detail tbh. how many ppl will be there..who's going..don't be inviting gorls the last minute. Then they end up being stank and the energy is thrown off and fucked off
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:40:04 PM
U know what .. Recently I realized that I'm way too giving and way too good of a friend
I have to dial back on my niceness because I've been really feeling slighted by ppl .., and I'm not one to look for anything in return but there's ways to show ppl u appreciate them and I don't feel as though ppl have been returning the fucking love
I'm DONE
twin wait !
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:40:04 PM
U know what .. Recently I realized that I'm way too giving and way too good of a friend
I have to dial back on my niceness because I've been really feeling slighted by ppl .., and I'm not one to look for anything in return but there's ways to show ppl u appreciate them and I don't feel as though ppl have been returning the fucking love
I'm DONE
I just said this a few pages ago.
I already warned some of my friends I was going back to my asshole mode. :dead:
I don't like when people try to make me feel uncomfortable for not being very extroverted.
I get super annoyed when people feel like sex is a cure to everything or something is wrong when you're not having it constantly.
Last year, I told my friends back home I hadn't had sex in almost a year and they spazzed out "oh what's WRONG witchu!? "
or when you're down or upset and someone pops up with "oh you just need some ass/dick"
Bitch im fuckin depressed, can you not :uhh: :uhh: :uhh:
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:46:41 PM
I don't like when people try to make me feel uncomfortable for not being very extroverted.
!!!!
Especially in a professional setting under the guise of being a "people person"
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:46:41 PM
I don't like when people try to make me feel uncomfortable for not being very extroverted.
And then most of the time it happens at work.
Like we're not here to kiki.
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:46:41 PM
I don't like when people try to make me feel uncomfortable for not being very extroverted.
!!!!!!!!!
Them: why u so quiet
Me: :udontlookok:
Initially I'm not all in the gorls faces talking their ears off
It takes a bit of time
At work i'm pretty patient. A couple people have rubbed me the wrong way but I don't wanna be that guy, so I overlooked it...for now :dead:
I used to check my friends with a quickness but i'm a lot more understanding now that i'm older.
Co-workers who wanna be friendly outside of work are annoying to me.
"Let's go out for drinks! r u on instagram? I'm having a get together. You should come!"
Hun :calmdownsis:
It's annoying when I have someone visit my place and they move stuff around without asking or don't leave it as tidy. If the bed was made before you got in it, make it again when you get it. Or once you're done with the drink/food, attempt to clear it up. Don't leave water residue on the bathroom sink when you're done washing your hands etc
Yeah it's offensive when people are filth
Quote from: RON. on July 18, 2016, 07:12:40 PM
It's annoying when I have someone visit my place and they move stuff around without asking or don't leave it as tidy. If the bed was made before you got in it, make it again when you get it. Or once you're done with the drink/food, attempt to clear it up. Don't leave water residue on the bathroom sink when you're done washing your hands etc
:wellheythere:
I hate gorls who rush me or are impatient or don't show empathy. Real turn off. Be kind and understanding.
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 06:42:45 PM
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:38:26 PM
I hate when ppl drag me out of my element as well.. Like i don't like being around a lot of ppl.. If we agreeing to hanging .. Don't invite others and put me in a situation that I'll have to be rude.. Hate that
!!!!!! Omffff
I need to know every detail tbh. how many ppl will be there..who's going..don't be inviting gorls the last minute. Then they end up being stank and the energy is thrown off and fucked off
TBRFH!!!!!!!!
Energy is so important
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 06:43:34 PM
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:40:04 PM
U know what .. Recently I realized that I'm way too giving and way too good of a friend
I have to dial back on my niceness because I've been really feeling slighted by ppl .., and I'm not one to look for anything in return but there's ways to show ppl u appreciate them and I don't feel as though ppl have been returning the fucking love
I'm DONE
twin wait !
:ohwow:
Truthfully, if things bother me I rarely ever say anything right away, if at all. I tend to wait n let things build up and then... Yea. I'm not a confrontational person, so I usually try to avoid. When I'm at a point where I feel the need to address, its just best that you be careful and try to understand. I'm the kind of person to randomly cut somebody off and they have no idea why I don't use. :dead:
But something that REALLY pisses me off is people testing me (in a way as if they're trying to embarrass me). Like this girl at my job. :uhh:
"What project you working on today? I thought you finished that yesterday?"
I slightly snapped last week. "Gorl what are YOU working on? Besides walking around and getting coffee". I threw a "KI" at the end to ease the blow. People up here got too much mouth for me.... :uhh: And she honestly probably didn't even mean harm. :dead:
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 06:43:40 PM
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:40:04 PM
U know what .. Recently I realized that I'm way too giving and way too good of a friend
I have to dial back on my niceness because I've been really feeling slighted by ppl .., and I'm not one to look for anything in return but there's ways to show ppl u appreciate them and I don't feel as though ppl have been returning the fucking love
I'm DONE
I just said this a few pages ago.
I already warned some of my friends I was going back to my asshole mode. :dead:
!!
It pains me but I have to just go back..
Being nice really doesn't have its perks.. And ppl take it for granted..
So no more spreading myself so thin ..
I've watched so many ppl benefit from my niceness and no it's time for reciprocation or leave me the fuck alone ..
The latter is what im perfectly fine with actually
When people don't appreciate other cultures. A friend was mad that he couldn't find American food when he visited Thailand :uhh: :uhh:
Quote from: Trey on July 18, 2016, 07:22:25 PM
Truthfully, if things bother me I rarely ever say anything right away, if at all. I tend to wait n let things build up and then... Yea. I'm not a confrontational person, so I usually try to avoid. When I'm at a point where I feel the need to address, its just best that you be careful and try to understand. I'm the kind of person to randomly cut somebody off and they have no idea why I don't use. :dead:
But something that REALLY pisses me off is people testing me (in a way as if they're trying to embarrass me). Like this girl at my job. :uhh:
"What project you working on today? I thought you finished that yesterday?"
I slightly snapped last week. "Gorl what are YOU working on? Besides walking around and getting coffee". I threw a "KI" at the end to ease the blow. People up here got too much mouth for me.... :uhh: And she honestly probably didn't even mean harm. :dead:
well not your fault
:letsmessfag:
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 06:47:39 PM
I get super annoyed when people feel like sex is a cure to everything or something is wrong when you're not having it constantly.
Last year, I told my friends back home I hadn't had sex in almost a year and they spazzed out "oh what's WRONG witchu!? "
or when you're down or upset and someone pops up with "oh you just need some ass/dick"
Bitch im fuckin depressed, can you not :uhh: :uhh: :uhh:
Honestly I had to learn this
I use to think sex could really fix things or put u in a better space in a relationship but I've learned that communication and talking things out are far more fufilling
After awhile sex gets old .. And feelings get left to interpretation when you use it to surpress shit that simply needs a conversation
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 06:57:38 PM
Co-workers who wanna be friendly outside of work are annoying to me.
"Let's go out for drinks! r u on instagram? I'm having a get together. You should come!"
Hun :calmdownsis:
ssss !!!!
I really just like to keep to myself tbh.
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 06:50:05 PM
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:46:41 PM
I don't like when people try to make me feel uncomfortable for not being very extroverted.
!!!!!!!!!
Them: why u so quiet
Me: :udontlookok:
Initially I'm not all in the gorls faces talking their ears off
It takes a bit of time
!!!
I have to feel ppl OWT..
And get a clear view of everyone in the vicinity..
Usually the loudest person in the room is who I can't fuck with like that.. So i step back and get into the atmosphere before unraveling myself
Extroverts can be so selfish IMO
I honestly hate when ppl ask me a question more than once .. :udontlookok:
I can handle a second mess but explaining myself over and over again will quickly make me black out and lose it
One last fucking thing
I hate ppl who have no regard for someone picking them up..
Like :uhh:
If I drove all the way over there to get you from my place or wherever I was .. The least you can do is be downstairs/outside/ready when I pull the fuck up..
This is one of the most easiest things to really make me lose it.. And then when u get in the car and not be very apologetic and appreciative!
OOOOOOF!
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 07:28:04 PM
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 06:50:05 PM
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:46:41 PM
I don't like when people try to make me feel uncomfortable for not being very extroverted.
!!!!!!!!!
Them: why u so quiet
Me: :udontlookok:
Initially I'm not all in the gorls faces talking their ears off
It takes a bit of time
!!!
I have to feel ppl OWT..
And get a clear view of everyone in the vicinity..
Usually the loudest person in the room is who I can't fuck with like that.. So i step back and get into the atmosphere before unraveling myself
Extroverts can be so selfish IMO
!!!! >><<
I have respect for people who aren't so confrontational. I've been learning to practice some restraint in a professional setting.
Most the time though soon as someone says something out of pocket
:diddraispoot:
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 07:33:07 PM
I have respect for people who aren't so confrontational. I've been learning to practice some restraint in a professional setting.
Most the time though soon as someone says something out of pocket
:diddraispoot:
I'm trying to work on this.
I can be petty or blow the fuck up but at this point in my life I'm trying to avoid as much stress and negativity as possible. I just let mess ride and exile people out of my life.
I don't like repeating myself more than once either. It's offends me that u weren't listening thoroughly the first time :udontlookok:
Fffffffff
TBH!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't like people who do the whole "am real! say it like it is! brut' honest!". there's a difference between being honest and being outright hateful and it's usually the latter with those types.
and they're usually the most defensive whenever someone says something that they don't agree with.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 07:37:30 PM
I don't like people who do the whole "am real! say it like it is! brut' honest!". there's a difference between being honest and being outright hateful and it's usually the latter with those types.
and they're usually the most defensive whenever someone says something that they don't agree with.
!!!!!!!! or just plain ol' LOUD
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 07:37:30 PM
I don't like people who do the whole "am real! say it like it is! brut' honest!". there's a difference between being honest and being outright hateful and it's usually the latter with those types.
and they're usually the most defensive whenever someone says something that they don't agree with.
I hate that
keeping it real! 100 percent!
no you're just bitch hun
:holdupguys:
r u talking about me
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 07:37:30 PM
I don't like people who do the whole "am real! say it like it is! brut' honest!". there's a difference between being honest and being outright hateful and it's usually the latter with those types.
and they're usually the most defensive whenever someone says something that they don't agree with.
Yeah
Being honest =/= Being a fckn bitch
If ur loud and ghetto we can't be friends
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 07:37:30 PM
I don't like people who do the whole "am real! say it like it is! brut' honest!". there's a difference between being honest and being outright hateful and it's usually the latter with those types.
and they're usually the most defensive whenever someone says something that they don't agree with.
B
I used to be like this when I was younger.
I definitely believe in transparency but I've learned it's about how you deliver the message and intent behind it.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 06:57:38 PM
Co-workers who wanna be friendly outside of work are annoying to me.
"Let's go out for drinks! r u on instagram? I'm having a get together. You should come!"
Hun :calmdownsis:
>>>><<<<
YUUUUUUUUUUMZ!!!!!!!!!!! But up north is so different than the south. I've gone out with co-workers already and it didn't feel uncomfortable.
Down south, if you run into somebody from work at the club it's like...
:diddraispoot:
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I don't like my coworkers seeing my...untamed side. I try not to go to clubs or parties with them. Got a rep and image to maintain.
:sobusyjetsetter:
I guess the only thing to really offend me is when Trey tries to sleep with my men
Quote from: Chao on July 18, 2016, 05:09:44 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 05:05:49 PM
vvvvvvv
am mean, I don't really get offended by things, just annoyed...
!!
lols yea..im jus laid bac
things dnt get to me
i may get a lil annoyed tho............
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 18, 2016, 05:11:52 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on July 18, 2016, 05:10:47 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 18, 2016, 05:05:03 PM
Offensive things...not pet peeves :plzstop:
what I posted offends me, bitch
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
You're so...edgy
!! new age even. an "above the gorls" kinda gorl
Im absolutely offended if/when people assume they know what im thinking or about to say, based on a previous experience with me. We all should be about growth and evolution and certainly never staying the same in most aspects (unless its something positive) so when people assume im going to say or do something that i did back in 2009, im gonna be more than frustrated. You dont know me, period.
Im also offended by "friends" that dont give me the benefit of the doubt in a situation, but thats rare. Im rarely in mess
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 05:57:00 PM
It kinda offends me when white people are snappy towards younger black people. I was at the store the other day and this younger black girl was working the register; u can tell sis was a bit new. But here comes CAROL and her kids walking up to the counter with her bargain mess being impatient and bitchy. It was just unwarranted :uhh: like give the girl a break. Obviously the girl is still being trained. She visibly looked pissed and like she wanted to cry
I wanted to knock the white bitch upside her head so bad tbh
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and fck that entitled bitch.
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 05:42:24 PM
Ummm don't raise your voice to me in front of a lot of people or give me constructive criticism because I feel like ur tryna show out and use me as some type of "example" in front of others
That offends me.
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Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:52:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 05:48:40 PM
Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.
!
I get annoyed with my female friends or potential friends. You don't have to call me "hunh" or "boo" every 5 secs to let me know you're aware of my sexuality.
Or even girls who feel like because you're gay you're automatically more aligned with being a woman. Some of us are and thats cool. My classmate tried to invite me to her "ladies night" event and I was politely had to let her know :uhh:
:plzstop:
omg females stay doin that shit, huh? i aint ever
THAT comfortable :uhh:
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:38:26 PM
I hate liars
I hate when ppl drag me out of my element as well.. Like i don't like being around a lot of ppl.. If we agreeing to hanging .. Don't invite others and put me in a situation that I'll have to be rude.. Hate that
nf;lf;gfgfgfgfffff not forcing you to be rude
Quote from: RIGGY on July 18, 2016, 11:58:42 PM
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:38:26 PM
I hate liars
I hate when ppl drag me out of my element as well.. Like i don't like being around a lot of ppl.. If we agreeing to hanging .. Don't invite others and put me in a situation that I'll have to be rude.. Hate that
nf;lf;gfgfgfgfffff not forcing you to be rude
but this so true!!!!!!!!! I absolutely hate that! And my best friend do it all the time and I end up reading him all the time :uhh:
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 06:48:12 PM
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:46:41 PM
I don't like when people try to make me feel uncomfortable for not being very extroverted.
!!!!
Especially in a professional setting under the guise of being a "people person"
:dead: :dead:
yea you don't have to be in everyones face and constantly loud in order to be a people person. how rude
Quote from: RIGGY on July 18, 2016, 11:32:25 PM
Quote from: Chao on July 18, 2016, 05:09:44 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 05:05:49 PM
vvvvvvv
am mean, I don't really get offended by things, just annoyed...
!!
lols yea..im jus laid bac
things dnt get to me
i may get a lil annoyed tho............
i was lyin here btw
jus saids this to fit in
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 07:37:30 PM
I don't like people who do the whole "am real! say it like it is! brut' honest!". there's a difference between being honest and being outright hateful and it's usually the latter with those types.
and they're usually the most defensive whenever someone says something that they don't agree with.
!!!!!
Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 07:36:25 PM
I don't like repeating myself more than once either. It's offends me that u weren't listening thoroughly the first time :udontlookok:
:plzstop:
- A lack of manners/general respect for others can make me go 0 to 100 real quick for some reason.
- When someone reacts unreasonably to things that don't matter or will be forgotten about in 10 minutes.
- Homophobia's obnoxious but then that just shows a lack of intelligence, so... they play themselves.
- Extremists (i.e. iMan)
I'm usually offended by these types of people for a quick second, then I decide to get over myself & keep on punching.