Things that offend you? How do you handle Them?

Started by Kurama, July 18, 2016, 04:11:17 PM

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Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 06:03:54 PM
So,

I be over the HIV/AIDS jokes sometimes. I just feel like as Black gay men, you're more likely to know or have encountered someone who has contracted it. A friend, an ex, someone you know. Especially with the rates being the way they are now.

I couldn't see anyone who may be dealing with it alone, coming to some of you for support. I think the way black men speak about it sometimes plays a role in why so many people don't get tested and are afraid to seek help. Which ultimately plays a role in the contraction rates.



Kurama

Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:05:27 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 06:03:54 PM
So,

I be over the HIV/AIDS jokes sometimes. I just feel like as Black gay men, you're more likely to know or have encountered someone who has contracted it. A friend, an ex, someone you know. Especially with the rates being the way they are now.

I couldn't see anyone who may be dealing with it alone, coming to some of you for support. I think the way black men speak about it sometimes plays a role in why so many people don't get tested and are afraid to seek help. Which ultimately plays a role in the contraction rates.



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Treasure

im also am offended wen my struggles as a gay man r diminish

it rlly lets me kno tht ppl r IDIOTS & cant have empathy for an'one else but themselves & their struggles
LOLS!


o u jus gay! u can hide it!

dnt evr evr EVR..say tht mess to me

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Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 06:01:49 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:52:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 05:48:40 PM

Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.   


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I get annoyed with my female friends or potential friends. You don't have to call me "hunh" or "boo" every 5 secs to let me know you're aware of my sexuality.

Or even girls who feel like because you're gay you're automatically more aligned with being a woman. Some of us are and thats cool. My classmate tried to invite me to her "ladies night" event and I was politely had to let her know  :uhh:

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And then one of them called me a girl one time and I was like  :shannonsmissing:

Then she was like  :everythingok:  :diddraispoot:
 


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Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 05:52:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 05:48:40 PM

Also when a hetero gets a little too comfortable with their choice of words just because they know you're bi/gay and cool with them.   


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I get annoyed with my female friends or potential friends. You don't have to call me "hunh" or "boo" every 5 secs to let me know you're aware of my sexuality.

Or even girls who feel like because you're gay you're automatically more aligned with being a woman. Some of us are and thats cool. My classmate tried to invite me to her "ladies night" event and I was politely had to let her know  :uhh:

I'm annoyed for you guys when I hear and see them do this tbh. I think a lot of them feel like the have to assimilate black gay culture when around gay men. It's similar to how certain white people will start to throw "girlll" "what's up" and rap music around.


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Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:09:38 PM
an unkept and stank weave upsets me


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or badly done. I was sitting behind this lady in church yesterday and the fact that I could see exactly where the tracks were on her scalp when she sat down offended the fck outta me



Kurama

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Being a woman just seems so time consuming tho. I'd probably have a quick weave or cap mess too for the prices women pay every 2 weeks.

'Man are you put together/snatched all the time?

Treasure

July 18, 2016, 06:35:08 PM #69 Last Edit: July 18, 2016, 06:35:18 PM by Chao
she bettr fckin be

wit tha way she call me ugl' all tha damns times


GLOCK

I hate liars
I hate when ppl drag me out of my element as well.. Like i don't like being around a lot of ppl.. If we agreeing to hanging .. Don't invite others and put me in a situation that I'll have to be rude.. Hate that

I don't like folks asking me a series of questions about shit..
I Hate for ppl to make me feel like the things I've done aren't good enough
Hate when ppl give me advice that I didn't ask for


I hate when there's something wrong with me and my dude or bestfriend can't tell without me having to tell them.. That pisses me off

Hate when ppl disregard my feelings as well


BAPHOMET.



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