Things that offend you? How do you handle Them?

Started by Kurama, July 18, 2016, 04:11:17 PM

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DVDDY.

It's annoying when I have someone visit my place and they move stuff around without asking or don't leave it as tidy. If the bed was made before you got in it, make it again when you get it. Or once you're done with the drink/food, attempt to clear it up. Don't leave water residue on the bathroom sink when you're done washing your hands etc

FINE.


LOONA.

Quote from: RON. on July 18, 2016, 07:12:40 PM
It's annoying when I have someone visit my place and they move stuff around without asking or don't leave it as tidy. If the bed was made before you got in it, make it again when you get it. Or once you're done with the drink/food, attempt to clear it up. Don't leave water residue on the bathroom sink when you're done washing your hands etc

:wellheythere:

SouravMay

I hate gorls who rush me or are impatient or don't show empathy. Real turn off. Be kind and understanding.
B7

GLOCK

Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 06:42:45 PM
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:38:26 PM
I hate when ppl drag me out of my element as well.. Like i don't like being around a lot of ppl.. If we agreeing to hanging .. Don't invite others and put me in a situation that I'll have to be rude.. Hate that
!!!!!! Omffff

I need to know every detail tbh. how many ppl will be there..who's going..don't be inviting gorls the last minute. Then they end up being stank and the energy is thrown off and fucked off
TBRFH!!!!!!!!


Energy is so important

GLOCK

Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 06:43:34 PM
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:40:04 PM
U know what .. Recently I realized that I'm way too giving and way too good of a friend

I have to dial back on my niceness because I've been really feeling slighted by ppl .., and I'm not one to look for anything in return but there's ways to show ppl u appreciate them and I don't feel as though ppl have been returning the fucking love


I'm DONE
twin wait !
:ohwow:

Stunna Gor’

Truthfully, if things bother me I rarely ever say anything right away, if at all. I tend to wait n let things build up and then... Yea. I'm not a confrontational person, so I usually try to avoid. When I'm at a point where I feel the need to address, its just best that you be careful and try to understand. I'm the kind of person to randomly cut somebody off and they have no idea why I don't use. :dead:

But something that REALLY pisses me off is people testing me (in a way as if they're trying to embarrass me). Like this girl at my job. :uhh:

"What project you working on today? I thought you finished that yesterday?"

I slightly snapped last week. "Gorl what are YOU working on? Besides walking around and getting coffee". I threw a "KI" at the end to ease the blow. People up here got too much mouth for me.... :uhh: And she honestly probably didn't even mean harm. :dead:

GLOCK

Quote from: Drais. on July 18, 2016, 06:43:40 PM
Quote from: Glock on July 18, 2016, 06:40:04 PM
U know what .. Recently I realized that I'm way too giving and way too good of a friend

I have to dial back on my niceness because I've been really feeling slighted by ppl .., and I'm not one to look for anything in return but there's ways to show ppl u appreciate them and I don't feel as though ppl have been returning the fucking love


I'm DONE

I just said this a few pages ago.

I already warned some of my friends I was going back to my asshole mode.  :dead:   

!!
It pains me but I have to just go back..
Being nice really doesn't have its perks.. And ppl take it for granted..
So no more spreading myself so thin ..
I've watched so many ppl benefit from my niceness and no it's time for reciprocation or leave me the fuck alone ..

The latter is what im perfectly fine with actually

DVDDY.

When people don't appreciate other cultures. A friend was mad that he couldn't find American food when he visited Thailand  :uhh: :uhh:

Kurama

Quote from: Trey on July 18, 2016, 07:22:25 PM
Truthfully, if things bother me I rarely ever say anything right away, if at all. I tend to wait n let things build up and then... Yea. I'm not a confrontational person, so I usually try to avoid. When I'm at a point where I feel the need to address, its just best that you be careful and try to understand. I'm the kind of person to randomly cut somebody off and they have no idea why I don't use. :dead:

But something that REALLY pisses me off is people testing me (in a way as if they're trying to embarrass me). Like this girl at my job. :uhh:

"What project you working on today? I thought you finished that yesterday?"

I slightly snapped last week. "Gorl what are YOU working on? Besides walking around and getting coffee". I threw a "KI" at the end to ease the blow. People up here got too much mouth for me.... :uhh: And she honestly probably didn't even mean harm. :dead:

well not your fault

:letsmessfag:

GLOCK

Quote from: Kurama on July 18, 2016, 06:47:39 PM
I get super annoyed when people feel like sex is a cure to everything or something is wrong when you're not having it constantly.

Last year, I told my friends back home I hadn't had sex in almost a year and they spazzed out "oh what's WRONG witchu!? "

or when you're down or upset and someone pops up with "oh you just need some ass/dick"

Bitch im fuckin depressed, can you not  :uhh: :uhh: :uhh:
Honestly I had to learn this
I use to think sex could really fix things or put u in a better space in a relationship but I've learned that communication and talking things out are far more fufilling

After awhile sex gets old .. And feelings get left to interpretation when you use it to surpress shit that simply needs a conversation


Cartierline

Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 18, 2016, 06:57:38 PM
Co-workers who wanna be friendly outside of work are annoying to me.

"Let's go out for drinks! r u on instagram? I'm having a get together. You should come!"

Hun :calmdownsis:
ssss !!!!


I really just like to keep to myself tbh.

GLOCK

Quote from: FINE. on July 18, 2016, 06:50:05 PM
Quote from: imani on July 18, 2016, 06:46:41 PM
I don't like when people try to make me feel uncomfortable for not being very extroverted.
!!!!!!!!!

Them: why u so quiet

Me: :udontlookok:


Initially I'm not all in the gorls faces talking their ears off

It takes a bit of time
!!!
I have to feel ppl OWT..
And get a clear view of everyone in the vicinity..
Usually the loudest person in the room is who I can't fuck with like that.. So i step back and get into the atmosphere before unraveling myself

Extroverts can be so selfish IMO

GLOCK

I honestly hate when ppl ask me a question more than once .. :udontlookok:

I can handle a second mess but explaining myself over and over again will quickly make me black out and lose it

GLOCK

One last fucking thing
I hate ppl who have no regard for someone picking them up..
Like :uhh:
If I drove all the way over there to get you from my place or wherever I was  .. The least you can do is be downstairs/outside/ready when I pull the fuck up..


This is one of the most easiest things to really make me lose it.. And then when u get in the car and not be very apologetic and appreciative!



OOOOOOF!