https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/almost-three-quarters-gay-community-turned-off-feminine-men-new-survey-finds/#gs.K5kGiuU
That's not surprising. Masculine men have always been "preferred" by many. But I am kinda surprised to learn that it extends to the entire gay community and not just the Black gay community.
I wouldn't say that another "fem" guy would turn me off but I definitely find that a "masculine" man compliments me a lot better.
What's feminine and what's not is so subjective, though. So meh.
I know a "masculine" man that happens to have plenty of "feminine" moments.
And I've definitely encountered "feminine" men who have no clue how "feminine" they are.
Understandable
Zankou dating for u isn?t looking too promising
Fems, where were ya?!
:omgwatshappening:
Not me love a cute fem boy...
Quote from: Glock on November 09, 2017, 04:23:03 PM
Zankou dating for u isn?t looking too promising
Says the girl whose dates hate having sex with him
Quote from: MARS. on November 09, 2017, 04:25:09 PM
Quote from: Glock on November 09, 2017, 04:23:03 PM
Zankou dating for u isn?t looking too promising
Says the girl whose dates hate having sex with him
LYING FAGGOT
Quote from: MARS. on November 09, 2017, 04:25:09 PM
Quote from: Glock on November 09, 2017, 04:23:03 PM
Zankou dating for u isn?t looking too promising
Says the girl whose dates hate having sex with him
:damselindistress:
It's interesting that this survey was taken from "the gay community". This means that they surveyed men who openly identify as gay. But a lot of men who are out and proud/active in the gay community aren't the most masculine. I mean it doesn't make sense but it makes perfect sense at the same time.
Quote from: MARS. on November 09, 2017, 04:25:09 PM
Quote from: Glock on November 09, 2017, 04:23:03 PM
Zankou dating for u isn?t looking too promising
Says the girl whose dates hate having sex with him
'RS :omgwatshappening:
Feminine men get such a bad rap
aw
Fem men with masculine body type is a turn on
Sum bout a sassy power top
:ohwow:
I?m gonna fuck Zanny up
not zanny
sddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd
Gay people are so weird.
It makes sense. I mean ever since I was younger I was attracted to the guys, that we're well into guy things. If I wanted someone who plays in makeup, heels, sassy, perfume, snappy etc...i would just gotten a girl I think. I like I can hang out with, be good friends and sex etc... and still be men! This also may have to do with a lil tiny bit of my self hate as a gay men that I have identified in myself(been doing a lot of work on myself and it really is decreasing) but I just view a lot of them as weak(when in reality, that's just not the case because I admire and see their courage) I can be great friends with them now and not give a damn what anyone thinks(didn't like being see when near them years ago) and also I want rule all of them out now as I have done in the past. But yeah I perfer a man's man.
:cheerup:
Quote from: BowDown on November 09, 2017, 04:23:53 PM
Fems, where were ya?!
:omgwatshappening:
JfjnnNBHBBVVBHHJJNNNNnnnnnnnnbxxxcccccc
Twin, Stfu!
Quote from: REDRUM. on November 09, 2017, 04:51:08 PM
So glad I'm masculine DL trade with 5 baby mommas. LOL.
:woohoo:
Your in the same category as fem men.
:usuresis:
I do rarely even meet feminine men. I?d say 1 in 10 gays is ?fem?.
NNNNNN
It makes sense. I think a lot of people actually try to find ways to swerve into a lane that they feel is more acceptable or will give them a better chance of snagging trade . I've seen so many stories of people saying "ch...he said he was trade. But one night at 6:20PM I caught him rolling his eyes. He one of the gorls." Meanwhile they were frontin' as well. sssss
But I take back what I said earlier in here about the gay community - that was sort of promoting stereotypes to say that the community is chock full of "fems". The media promotes the more feminine ones because it's more "fun". You get the gossip, the shade, the lingo...the fashion.
I can understand why some gay men who are genuinely a lot more tame may get annoyed with it. Because if they announce they're gay - people will begin sending them rainbows, saying "yasss honey!" and mess.
I'm far from the most masculine person myself but even I get annoyed with people assuming that because I'm gay that I want to hear a bunch of "yassss! work it! mmm hmmm! unh huh! gor u did dat! diva!" :plzstop: Unless I address you with all that , don't come to me with it.
Quote from: REDRUM. on November 09, 2017, 04:51:08 PM
So glad I'm masculine DL trade with 5 baby mommas. LOL.
:woohoo:
do you need a place to stay :ohwow:
most of us have fem qualities even if some of us don't want to embody that or admit to it.
femininity will naturally seek out masculinity for balance because it realizes it doesn't possess it on its own.
gay men usually grow up not feeling like men because of society's standards and expectations.
makes sense that most of us would seek that out as a way of compensating for what we feel we lack on our own.
this is the premise of most unhealthy relationships, gay or otherwise...
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 04:58:03 PM
I do rarely even meet feminine men. I?d say 1 in 10 gays is ?fem?.
s
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 04:58:03 PM
I do rarely even meet feminine men. I?d say 1 in 10 gays is ?fem?.
did u conduct a survey
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 04:20:49 PM
And I've definitely encountered "feminine" men who have no clue how "feminine" they are.
Tell me about it!
When I see these dating profiles:
"masculine and looking for the same!"
I'm like gurl you were fem as fuck the other day I saw ya outside, who you foolin? Not that there's anything wrong with that.
Some ppl give a lil fruity tease but I wouldn?t call them feminine.
Like Andy Cohen for example.
The masc/fem mess is usually subjective and way more complicated when you factor in how many men play trade in public and turn into Jay Alexander behind close doors.
At the end of the day, be yourself and stop trying to police other people's behavior, faggot.
Andy Cohen is feminine af
I think a lot of guys are into feminine men, but they are not comfortable with admitting it due to the attached stigma.
also... the obsession with trade is a stage everyone goes through... even straight women fawn over the most complete ideas of what they deem as masculine.
you young queens will find beauty and softness in femininity in time.
realizing both energies are at your grasp at all times and knowing how to harness both so you don't externalize on others' qualities is necessary.
And understand it's okay for everyone to have preferences. There are plenty of men who who don't mind a cunty gay.
Quote from: TAROT. on November 09, 2017, 05:06:27 PM
also... the obsession with trade is a stage everyone goes through... even straight women fawn over the most complete ideas of what they deem as masculine.
you young queens will find beauty and softness in femininity in time.
realizing both energies are at your grasp at all times and knowing how to harness both so you don't externalize on others' qualities is necessary.
r u Maya Angelou
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 09, 2017, 05:05:38 PM
Andy Cohen is feminine af
He?s not feminine at all to me. Miss Jay is feminine or Domo from Family Business or K. Michelle?s assistant.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:04:32 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 04:20:49 PM
And I've definitely encountered "feminine" men who have no clue how "feminine" they are.
Tell me about it!
When I see these dating profiles:
"masculine and looking for the same!"
I'm like gurl you were fem as fuck the other day I saw ya outside, who you foolin? Not that there's anything wrong with that.
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ya kn wh
Personally I must have a man who stans for a pop/R&B diva and can go off when she comes on in the club. Kind of a must have tbh.
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 09, 2017, 05:05:38 PM
Andy Cohen is feminine af
He?s not feminine at all to me.
This is where the subjectivity of it all comes into play.
He not fem! He's on the cusp of fem but not touchin it yet
Nope! He flamin! Hot hot hot hot lolzPeople need to just be and worry about themselves.
Quote from: Tonkaman on November 09, 2017, 04:50:01 PM
It makes sense. I mean ever since I was younger I was attracted to the guys, that we're well into guy things. If I wanted someone who plays in makeup, heels, sassy, perfume, snappy etc...i would just gotten a girl I think. I like I can hang out with, be good friends and sex etc... and still be men! This also may have to do with a lil tiny bit of my self hate as a gay men that I have identified in myself(been doing a lot of work on myself and it really is decreasing) but I just view a lot of them as weak(when in reality, that's just not the case because I admire and see their courage) I can be great friends with them now and not give a damn what anyone thinks(didn't like being see when near them years ago) and also I want rule all of them out now as I have done in the past. But yeah I perfer a man's man.
:cheerup:
Hun your man's man is walking around in heels and a dress when you're asleep.
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 04:58:03 PM
I do rarely even meet feminine men. I?d say 1 in 10 gays is ?fem?.
Are we talking full-blown-fem guys? Cause I would go as far as saying that 5 out of 10 gay guys have a prominent soft/ feminine touch to them. But it really depends on one's definition of femininity.
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:05:14 PM
Some ppl give a lil fruity tease but I wouldn?t call them feminine.
Like Andy Cohen for example.
Andy is def a queen lol
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 04:14:36 PM
https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/almost-three-quarters-gay-community-turned-off-feminine-men-new-survey-finds/#gs.K5kGiuU
That?s sad
And that?s one of the problems in the community
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
r u tryna get views for ur vid
almost fell for it lol
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:12:01 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:04:32 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 04:20:49 PM
And I've definitely encountered "feminine" men who have no clue how "feminine" they are.
Tell me about it!
When I see these dating profiles:
"masculine and looking for the same!"
I'm like gurl you were fem as fuck the other day I saw ya outside, who you foolin? Not that there's anything wrong with that.
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
ya kn wh
tgttttttttttttttttttt
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 09, 2017, 05:26:54 PM
r u tryna get views for ur vid
almost fell for it lol
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eCN5IgaJV6Y&lc=z22yjdgq3w2xh1joc04t1aokgppzzwld2nasm5sxbo0wbk0h00410.1510174235725838
No I wanna know if you think I full under "fem".
I think it's sexy when a masculine guy isn't afraid to queen out a bit every now & then.
It just means he doesn't take himself too seriously, and I find that attractive.
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.
What you think of yourself matters most.
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:28:25 PM
I think it's sexy when a masculine guy isn't afraid to queen out a bit every now & then.
It just means he doesn't take himself too seriously, and I find that attractive.
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
Like you said yourself, you're not macho but also not fem as fuck. I think it's pretty balanced with you. You come off as someone who is comfortable in his skin.
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:28:39 PM
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.
What you think of yourself matters most.
I don't follow. I am just asking for opinions. It is not offensive to me. I mean that is everybody's prerogative to view me how they view me.
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:32:28 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:28:39 PM
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.
What you think of yourself matters most.
I don't follow. I am just asking for opinions. It is not offensive to me. I mean that is everybody's prerogative to view me how they view me.
How do you view yourself, Malc?
Do you think you're masculine, feminine, in betweenish...
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:31:56 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
Like you said yourself, you're not macho but also not fem as fuck. I think it's pretty balanced with you.
Yeah MOST gays, hell most men are like that. Maybe African-Americans have different views on what's masculine/feminine.
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.
Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".
Quote from: TEXASbama on November 09, 2017, 05:28:16 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:24:07 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on November 09, 2017, 04:23:54 PM
Not me love a cute fem boy...
Hey ddy
:enchantress:
I?ll be in la soon we should link up
Oh yeah?
You should swing through. I'll cook you some spaghetti & fried chicken.
:youready:
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:34:29 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:31:56 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
Like you said yourself, you're not macho but also not fem as fuck. I think it's pretty balanced with you.
Yeah MOST gays, hell most men are like that. Maybe African-Americans have different views on what's masculine/feminine.
Yup a healthy balance is great. I can't stand overly masculine guys (no matter the sexual orientation), who you can tell are putting on a show.
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:33:22 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:32:28 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:28:39 PM
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.
What you think of yourself matters most.
I don't follow. I am just asking for opinions. It is not offensive to me. I mean that is everybody's prerogative to view me how they view me.
How do you view yourself, Malc?
Do you think you're masculine, feminine, in betweenish...
I think people could read/detect that I am gay, because I am bubbly. I don't think I have womanly behaviour and I never was viewed it like that. I don't think I give feminine energy. I am a male. idk it is hard to characterize yourself, hence me asking. I can see people calling me feminine though. I can see that too.
I mean this is actually really understandable
we're gay because we grew up liking MEN in the masculine sense, from what we saw growing up
when I was young it was masculine men that I fantasized about...
now how feminine am i on a scale from 1 to 10?
(https://i0.wp.com/www.outfrontmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/tumblr_lyks19C0Mn1r0duubo1_1280-e1479323560504.jpg?resize=600%2C350&ssl=1)
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.
Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".
Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:37:47 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:33:22 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:32:28 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:28:39 PM
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.
What you think of yourself matters most.
I don't follow. I am just asking for opinions. It is not offensive to me. I mean that is everybody's prerogative to view me how they view me.
How do you view yourself, Malc?
Do you think you're masculine, feminine, in betweenish...
I think people could read/detect that I am gay, because I am bubbly. I don't think I have womanly behaviour and I never was viewed it like that. I don't think I give feminine energy. I am a male. idk it is hard to characterize yourself, hence me asking. I can see people calling me feminine though. I can see that too.
I agree - I think you're somewhere in between.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:39:11 PM
now how feminine am i on a scale from 1 to 10?
(https://i0.wp.com/www.outfrontmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/tumblr_lyks19C0Mn1r0duubo1_1280-e1479323560504.jpg?resize=600%2C350&ssl=1)
Slayyyyy
This is hot dddddd
Quote from: Young on November 09, 2017, 05:40:32 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:39:11 PM
now how feminine am i on a scale from 1 to 10?
(https://i0.wp.com/www.outfrontmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/tumblr_lyks19C0Mn1r0duubo1_1280-e1479323560504.jpg?resize=600%2C350&ssl=1)
Slayyyyy
This is hot dddddd
that's not me luv. i wish i was as big as the guy.
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.
Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".
Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I agree.
There's something about a genuinely/purely feminine aura that isn't much like a "gay male" energy. I think "gay male" energy sometimes is manufactured and even forced at times. Whereas feminine essence/aura or presence is just that.
Quote from: Glock on November 09, 2017, 04:42:16 PM
I?m gonna fuck Zanny up
oh no.... I hope this isn't one of those masc bashing threads
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:42:03 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.
Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".
Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I agree.
There's something about a genuinely/purely feminine aura that isn't much like a "gay male" energy. I think "gay male" energy sometimes is manufactured and even forced at times. Whereas feminine essence/aura or presence is just that.
Yeah some gays can say "HNY" "DAHRLING" "bew bew" all day. But they will never serve WOMAN. That is the struggle trans gorls have I think when they try to explain they are not "just homosexual" but trans. I think it's two different vibes, that ppl mix together.
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:46:02 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:42:03 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.
Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".
Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I agree.
There's something about a genuinely/purely feminine aura that isn't much like a "gay male" energy. I think "gay male" energy sometimes is manufactured and even forced at times. Whereas feminine essence/aura or presence is just that.
Yeah some gays can say "HNY" "DAHRLING" "bew bew" all day. But they will never serve WOMAN. That is the struggle trans gorls have I think when they try to explain they are not "just homosexual" but trans. I think it's two different vibes, that ppl mix together.
I agree. Some people think being feminine and a gay man means you have to walk around with a rainbow belt and using lingo etc. Like it's OK to just chill out. Not saying everyone does that but some do.
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:47:28 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:46:02 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:42:03 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.
Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".
Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I agree.
There's something about a genuinely/purely feminine aura that isn't much like a "gay male" energy. I think "gay male" energy sometimes is manufactured and even forced at times. Whereas feminine essence/aura or presence is just that.
Yeah some gays can say "HNY" "DAHRLING" "bew bew" all day. But they will never serve WOMAN. That is the struggle trans gorls have I think when they try to explain they are not "just homosexual" but trans. I think it's two different vibes, that ppl mix together.
I agree. Some people think being feminine and a gay man means you have to walk around with a rainbow belt and using lingo etc. Like it's OK to just chill out. Not saying everyone does that but some do.
r u promotin homophobia
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:41:59 PM
Quote from: Young on November 09, 2017, 05:40:32 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:39:11 PM
now how feminine am i on a scale from 1 to 10?
(https://i0.wp.com/www.outfrontmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/tumblr_lyks19C0Mn1r0duubo1_1280-e1479323560504.jpg?resize=600%2C350&ssl=1)
Slayyyyy
This is hot dddddd
that's not me luv. i wish i was as big as the guy.
Cccccc
Hun just saying this is a bit sessy
nsdndsn
I definitely do it for kii's and laughs. I have a gay coworker ....and when we're in private we say all types of gorl bye! and chileeeee.... sndnsdnnn but its for a quick kii kii. Just being silly. It's back to being adults when the time arrives.
Nothing wrong with it. it's fun. There's just a time and place. That's how I feel.
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:54:54 PM
nsdndsn
I definitely do it for kii's and laughs. I have a gay coworker ....and when we're in private we say all types of gorl bye! and chileeeee.... sndnsdnnn but its for a quick kii kii. Just being silly. It's back to being adults when the time arrives.
Nothing wrong with it. it's fun. There's just a time and place. That's how I feel.
misread this.
i agree
Quote from: Young on November 09, 2017, 05:52:29 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:41:59 PM
Quote from: Young on November 09, 2017, 05:40:32 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:39:11 PM
now how feminine am i on a scale from 1 to 10?
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Slayyyyy
This is hot dddddd
that's not me luv. i wish i was as big as the guy.
Cccccc
Hun just saying this is a bit sessy
i agree.
Not when almost 3/4 are feminine
I?m not surprised.
I?m seriously not sexually or intimately attracted to feminine men, as a lover/partner. Something I?ve come to accept this year. Just can?t do it.
Friendships, fine.
Can receiving anal sex make you effeminate?
http://www.gayforum.org/relationships-sex-and-sexuality/can-receiving-anal-sex-make-you-effeminate-t2390/
QuoteThis guy knew exactly how to treat me in bed, he was gentle but domineering, and physically stronger and taller than me. He turned me on incredibly, and while he was working away all this started happening to me:
- I lost my erection completely, and I didn't care about it, I just wanted him to keep going (Never lost an erection like that before)
- I started having slow, growing waves of some sort of internal orgasm, but no release of sort, and zero ejaculation. My nipples started getting hard and I had short breath. Towards the end I was so horny I felt I was about to explode. (It had nothing to do with my prostate, even though of course it felt great).
- After he had come, I told him it was ok to stop: by then all I cared for was his pleasure, and his pleasure only.
- By the end of it I was in love, I got a HUGE crush on this guy, even though I knew nothing about him and just 20 minutes earlier I thought he was just average. I had these clear, romantic feelings for him like if I were 15.
Then I asked him if he wanted a blowjob to get started again, but when I spoke I had a different, more high-pitch and soft voice, like a girly voice. I could see something was happening to me, I had somehow turned very feminine, but I would have gladly lived with it if I could get him to ram me into submission like that for the rest of my life.
Just half an hour before this happened I knew of myself that I would never want or have a stable relationship with a man, that I looked reasonably masculine, and that I would soon get a new girlfriend. Now not only I wanted to be with him, I accepted I would be his bitch and that maybe everyone would notice.
Unfortunately he didn't like me as much, so he never accepted to meet me again :(
My voice remained "relaxed" like that for a while, and it went back to normal later that day. My crush went away at some point as well, even though I still remember every detail of him and of what we did, and even now I wouldn't think twice before letting him have his way with me again.
I am wondering if you had any similar experience. Did you ever get fucked into a giant crush for someone? Did you ever experience this strange orgasm, being incredibly aroused but without a trace of erection, traditional orgasm or ejaculation? And more importantly, did you ever feel more submissive and "girly" after good anal sex?
This experience was so strong for me that it's making me doubt my sexual preferences. Now I would like to just find someone else who can do that to me again. I am just curious if I should expect to become effeminate if I keep at it.
What do you think?
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.
Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".
Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I kinda get what ur saying and I agree a lil bit
also... femininity and flamboyance should be distinguished from one another... because they are usually linked when they shouldn't be.
flamboyance is usually unattractive... no matter who it's on.
anyone can be flamboyant.
Quote from: TAROT. on November 09, 2017, 06:01:16 PM
also... femininity and flamboyance should be distinguished from one another... because they are usually linked when they shouldn't be.
flamboyance is usually unattractive... no matter who it's on.
anyone can be flamboyant.
Agree 100%.
I think that's what I was trying to say above.
Just walking up somewhere like "HEY BITCHES! AOWWWW YAS MAMA!!!! HONEY CHILE GOR YESSA MASSA BITCH!" Just making a character of yourself literally for no reason.
Like gor. We ain't on TV. I understand when people are younger but after a certain age you should know better.
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on November 09, 2017, 06:00:26 PM
Can receiving anal sex make you effeminate?
http://www.gayforum.org/relationships-sex-and-sexuality/can-receiving-anal-sex-make-you-effeminate-t2390/
QuoteThis guy knew exactly how to treat me in bed, he was gentle but domineering, and physically stronger and taller than me. He turned me on incredibly, and while he was working away all this started happening to me:
- I lost my erection completely, and I didn't care about it, I just wanted him to keep going (Never lost an erection like that before)
- I started having slow, growing waves of some sort of internal orgasm, but no release of sort, and zero ejaculation. My nipples started getting hard and I had short breath. Towards the end I was so horny I felt I was about to explode. (It had nothing to do with my prostate, even though of course it felt great).
- After he had come, I told him it was ok to stop: by then all I cared for was his pleasure, and his pleasure only.
- By the end of it I was in love, I got a HUGE crush on this guy, even though I knew nothing about him and just 20 minutes earlier I thought he was just average. I had these clear, romantic feelings for him like if I were 15.
Then I asked him if he wanted a blowjob to get started again, but when I spoke I had a different, more high-pitch and soft voice, like a girly voice. I could see something was happening to me, I had somehow turned very feminine, but I would have gladly lived with it if I could get him to ram me into submission like that for the rest of my life.
Just half an hour before this happened I knew of myself that I would never want or have a stable relationship with a man, that I looked reasonably masculine, and that I would soon get a new girlfriend. Now not only I wanted to be with him, I accepted I would be his bitch and that maybe everyone would notice.
Unfortunately he didn't like me as much, so he never accepted to meet me again :(
My voice remained "relaxed" like that for a while, and it went back to normal later that day. My crush went away at some point as well, even though I still remember every detail of him and of what we did, and even now I wouldn't think twice before letting him have his way with me again.
I am wondering if you had any similar experience. Did you ever get fucked into a giant crush for someone? Did you ever experience this strange orgasm, being incredibly aroused but without a trace of erection, traditional orgasm or ejaculation? And more importantly, did you ever feel more submissive and "girly" after good anal sex?
This experience was so strong for me that it's making me doubt my sexual preferences. Now I would like to just find someone else who can do that to me again. I am just curious if I should expect to become effeminate if I keep at it.
What do you think?
this fairytale of a story
sssssssssssssssssssssss
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2017, 05:06:31 PM
And understand it's okay for everyone to have preferences. There are plenty of men who who don't mind a cunty gay.
close.
:welllol:
Quote from: REDRUM. on November 09, 2017, 05:08:54 PM
Quote from: TAROT. on November 09, 2017, 05:06:27 PM
also... the obsession with trade is a stage everyone goes through... even straight women fawn over the most complete ideas of what they deem as masculine.
you young queens will find beauty and softness in femininity in time.
realizing both energies are at your grasp at all times and knowing how to harness both so you don't externalize on others' qualities is necessary.
jJjsjjj
Who is this? I live for u. :oof:
sii.
:sobusyjetsetter:
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 06:03:03 PM
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on November 09, 2017, 06:00:26 PM
Can receiving anal sex make you effeminate?
http://www.gayforum.org/relationships-sex-and-sexuality/can-receiving-anal-sex-make-you-effeminate-t2390/
QuoteThis guy knew exactly how to treat me in bed, he was gentle but domineering, and physically stronger and taller than me. He turned me on incredibly, and while he was working away all this started happening to me:
- I lost my erection completely, and I didn't care about it, I just wanted him to keep going (Never lost an erection like that before)
- I started having slow, growing waves of some sort of internal orgasm, but no release of sort, and zero ejaculation. My nipples started getting hard and I had short breath. Towards the end I was so horny I felt I was about to explode. (It had nothing to do with my prostate, even though of course it felt great).
- After he had come, I told him it was ok to stop: by then all I cared for was his pleasure, and his pleasure only.
- By the end of it I was in love, I got a HUGE crush on this guy, even though I knew nothing about him and just 20 minutes earlier I thought he was just average. I had these clear, romantic feelings for him like if I were 15.
Then I asked him if he wanted a blowjob to get started again, but when I spoke I had a different, more high-pitch and soft voice, like a girly voice. I could see something was happening to me, I had somehow turned very feminine, but I would have gladly lived with it if I could get him to ram me into submission like that for the rest of my life.
Just half an hour before this happened I knew of myself that I would never want or have a stable relationship with a man, that I looked reasonably masculine, and that I would soon get a new girlfriend. Now not only I wanted to be with him, I accepted I would be his bitch and that maybe everyone would notice.
Unfortunately he didn't like me as much, so he never accepted to meet me again :(
My voice remained "relaxed" like that for a while, and it went back to normal later that day. My crush went away at some point as well, even though I still remember every detail of him and of what we did, and even now I wouldn't think twice before letting him have his way with me again.
I am wondering if you had any similar experience. Did you ever get fucked into a giant crush for someone? Did you ever experience this strange orgasm, being incredibly aroused but without a trace of erection, traditional orgasm or ejaculation? And more importantly, did you ever feel more submissive and "girly" after good anal sex?
This experience was so strong for me that it's making me doubt my sexual preferences. Now I would like to just find someone else who can do that to me again. I am just curious if I should expect to become effeminate if I keep at it.
What do you think?
this fairytale of a story
sssssssssssssssssssssss
s
what about his question
does good dick turn you feminine Irf?
:nogrammynoneck:
Quote from: MARS. on November 09, 2017, 04:25:09 PM
Quote from: Glock on November 09, 2017, 04:23:03 PM
Zankou dating for u isn?t looking too promising
Says the girl whose dates hate having sex with him
nbbbvbbbbbbbbb
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 04:30:11 PM
It's interesting that this survey was taken from "the gay community". This means that they surveyed men who openly identify as gay.
!!
Add the all the dl and non out girls and the number would go down
Fem girls get dick just like everyone else
Isn't that right glock :heyddy:
Quote from: REDRUM. on November 09, 2017, 04:51:08 PM
So glad I'm masculine DL trade with 5 baby mommas. LOL.
:woohoo:
Ubbbvvvvvvvv
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2017, 05:05:19 PM
The masc/fem mess is usually subjective and way more complicated when you factor in how many men play trade in public and turn into Jay Alexander behind close doors.
At the end of the day, be yourself and stop trying to police other people's behavior, faggot.
bvvvccvccc
Yeah I still have nightmares about this boy I met when I was like 21
Masc! Seeking same!
Got to my house with purple contacts
Not even hazel ones to give a mixed tea :hmph:
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Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on November 09, 2017, 06:31:38 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2017, 05:05:19 PM
The masc/fem mess is usually subjective and way more complicated when you factor in how many men play trade in public and turn into Jay Alexander behind close doors.
At the end of the day, be yourself and stop trying to police other people's behavior, faggot.
bvvvccvccc
Yeah I still have nightmares about this boy I met when I was like 21
Masc! Seeking same!
Got to my house with purple contacts
Not even hazel ones to give a mixed tea :hmph:
not purple contacts
was he an X-Men character
Xnxbxnxbxbxb
I was so pissed cause he tried to put me through a test
Call so I can hear ya voice! Only masc!
Then on top of the contacts he has a belly, his pics were old
Hope that faggot is dead somewhere.
well they like men
Preference is one thing but i hate when masc or straight acting gays say fems gives gays a bad name when in actuality those same fem gays are the one's bold enough to fight our rights n actually progress our community as a whole.
Quote from: Beau on November 09, 2017, 07:25:53 PM
Preference is one thing but i hate when masc or straight acting gays say fems gives gays a bad name when in actuality those same fem gays are the one's bold enough to fight our rights n actually progress our community as a whole.
who's community?
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Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:17:16 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on November 09, 2017, 04:50:01 PM
It makes sense. I mean ever since I was younger I was attracted to the guys, that we're well into guy things. If I wanted someone who plays in makeup, heels, sassy, perfume, snappy etc...i would just gotten a girl I think. I like I can hang out with, be good friends and sex etc... and still be men! This also may have to do with a lil tiny bit of my self hate as a gay men that I have identified in myself(been doing a lot of work on myself and it really is decreasing) but I just view a lot of them as weak(when in reality, that's just not the case because I admire and see their courage) I can be great friends with them now and not give a damn what anyone thinks(didn't like being see when near them years ago) and also I want rule all of them out now as I have done in the past. But yeah I perfer a man's man.
:cheerup:
Hun your man's man is walking around in heels and a dress when you're asleep.
I can believe it, crazy fucker.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:36:51 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:34:29 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:31:56 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0
Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either
But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.
Like you said yourself, you're not macho but also not fem as fuck. I think it's pretty balanced with you.
Yeah MOST gays, hell most men are like that. Maybe African-Americans have different views on what's masculine/feminine.
Yup a healthy balance is great. I can't stand overly masculine guys (no matter the sexual orientation), who you can tell are putting on a show.
This is true, just be yourself and be comfortable with whatever that is.
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on November 09, 2017, 06:06:08 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 06:03:03 PM
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on November 09, 2017, 06:00:26 PM
Can receiving anal sex make you effeminate?
http://www.gayforum.org/relationships-sex-and-sexuality/can-receiving-anal-sex-make-you-effeminate-t2390/
QuoteThis guy knew exactly how to treat me in bed, he was gentle but domineering, and physically stronger and taller than me. He turned me on incredibly, and while he was working away all this started happening to me:
- I lost my erection completely, and I didn't care about it, I just wanted him to keep going (Never lost an erection like that before)
- I started having slow, growing waves of some sort of internal orgasm, but no release of sort, and zero ejaculation. My nipples started getting hard and I had short breath. Towards the end I was so horny I felt I was about to explode. (It had nothing to do with my prostate, even though of course it felt great).
- After he had come, I told him it was ok to stop: by then all I cared for was his pleasure, and his pleasure only.
- By the end of it I was in love, I got a HUGE crush on this guy, even though I knew nothing about him and just 20 minutes earlier I thought he was just average. I had these clear, romantic feelings for him like if I were 15.
Then I asked him if he wanted a blowjob to get started again, but when I spoke I had a different, more high-pitch and soft voice, like a girly voice. I could see something was happening to me, I had somehow turned very feminine, but I would have gladly lived with it if I could get him to ram me into submission like that for the rest of my life.
Just half an hour before this happened I knew of myself that I would never want or have a stable relationship with a man, that I looked reasonably masculine, and that I would soon get a new girlfriend. Now not only I wanted to be with him, I accepted I would be his bitch and that maybe everyone would notice.
Unfortunately he didn't like me as much, so he never accepted to meet me again :(
My voice remained "relaxed" like that for a while, and it went back to normal later that day. My crush went away at some point as well, even though I still remember every detail of him and of what we did, and even now I wouldn't think twice before letting him have his way with me again.
I am wondering if you had any similar experience. Did you ever get fucked into a giant crush for someone? Did you ever experience this strange orgasm, being incredibly aroused but without a trace of erection, traditional orgasm or ejaculation? And more importantly, did you ever feel more submissive and "girly" after good anal sex?
This experience was so strong for me that it's making me doubt my sexual preferences. Now I would like to just find someone else who can do that to me again. I am just curious if I should expect to become effeminate if I keep at it.
What do you think?
this fairytale of a story
sssssssssssssssssssssss
s
what about his question
does good dick turn you feminine Irf?
:nogrammynoneck:
i'll pay close attention next time.