Almost 3/4 of the gay community are turned off by feminine men, new survey finds

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Purple Moon

Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

SouravMay

Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
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Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.

Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".

Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
B7

ya rock muh world.

Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:37:47 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:33:22 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:32:28 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:28:39 PM
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.

What you think of yourself matters most.

I don't follow. I am just asking for opinions. It is not offensive to me. I mean that is everybody's prerogative to view me how they view me.
How do you view yourself, Malc?

Do you think you're masculine, feminine, in betweenish...

I think people could read/detect that I am gay, because I am bubbly. I don't think I have womanly behaviour and I never was viewed it like that. I don't think I give feminine energy. I am a male. idk it is hard to characterize yourself, hence me asking. I can see people calling me feminine though. I can see that too.
I agree - I think you're somewhere in between.


Young



Purple Moon

Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

ya rock muh world.

Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0

Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.

Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".

Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I agree.

There's something about a genuinely/purely feminine aura that isn't much like a "gay male" energy. I think "gay male" energy sometimes is manufactured and even forced at times. Whereas feminine essence/aura or presence is just that.


KING BENTLEY.


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Mel.


SouravMay

Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:42:03 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0

Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.

Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".

Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I agree.

There's something about a genuinely/purely feminine aura that isn't much like a "gay male" energy. I think "gay male" energy sometimes is manufactured and even forced at times. Whereas feminine essence/aura or presence is just that.

Yeah some gays can say "HNY" "DAHRLING" "bew bew" all day. But they will never serve WOMAN. That is the struggle trans gorls have I think when they try to explain they are not "just homosexual" but trans. I think it's two different vibes, that ppl mix together.
B7

ya rock muh world.

Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:46:02 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:42:03 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0

Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.

Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".

Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I agree.

There's something about a genuinely/purely feminine aura that isn't much like a "gay male" energy. I think "gay male" energy sometimes is manufactured and even forced at times. Whereas feminine essence/aura or presence is just that.

Yeah some gays can say "HNY" "DAHRLING" "bew bew" all day. But they will never serve WOMAN. That is the struggle trans gorls have I think when they try to explain they are not "just homosexual" but trans. I think it's two different vibes, that ppl mix together.
I agree. Some people think being feminine and a gay man means you have to walk around with a rainbow belt and using lingo etc. Like it's OK to just chill out. Not saying everyone does that but some do.



Purple Moon

Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:47:28 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:46:02 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:42:03 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:39:31 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0

Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.

Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".

Do you think there is a difference between gay male energy and female straight energy? I think it is two different things. Like you can give GHEY without giving WOMAN to me. Does that make sense to you? idk
I agree.

There's something about a genuinely/purely feminine aura that isn't much like a "gay male" energy. I think "gay male" energy sometimes is manufactured and even forced at times. Whereas feminine essence/aura or presence is just that.

Yeah some gays can say "HNY" "DAHRLING" "bew bew" all day. But they will never serve WOMAN. That is the struggle trans gorls have I think when they try to explain they are not "just homosexual" but trans. I think it's two different vibes, that ppl mix together.
I agree. Some people think being feminine and a gay man means you have to walk around with a rainbow belt and using lingo etc. Like it's OK to just chill out. Not saying everyone does that but some do.

r u promotin homophobia
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Young



ya rock muh world.

nsdndsn

I definitely do it for kii's and laughs. I have a gay coworker ....and when we're in private we say all types of gorl bye! and chileeeee.... sndnsdnnn but its for a quick kii kii. Just being silly. It's back to being adults when the time arrives.

Nothing wrong with it. it's fun. There's just a time and place. That's how I feel.


Purple Moon

Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:54:54 PM
nsdndsn

I definitely do it for kii's and laughs. I have a gay coworker ....and when we're in private we say all types of gorl bye! and chileeeee.... sndnsdnnn but its for a quick kii kii. Just being silly. It's back to being adults when the time arrives.

Nothing wrong with it. it's fun. There's just a time and place. That's how I feel.

misread this.

i agree
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...