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Title: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:15:02 PM
And just lays at home all day...  Ocassionally going to the mall, or going out to eat...
And has No job/activity/passion, with no intent to do anything different?
:19k:
And hasn't filed taxes for years?

This isn't even about money...
It's about being PRODUCTIVE...
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: ya rock muh world. on February 08, 2018, 07:15:43 PM
No

next case
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Boomz on February 08, 2018, 07:18:58 PM
Can't be around people like this....period. Friend, family or whateva
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Hatsumomo on February 08, 2018, 07:19:16 PM
Depends on how fine he is and how
Good the sex is
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: FlowerBomb on February 08, 2018, 07:20:05 PM
Are you expecting anyone to say yes to this stupid question?
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Boomz on February 08, 2018, 07:20:37 PM
:guys:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:21:13 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on February 08, 2018, 07:19:16 PM
Depends on how fine he is and how
Good the sex is

Hi Vibrant.

Everyone has a mind of their own.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:21:39 PM
There are people who date men like this, btw.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: b7 on February 08, 2018, 07:21:49 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 07:15:02 PM
And just lays at home all day...  Ocassionally going to the mall, or going out to eat...
And has No job/activity/passion, with no intent to do anything different?
:19k:
And hasn't filed taxes for years?

This isn't even about money...
It's about being PRODUCTIVE...
q

How is this even a question? who would want this sddddd
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:22:29 PM
Oh, Vibrant is Mr. Campbell.
:dead:

Anyway.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: b7 on February 08, 2018, 07:22:43 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 07:22:29 PM
Oh, Vibrant is Mr. Campbell.
:dead:

Anyway.
bnnnnn Jayda
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:22:57 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on February 08, 2018, 07:21:49 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 07:15:02 PM
And just lays at home all day...  Ocassionally going to the mall, or going out to eat...
And has No job/activity/passion, with no intent to do anything different?
:19k:
And hasn't filed taxes for years?

This isn't even about money...
It's about being PRODUCTIVE...
q

How is this even a question? who would want this sddddd

You wouldn't.
I wouldn't.

Some deal with this tho.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: BAPHOMET. on February 08, 2018, 07:23:31 PM
Flashman Wade could be jobless and I honestly wouldn't care.

As long as that ass is ready every day when i get off.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:23:49 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on February 08, 2018, 07:22:43 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 07:22:29 PM
Oh, Vibrant is Mr. Campbell.
:dead:

Anyway.
bnnnnn Jayda

He's been PISSED ever since I banned him.
Still.
And he'll come up with some other excuse as to why he doesn't use.

"Dumb questions" "Corny" etc.

:dead:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:24:11 PM
Quote from: Baph al Mana. on February 08, 2018, 07:23:31 PM
Flashman Wade could be jobless and I honestly wouldn't care.

As long as that is ready every day when i get off.

:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: FlowerBomb on February 08, 2018, 07:24:18 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 07:22:29 PM
Oh, Vibrant is Mr. Campbell.
:dead:

Anyway.
this aloof confused act
Stop  :dead:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Eternal Bell on February 08, 2018, 07:25:25 PM
might as well jus date a dead man if u'd date a non driven one!
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:25:44 PM
Quote from: Vibrant on February 08, 2018, 07:24:18 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 07:22:29 PM
Oh, Vibrant is Mr. Campbell.
:dead:

Anyway.
this aloof confused act
Stop  :dead:

Sorry if I described you in my initial post.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: FlowerBomb on February 08, 2018, 07:26:09 PM
Sounds like you described yourself there
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 07:27:46 PM
I don't check for you Jayd, with all due respect. I don't even know you.
I had to check the system for your old user name.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: yummy on February 08, 2018, 07:37:22 PM
Quote from: Baph al Mana. on February 08, 2018, 07:23:31 PM
Flashman Wade could be jobless and I honestly wouldn't care.

As long as that ass is ready every day when i get off.

n

(http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltrjk3Sqts1qfn3bh.gif)
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Nine on February 08, 2018, 07:39:17 PM
Quote from: Vibrant on February 08, 2018, 07:20:05 PM
Are you expecting anyone to say yes to this stupid question?
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Nine on February 08, 2018, 07:40:12 PM
Just to be edgy and different from everyone else, I'm gonna say yes. Yes I would.

:sup:

Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: ya rock muh world. on February 08, 2018, 07:41:55 PM
im changing my answer as well.

i want a damns bonafide DERELICT.  flat owt!

now come get me! :cheerup: lmaoooo
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Inject My Lips on February 08, 2018, 07:47:31 PM
If he has money
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: 🦚 on February 08, 2018, 08:05:21 PM
Wouldn?t waste my time. Someone who doesn?t take their own life serious won?t take a relationship serious either.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Harlem on February 08, 2018, 08:28:38 PM
TBH these niggaz are everywhere, they be the fine ones with good ass sex that been outta college for like 5 years or had a sports dream but didn?t make the league and disguise that they working on themselves... then by month 2 or 3 u b like iiiiiight my nigga u gon play 2k all day, ball at the park and go out with ur niggaz every weekend stunting on the gram like u ain?t supposed to be job huntin, GTFOH!
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 08:50:54 PM
Quote from: Harlem on February 08, 2018, 08:28:38 PM
TBH these niggaz are everywhere, they be the fine ones with good ass sex that been outta college for like 5 years or had a sports dream but didn?t make the league and disguise that they working on themselves... then by month 2 or 3 u b like iiiiiight my nigga u gon play 2k all day, ball at the park and go out with ur niggaz every weekend stunting on the gram like u ain?t supposed to be job huntin, GTFOH!

ive dated someone like this (in a way) and CH...
it's something ive always said "no ma'am, never me!"
But SHIT, it happened
:stressed:
at the end of the day, it can only go so far.
i tried to be patient.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 08:53:06 PM
And this person had "money".... mom/dad's money mind you, not his OWN earned monies

and i realized at the end of the day, you could have $5 or $5million -- i don't care...
What are you passionate about?! What the fuck are you doing during the day?!
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 08:53:51 PM
Quote from: golden touch. on February 08, 2018, 07:41:55 PM
im changing my answer as well.

i want a damns bonafide DERELICT.  flat owt!

now come get me! :cheerup: lmaoooo

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: como la whore on February 08, 2018, 08:58:16 PM
date one? NO. but for random sexual stuff they're okay. usually know what they are doing and do it well  :ohwow:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: GRAND on February 08, 2018, 09:12:07 PM
Is he rich
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Navyman on February 08, 2018, 09:13:35 PM
Nope, it just won't work.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: The Brandy Barbie on February 08, 2018, 09:23:15 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 07:15:02 PM
And just lays at home all day...  Ocassionally going to the mall, or going out to eat...
And has No job/activity/passion, with no intent to do anything different?
:19k:
And hasn't filed taxes for years?

This isn't even about money...
It's about being PRODUCTIVE...


Appearantly, you 're dating someone like this and want confirmation to dump him.  You don't need confirmation. You already know what to do.


I used to date someone like this.  He was African and his family had money.   He didn't work.  He was supposed to be in school, but never actually went to class and paid other people to do his homework.  I had to let him go...
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on February 08, 2018, 09:23:49 PM
It depends what you call a job.

I dated this guy who is cute as fuck twink blonde skinny everything you would want butttttt he was like a webcam model for a living and he lived at home with his family who doesn't really care what he does. It didn't really bother me at first cause he isn't getting fucked just riding a dildo mess on cam and jerking off but it was annoying that he didn't do anything else but sit at home  smoke weed and drink and go clubbing so I ultimately had to let him go so I guess yes to the question.  lol
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 09:52:22 PM
Quote from: The Brandy Barbie on February 08, 2018, 09:23:15 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 07:15:02 PM
And just lays at home all day...  Ocassionally going to the mall, or going out to eat...
And has No job/activity/passion, with no intent to do anything different?
:19k:
And hasn't filed taxes for years?

This isn't even about money...
It's about being PRODUCTIVE...


Appearantly, you 're dating someone like this and want confirmation to dump him.  You don't need confirmation. You already know what to do.


I used to date someone like this.  He was African and his family had money.   He didn't work.  He was supposed to be in school, but never actually went to class and paid other people to do his homework.  I had to let him go...

:stressed: :stressed:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Kaeli. on February 08, 2018, 10:10:53 PM
Quote from: Vibrant on February 08, 2018, 07:20:05 PM
Are you expecting anyone to say yes to this stupid question?
like :dead:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Kaeli. on February 08, 2018, 10:11:18 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on February 08, 2018, 09:23:49 PM
It depends what you call a job.

I dated this guy who is cute as fuck twink blonde skinny everything you would want butttttt
f
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on February 08, 2018, 10:12:07 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on February 08, 2018, 10:11:18 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on February 08, 2018, 09:23:49 PM
It depends what you call a job.

I dated this guy who is cute as fuck twink blonde skinny everything you would want butttttt
f

I knew someone would drag but I shoulda said everything I want
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 10:14:13 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on February 08, 2018, 10:10:53 PM
Quote from: Vibrant on February 08, 2018, 07:20:05 PM
Are you expecting anyone to say yes to this stupid question?
like :dead:

Kaeli girl
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 10:16:48 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on February 08, 2018, 09:23:49 PM
It depends what you call a job.

I dated this guy who is cute as fuck twink blonde skinny everything you would want butttttt he was like a webcam model for a living and he lived at home with his family who doesn't really care what he does. It didn't really bother me at first cause he isn't getting fucked just riding a dildo mess on cam and jerking off but it was annoying that he didn't do anything else but sit at home  smoke weed and drink and go clubbing so I ultimately had to let him go so I guess yes to the question.  lol

Sometimes we do things that we wouldn't typically say YES to.
Messing around with someone like that is one thing.
Trying to build a relationship around that... is another.
Glad you moved on.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: b7 on February 08, 2018, 10:33:15 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 08, 2018, 07:37:22 PM
Quote from: Baph al Mana. on February 08, 2018, 07:23:31 PM
Flashman Wade could be jobless and I honestly wouldn't care.

As long as that ass is ready every day when i get off.

n

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Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: b7 on February 08, 2018, 10:35:30 PM
Quote from: Harlem on February 08, 2018, 08:28:38 PM
TBH these niggaz are everywhere, they be the fine ones with good ass sex that been outta college for like 5 years or had a sports dream but didn?t make the league and disguise that they working on themselves... then by month 2 or 3 u b like iiiiiight my nigga u gon play 2k all day, ball at the park and go out with ur niggaz every weekend stunting on the gram like u ain?t supposed to be job huntin, GTFOH!
gggggghhhhhhhh
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on February 08, 2018, 10:50:30 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 08, 2018, 10:16:48 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on February 08, 2018, 09:23:49 PM
It depends what you call a job.

I dated this guy who is cute as fuck twink blonde skinny everything you would want butttttt he was like a webcam model for a living and he lived at home with his family who doesn't really care what he does. It didn't really bother me at first cause he isn't getting fucked just riding a dildo mess on cam and jerking off but it was annoying that he didn't do anything else but sit at home  smoke weed and drink and go clubbing so I ultimately had to let him go so I guess yes to the question.  lol

Sometimes we do things that we wouldn't typically say YES to.
Messing around with someone like that is one thing.
Trying to build a relationship around that... is another.
Glad you moved on.

Right !!

It's funny how you'll make excuses cause you really like someone but then I'll drag a friend who does something similar !
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on February 08, 2018, 11:01:07 PM
Quote from: Harlem on February 08, 2018, 08:28:38 PM
TBH these niggaz are everywhere, they be the fine ones with good ass sex that been outta college for like 5 years or had a sports dream but didn?t make the league and disguise that they working on themselves... then by month 2 or 3 u b like iiiiiight my nigga u gon play 2k all day, ball at the park and go out with ur niggaz every weekend stunting on the gram like u ain?t supposed to be job huntin, GTFOH!

if he gets a job at pizza hut its still gon be a problem

Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: L0NZ. on February 08, 2018, 11:04:21 PM
kkkkkkkkkkk
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Young on February 08, 2018, 11:08:13 PM
Quote from: Vibrant on February 08, 2018, 07:20:05 PM
Are you expecting anyone to say yes to this stupid question?
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 08, 2018, 11:12:12 PM
Young.
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on February 08, 2018, 11:37:33 PM
all depends on how he looks

the Game could post up all day, and I would work my hardest to make sure the bills were paid and he was comfy tbh
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: ya rock muh world. on February 09, 2018, 01:13:20 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on February 08, 2018, 11:04:21 PM
kkk
:ummwhat:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Vonc2002 on February 09, 2018, 02:24:27 AM
Quote from: Vibrant on February 08, 2018, 07:20:05 PM
Are you expecting anyone to say yes to this stupid question?
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: CHOKE on February 09, 2018, 03:51:58 AM
Yeah, even Choke has draw the line on this one

I?d put up with domestic abuse before dealing with a lazy broke nigga

Sor

Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: LOONA. on February 09, 2018, 08:56:23 AM
Quote from: Vibrant on February 08, 2018, 07:20:05 PM
Are you expecting anyone to say yes to this stupid question?
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 09:29:43 AM
s

Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.

Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.

Is he fine tho?
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Rxxf on February 09, 2018, 10:56:46 AM
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 09:29:43 AM
s

Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.

Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.

Is he fine tho?

I did.  And I broke things off last week.  It just came to a point.

He is fine as fuck.  But honestly, it's not enough... I can always find another. 
He does have money, from family (mind you) and thinks since I never had to support him, what is the big deal?

The big deal is... I can't complete with someone's FREE time.  Him just waiting for me to return home all day.
The relationship became all about US... vs it being balanced (me, him, us).  All he cared about was us, together.  I couldn't take!
And I feel if he was more productive, he'd have a better outlook on his life.

He had me feeling like I was forcing him to do something.  And he didn't need to.
And honestly, he doesn't.  He'll find someone willing to deal with him.  There's more to it than him not being productive...

We didn't live together, so that's good.
You live and you learn.  And you learn that sometimes you entertain a relationship you otherwise wouldn't.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: ya rock muh world. on February 09, 2018, 11:11:45 AM
Yeah looks are important but you can't bump up a credit score with a selfie.

Attraction is definitely key and not to be ignored but there's so many things that have to be taken into account if you're actually dating someone and looking into the possibility of a relationship.

If you just looking to fuck and go that's a different story.
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: LOONA. on February 09, 2018, 01:45:07 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 09, 2018, 10:56:46 AM
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 09:29:43 AM
s

Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.

Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.

Is he fine tho?

I did.  And I broke things off last week.  It just came to a point.

He is fine as fuck.  But honestly, it's not enough... I can always find another. 
He does have money, from family (mind you) and thinks since I never had to support him, what is the big deal?

The big deal is... I can't complete with someone's FREE time.  Him just waiting for me to return home all day.
The relationship became all about US... vs it being balanced (me, him, us).  All he cared about was us, together.  I couldn't take!
And I feel if he was more productive, he'd have a better outlook on his life.

He had me feeling like I was forcing him to do something.  And he didn't need to.
And honestly, he doesn't.  He'll find someone willing to deal with him.  There's more to it than him not being productive...

We didn't live together, so that's good.
You live and you learn.  And you learn that sometimes you entertain a relationship you otherwise wouldn't.

And how long have you been entertaining this bum?

:ummwhat:     

Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 06:03:53 PM
Quote from: ???? on February 09, 2018, 10:56:46 AM
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 09:29:43 AM
s

Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.

Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.

Is he fine tho?

I did.  And I broke things off last week.  It just came to a point.

He is fine as fuck.  But honestly, it's not enough... I can always find another. 
He does have money, from family (mind you) and thinks since I never had to support him, what is the big deal?

The big deal is... I can't complete with someone's FREE time.  Him just waiting for me to return home all day.
The relationship became all about US... vs it being balanced (me, him, us).  All he cared about was us, together.  I couldn't take!
And I feel if he was more productive, he'd have a better outlook on his life.

He had me feeling like I was forcing him to do something.  And he didn't need to.
And honestly, he doesn't.  He'll find someone willing to deal with him.  There's more to it than him not being productive...

We didn't live together, so that's good.
You live and you learn.  And you learn that sometimes you entertain a relationship you otherwise wouldn't.
we need to talk




and maybe a couple more things now that your single
:giveittomeddy:
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Jon on February 09, 2018, 06:07:28 PM
Depends on how good the sex is
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: Genesis on February 09, 2018, 06:16:42 PM
#nobrokedick2018

Who?s with me
Title: Re: Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 06:24:31 PM
Quote from: Genesis on February 09, 2018, 06:16:42 PM
#nobrokedick2018

Who?s with me
s

poor that

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