This post kinda started all out war on Facebook.
Do you agree with the OP?
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I mean...
point out the fckn lie dddddddddd
That need to be the After-tax take-home mess ATLEAST per pay period :dead:
This is also variant on the location that the people live too though..
But if he was foine like Dave East maybe Id make an exception mess lolz :justabit:
A relationship is 50/50. A man shouldn?t have to pay all of the bills. A lot of women and men are too fucking materialistic and complacent. Jobs are scarce these days to begin with. Quit bitching and complaining and get off your lazy ass and contribute. smh
Is this $1400 before or after tax?
cause if it's after that's like ?1000 which is literally chump change if you live in London.
Lets be real though, 1400 a month can?t pay shit.
I don't judge anybody on their income. That is just so ignorant. :stressed:
Quote from: BARD? on November 13, 2018, 11:34:56 AM
Lets be real though, 1400 a month can?t pay shit.
It can't buttttttt if it's a two income home it would be ok
Quote from: Nick'Challa on November 13, 2018, 11:38:32 AM
Quote from: BARD? on November 13, 2018, 11:34:56 AM
Lets be real though, 1400 a month can?t pay shit.
It can't buttttttt if it's a two income home it would be ok
n
Not unless the other half is clearing damn near 6 figures
1400 a month aint even 20k a year
Are we eating Ramen noodles and PB&J every night coz...
Quote from: 13,000 yrs (i been on) on November 13, 2018, 11:35:05 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 13, 2018, 11:33:16 AM
Is this $1400 before or after tax?
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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It's not a lot of money either way. But don't know how things work in the US, over here our wages get taxed by the government. So if you make $1400 before tax you're probably taking home $1100 :dead:
$1400 a month? :diddraispoot:
Might as well send me to the mothafuckin projects.
NNSNDNDNDNNDND
No, but I really couldn?t handle a man paying for ALL of my mess. So I don?t see myself counting his pockets tbh.
But I don?t want a broke boi either :hmph:
$1400?
Rent alone in Los Angeles would eat that up.
B
These the same type of girls that get pissed when a nigger gets famous and says fck black women cause the hoes didnt use when he was broke
Quote from: Sinyonc? on November 13, 2018, 11:46:50 AM
B
These the same type of girls that get pissed when a nigger gets famous and says fck black women cause the hoes didnt use when he was broke
s
Ur a fcking gold digger
I just need my mans to loves and supports me.
Thats it...just me...and my...heart
Quote from: 13,000 yrs (i been on) on November 13, 2018, 11:55:03 AM
I'm so on the fence because:
A) I definitely believe in taking everything about a man into consideration. Of course there's the initial physical attraction (which is the easiest part obviously) but if you take the possibility of a future together with him seriously, there's so many other things to factor in .
BUT
B) If we were only making 1400 a month I'd be interested to know why.
Is he making so little because he's dedicated his time to helping those in need and doesn't make much profit from it? If that's the case I'd kinda be very impressed with something like that - as long as he's able to pay his own bills.
And never asks me for one dime, etc.
Ultimately, I'd definitely prefer someone who is comfortable financially though. I'm not checking for ballers or anything. But someone who is just comfortable like I am. It'd just make things a lot simpler and smoother.
But I don't feel a need to hop on Facebook to say, "Broke niggas need not apply! LMAO!!!!"
OKAY! Now we all think certain things in our heads and have certain standards. BUT to blurt this mess out on social media is just plain ignorant.
What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states
Quote from: Sinyonc? on November 13, 2018, 11:46:50 AM
B
These the same type of girls that get pissed when a nigger gets famous and says fck black women cause the hoes didnt use when he was broke
s
Girl, most non black women aren?t drooling over a broke nigga either, especially in cultures where it?s engrained in them that a man is supposed to be the sole provider
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 11:59:38 AM
What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states
BITCH we don't need to be discouraging black men trying to earn an honest living. What we should be talking about is why do jobs exist that pay so little in 2018.
Quote from: Michelle Williams on November 13, 2018, 11:58:28 AM
Quote from: 13,000 yrs (i been on) on November 13, 2018, 11:55:03 AM
I'm so on the fence because:
A) I definitely believe in taking everything about a man into consideration. Of course there's the initial physical attraction (which is the easiest part obviously) but if you take the possibility of a future together with him seriously, there's so many other things to factor in .
BUT
B) If we were only making 1400 a month I'd be interested to know why.
Is he making so little because he's dedicated his time to helping those in need and doesn't make much profit from it? If that's the case I'd kinda be very impressed with something like that - as long as he's able to pay his own bills.
And never asks me for one dime, etc.
Ultimately, I'd definitely prefer someone who is comfortable financially though. I'm not checking for ballers or anything. But someone who is just comfortable like I am. It'd just make things a lot simpler and smoother.
But I don't feel a need to hop on Facebook to say, "Broke niggas need not apply! LMAO!!!!"
OKAY! Now we all think certain things in our heads and have certain standards. BUT to blurt this mess out on social media is just plain ignorant.
qqqqq
But who knows what kind of men was hitting Queen up on her messenger mess
Maybe she felt like giving a public service announcement mess to let some of the boys know
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 12:01:28 PM
Quote from: Sinyonc? on November 13, 2018, 11:46:50 AM
B
These the same type of girls that get pissed when a nigger gets famous and says fck black women cause the hoes didnt use when he was broke
s
Girl, most non black women aren?t drooling over a broke nigga either, especially in cultures where it?s engrained in them that a man is supposed to be the sole provider
R u a gold diggers
I?m sorry but where are you working making that much a month ?
That?s painful
Quote from: Young on November 13, 2018, 11:41:08 AM
Quote from: Nick'Challa on November 13, 2018, 11:38:32 AM
Quote from: BARD? on November 13, 2018, 11:34:56 AM
Lets be real though, 1400 a month can?t pay shit.
It can't buttttttt if it's a two income home it would be ok
n
Not unless the other half is clearing damn near 6 figures
1400 a month aint even 20k a year
Are we eating Ramen noodles and PB&J every night coz...
Sjsjsjsjsbs
I mean it's not a lot but you gotta take what you can get
Quote from: Michelle Williams on November 13, 2018, 12:03:49 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 11:59:38 AM
What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states
BITCH we don't need to be discouraging black men trying to earn an honest living. What we should be talking about is why do jobs exist that pay so little in 2018.
why are you talking to me
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 12:06:48 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on November 13, 2018, 12:03:49 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 11:59:38 AM
What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states
BITCH we don't need to be discouraging black men trying to earn an honest living. What we should be talking about is why do jobs exist that pay so little in 2018.
why are you talking to me
Cos you're a broke CUNT.
It taked 1400 to shop for me
Quote from: Sinyonc? on November 13, 2018, 11:46:50 AM
B
These the same type of girls that get pissed when a nigger gets famous and says fck black women cause the hoes didnt use when he was broke
n
If this was back in the day, that logic would work but we're in a different time. The cost of living has changed. If a relationship is 50/50 what bills could he pay bringing home $1.4k a month and still be able to take care of his personal necessities?
Make it make sense.
My ex was homeless and I never left his side.
I always had his back. He could come visit me at my house at the appropriate times of day when Im not tryna sleep because I loved him
Awww well you're a different breed. You have a good heart bby.
Quote from: Sinyonc? on November 13, 2018, 12:20:38 PM
My ex was homeless and I never left his side.
I always had his back. He could come visit me at my house at the appropriate times of day when Im not tryna sleep because I loved him
Not homeless chile...
:holdupguys:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 13, 2018, 11:59:38 AM
What is there to debate about? :dead: 1400 is barely covering rent in most states
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 13, 2018, 11:33:16 AM
Is this $1400 before or after tax?
cause if it's after that's like ?1000 which is literally chump change if you live in London.
Well shit if it?s not after tax it surely won?t be enough before either
Quote from: Young on November 13, 2018, 12:04:58 PM
I?m sorry but where are you working making that much a month ?
That?s painful
Maybe that person is only working part time. Im sorry but 1400 a month us only acceptable if ur a part time employee while going to school, or if u were gainfully employed and are between jobs and ur just taking what u can get til u get back to ur career. Aside from that, 1400 long term? Hell naw. Especially since I make much more. That'll only cause problems. Ask Phaedra.
Well 1400 a month can also be someone working a Full-time minimum wage job as well. That's why they need to raise the minimum wages to $15. That way people would be able to afford to live.
This sounds like me when I worked part time at a library during my undergrad years in college
It?s definitely a wage for single people, not in a long term relationship/marriage
Quote from: 12 Nights of Molesting Flopped on November 13, 2018, 01:13:00 PM
This sounds like me when I worked part time at a library during my undergrad years in college
It?s definitely a wage for single people, not in a long term relationship/marriage
You made 1400 working at a library, part time? Where at? :plzstop:
Quote from: 12 Nights of Molesting Flopped on November 13, 2018, 01:13:00 PM
This sounds like me when I worked part time at a library during my undergrad years in college
It?s definitely a wage for single people, not in a long term relationship/marriage
This is definitely acceptable for a college mess owt
Quote from: BARD? on November 13, 2018, 01:26:38 PM
Quote from: 12 Nights of Molesting Flopped on November 13, 2018, 01:13:00 PM
This sounds like me when I worked part time at a library during my undergrad years in college
It?s definitely a wage for single people, not in a long term relationship/marriage
You made 1400 working at a library, part time? Where at? :plzstop:
actually it was less than that but I was actually contributing to the house, paying a cell phone bill or buying groceries every couple weeks
so with 1400 per month, which is like 350 per week it can help a household survive
Yea there would definitely need to be another bigger income doing the heavy lifting. Maybe having no car or car payments, maybe only Internet service no cable TV. Basically a living check to check, barely staying above water type thing. No one desires that but, I wouldn?t shit on ppl in this predicament either
that's all fine and dandy. The lady in the OP told no damn lies
The black unemployment rate in many places is twice or more than the national average, even among degree holders. It gets even worse if you factor in the incarcerated population. The Hispanic population overall (who hasn?t been around as long in this country) has a lower unemployment rate than blacks, and no one seems upset by that. Those are the QTNAs imo.
Does she even work?
damn how much is rent over there :uhh:
Quote from: pale immigrants on November 13, 2018, 02:42:33 PM
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Quote from: bitch on November 13, 2018, 02:38:59 PM
damn how much is rent over there :uhh:
Gor.
Like London is cheap
Def' cheaper than NYC
I don't think so.
What is the average cost of an apartment in London? 1 bedroom mess
https://www.cnbc.com/2017/04/13/the-cost-of-living-breakdown-between-london-and-nyc.html
I've seen some of those "apartments" they charge for too
:guys:
I guess it's a different economy
what is she complaining for. he qualifies for food stamps, HEAP, and medicaid. Live it up king
:blessed:
All that matters is that my man comes home to me at they end of the day. There's always opportunities for getting more money or a higher salary. Some people run their man right into they arms of someone else.
If you don't know. You better ask somebody!
:young:
:tistheseas:
Quote from: pale immigrants on November 13, 2018, 02:48:23 PM
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Quote from: pale immigrants on November 13, 2018, 02:42:33 PM
Quote from: bitch on November 13, 2018, 02:40:08 PM
Quote from: pale immigrants on November 13, 2018, 02:39:47 PM
Quote from: bitch on November 13, 2018, 02:38:59 PM
damn how much is rent over there :uhh:
Gor.
Like London is cheap
Def' cheaper than NYC
I don't think so.
What is the average cost of an apartment in London? 1 bedroom mess
https://www.cnbc.com/2017/04/13/the-cost-of-living-breakdown-between-london-and-nyc.html
Girl the average rent listed there is not far off from one another. sdsdsdnsnn
They're both known as expensive cities to live in.
There are definitely places here in America that offer rent at wayyyyy lower rates.
! Yeah London is very expensive.
But ompartively i'd say you get a little more for money here. NY has the some of the smallest living spaces i've ever seen :rudone:
like kwee amil once said on her legendary verse. You ain?t gotta be rich but fuck that...how we gon? get ?round on your bus pass.
Depends on the situation for me and how long that situation lasts.
My ex made about $1300 -1500 a month when we 1st met 6 years ago and he made it work as a single dude living on his own (idk how but he did lol)
Within a 1.5 years he doubled that and by the 3rd year mark was making like 80k per year.
All he needed was a push to go for that job /position. He?s doing well for himself now.
Can?t just give up on a nigga lol inspire and push him to be greater.
It is tough to survive on $1400 a month.
But at least he is working.
I don't know his circumstances.
Quote from: Nick'Challa on November 13, 2018, 11:38:32 AM
Quote from: BARD? on November 13, 2018, 11:34:56 AM
Lets be real though, 1400 a month can?t pay shit.
It can't buttttttt if it's a two income home it would be ok
The other person has to be making a lot more for that to work.
How can someone over 18 live off of $1400 per month? :unsure:
Quote from: VirgoMind on November 13, 2018, 05:46:59 PM
Depends on the situation for me and how long that situation lasts.
My ex made about $1300 -1500 a month when we 1st met 6 years ago and he made it work as a single dude living on his own (idk how but he did lol)
Within a 1.5 years he doubled that and by the 3rd year mark was making like 80k per year.
All he needed was a push to go for that job /position. He?s doing well for himself now.
Can?t just give up on a nigga lol inspire and push him to be greater.
Quote from: BowDown on November 13, 2018, 06:48:43 PM
How can someone over 18 live off of $1400 per month? :unsure:
It aint impossible. But I will say that it def aint no way to live. N I dont need no nigga asking me for money every chance they get. 'Cant go out 2nite babe...gotta buy my bus pass at the end of the month'. Or 'So um...u got the bill right? I'll tip a couple bucks tho to help out". Nah. Im way too grown. But if its someone ambitious and u know its a temporary situation, I can live with that for a time.
Quote from: Marilyn on November 13, 2018, 02:48:49 PM
what is she complaining for. he qualifies for food stamps, HEAP, and medicaid. Live it up king
:blessed:
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Quote from: Nick'Challa on November 13, 2018, 11:38:32 AM
Quote from: BARD? on November 13, 2018, 11:34:56 AM
Lets be real though, 1400 a month can?t pay shit.
It can't buttttttt if it's a two income home it would be ok
The other person has to be making a lot more for that to work.
where you live also makes a HUGEEEE difference though