I come to find a lot of gay men have this kinda, well, uppity behavior about them when they discuss sports, tear down women, or act overtly aggressive in conversion.
Do they think they're better because they're adhering to the rule of straight men, who would shit on them in return? What's your experience with this? I know plenty of gorls that are obsessed with giving MAN teas and I just don't get it lol
Aren't all gays "uppity" tho?
Bow bout to get dragged
of course they do
:woohoo: yeah. Kinda
:supluv: as an alpha male myself, imma say yes... :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
🔑
some do. and it's not cool. some fem gays act the same way. not cool.
Do fem gays have the upperhand tho? Straight acting gays might find allure in being manly bevause that's how a man is expected to act lo
They do. But it should be a balance.
I'm masculine, but you will never hear me tearing other women down or on some super macho shit.
Who here is femme? I wanna see smthn.
Just read about 3 dumb ass responses
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 07:28:21 PM
Who here is femme? I wanna see smthn.
Over 95% of yall. And it's ok, some of yall kill me saying 6ou masc and I see the pics and see through the limp wrists etc...
:overit:
I think cause these damn fems can be embarrassing, that they try to stay CLEAR of any resemblance to THAT kind of gay and therefore try OVERCOMPENSATING a bit much. I'd rather a cocky "straight acting" gay than a queeny fem ANYDAY. But I wouldn't say they think they are "above" anybody...
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 07:31:01 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 07:28:21 PM
Who here is femme? I wanna see smthn.
Over 95% of yall. And it's ok, some of yall kill me saying 6ou masc and I see the pics and see through the limp wrists etc...
:overit:
hh this is like the 35th time you've said this, are you trying to convince someone or yourself that you're masc?
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 07:46:33 PM
"HEY YALL LOOK AT MEH! RAINBOW BELT! RAINBOW SHIRT! IM FUCKIN GAY!!!! WATCH MY VOGUE FOR YA ENTERTAINMENT!"
I mean in the club is one of thing but all on the train and bus and mess...Calm down :calmdownsis:
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My favorite type of gays tbh
:woohoo:
I dunno
I'd rather be friends with a fem than someone who polices every move they make, they're so limited and...boring
:udontlookok:
Quote from: FlowerBomb on July 12, 2019, 07:46:58 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 07:31:01 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 07:28:21 PM
Who here is femme? I wanna see smthn.
Over 95% of yall. And it's ok, some of yall kill me saying 6ou masc and I see the pics and see through the limp wrists etc...
:overit:
hh this is like the 35th time you've said this, are you trying to convince someone or yourself that you're masc?
Most definitely like 1st or 2nd time. But ok, sure.
You've said something amongst those lines plenty of times before but ok :dead:
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 07:31:01 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 07:28:21 PM
Who here is femme? I wanna see smthn.
Over 95% of yall. And it's ok, some of yall kill me saying 6ou masc and I see the pics and see through the limp wrists etc...
:overit:
I agree
Vonc should cut the act
Are there any fake straight-actors on the board? lol
This is a good example:
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 07:31:01 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 07:28:21 PM
Who here is femme? I wanna see smthn.
Over 95% of yall. And it's ok, some of yall kill me saying 6ou masc and I see the pics and see through the limp wrists etc...
:overit:
Quote from: squid on July 12, 2019, 08:09:54 PM
This is a good example:
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 07:31:01 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 07:28:21 PM
Who here is femme? I wanna see smthn.
Over 95% of yall. And it's ok, some of yall kill me saying 6ou masc and I see the pics and see through the limp wrists etc...
:overit:
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Dddcccccccvggyggvvv
Tonk has the limp wrist gorls heated
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 07:46:33 PM
But yeah sometimes the gorls can do a bit much.
"HEY YALL LOOK AT MEH! RAINBOW BELT! RAINBOW SHIRT! IM FUCKIN GAY!!!! WATCH MEH VOGUE FOR YA ENTERTAINMENT!"
I
:plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: THE_FIRST_LADY on July 12, 2019, 07:18:53 PM
:supluv: as an alpha male myself, imma say yes... :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
🔑
:giveittomeddy:
Yes, we are above you bitches.. Bow down!
Quote from: the ophelia edition on July 12, 2019, 07:20:35 PM
some do. and it's not cool. some fem gays act the same way. not cool.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: Bozo Bitches. on July 12, 2019, 08:15:22 PM
Dddcccccccvggyggvvv
Tonk has the limp wrist gorls heated
Clearly. And it's not a competition. Damn I didn't mean to hit a nerve.
n
Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 07:46:33 PM
You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.
THis.
Quote from: FlowerBomb on July 12, 2019, 07:56:24 PM
You've said something amongst those lines plenty of times before but ok :dead:
prove it?
Quote from: Scott. on July 12, 2019, 08:25:05 PM
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 07:46:33 PM
You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.
THis.
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 07:46:33 PM
But yeah sometimes the gorls can do a bit much.
"HEY YALL LOOK AT MEH! RAINBOW BELT! RAINBOW SHIRT! IM FUCKIN GAY!!!! WATCH MEH VOGUE FOR YA ENTERTAINMENT!"
I mean in the club is one of thing but all on the train and bus and mess...Calm down :calmdownsis:
Your sexuality isn't an accessory or spectacle of some sort. It's good to be proud and stuff, but it becomes a bit much sometimes.
You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.
ack
Speak bitch
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 08:23:14 PM
Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?
I see a lot of gay men behaving in outlandish and rude ways as a response to being bullied by straight men and then vying for that straight acceptance. That's just somethin i don't fuck with
Quote from: Bozo Bitches. on July 12, 2019, 08:28:02 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 08:23:14 PM
Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?
I see a lot of gay men behaving in outlandish and rude ways as a response to being bullied by straight men and then vying for that straight acceptance. That's just somethin i don't fuck with
Now that you've mentioned straight acceptance, what I don't understand with gays sometimes is that if you say you are friends with a lot of straight guys, it means you're pressed for straight acceptance.
That's not always the case. Now there are some that longs for straight attention and acceptance. I don't really care to be accepted by straights, hell I'm NOT "accepted" well by gays lol.
I do.
Quote from: Scott. on July 12, 2019, 08:31:47 PM
Quote from: Bozo Bitches. on July 12, 2019, 08:28:02 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 08:23:14 PM
Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?
I see a lot of gay men behaving in outlandish and rude ways as a response to being bullied by straight men and then vying for that straight acceptance. That's just somethin i don't fuck with
Now that you've mentioned straight acceptance, what I don't understand with gays sometimes is that if you say you are friends with a lot of straight guys, it means you're pressed for straight acceptance.
That's not always the case. Now there are some that longs for straight attention and acceptance. I don't really care to be accepted by straights, hell I'm NOT "accepted" well by gays lol.
Like I get that being accepted period is paramount for people who don't wanna be laypeople and actually lead productive lives. But just cause you play basketball don't put you above my queen next door with a tutu and stocking ensemble. I'd say the queen is living more true to what his core desires are than the rough housing, ill-mannered types. All this angst usually comes from pain.
Scotty you strike me as a dude who's totally comfortable to be you, regardless of who accepts you, and that's admirable
Considering that most gay men have allowed themselves to become emasculated. Why wouldn't they think they're above you?
If anything femme gay men are jealous those men didn't allow their sexuality to define them or actually buy into the idea they were a sissy confined to being a purse holding accessory for women.
:ummwhat:
Quote from: Bozo Bitches. on July 12, 2019, 08:37:52 PM
Quote from: Scott. on July 12, 2019, 08:31:47 PM
Quote from: Bozo Bitches. on July 12, 2019, 08:28:02 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 08:23:14 PM
Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?
I see a lot of gay men behaving in outlandish and rude ways as a response to being bullied by straight men and then vying for that straight acceptance. That's just somethin i don't fuck with
Now that you've mentioned straight acceptance, what I don't understand with gays sometimes is that if you say you are friends with a lot of straight guys, it means you're pressed for straight acceptance.
That's not always the case. Now there are some that longs for straight attention and acceptance. I don't really care to be accepted by straights, hell I'm NOT "accepted" well by gays lol.
Like I get that being accepted period is paramount for people who don't wanna be laypeople and actually lead productive lives. But just cause you play basketball don't put you above my queen next door with a tutu and stocking ensemble. I'd say the queen is living more true to what his core desires are than the rough housing, ill-mannered types. All this angst usually comes from pain.
Scotty you strike me as a dude who's totally comfortable to be you, regardless of who accepts you, and that's admirable
Why thank you for that.
And it's all true. I just don't give a damn.
And it's also funny when straight men are completely dumb and think that gay men are all the same like what they see on TV. I have to school them all the time
I don't think anyone can allow their sexuality to define them. These trans out here and these drag queens are being who God called them to be.
Straight acting gays often adopt what society tells them is "masculine." From the basketball talk to the yugiyoh cards to the X-box. They have to push for interest in those things that are man made. But why is it a lot of them believe the opposite of emasculation is "naturally" behaving how a lot of douchebag-prone straight men do? I call bullshit on that emasculation comment. Any man is just as much of a man as the next one, regardless of what are personalities are
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 09:06:44 PM
But this all kinda goes back to why I personally don't subscribe to labels too much.
If someone were to ask me if I am "masc" or "fem"....I would honestly end the convo there because that's not someone I could honestly see myself entertaining - regardless of whether their preference is the former or the latter. People are more complex to me than that.
But that's just me. I know that for some people those labels are helpful because they may live in an area where they may not wanna be seen with someone who's fem out of concern for their safety/reputation, or maybe they're a guy who just prefers to be the "man" of the relationship.
Ch....
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Exactly, that's all divisive silly shit
as if ppl are just one way all the time. I can see if you linger more toward one or the other you'd be tempted to pick, but I can't when ppl box themselves in like that.
Some People ARE one way all the time.. it's called being who you are.
:plzstop:
Nobody has to act like a flaming faggot to be authentically gay... :uhh:
Honestly them overly FAGGY people are so forced and fake.
I was just posting something love muffin. Not towards LIS'
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 09:26:29 PM
You have those lesbians who are just naturally butch and tomboyish, then you have those who purposely give a certain tea depending on their mood. "I'm a butch this week yo. Bend over and take this fake dick gorl" then "Hmmm I feel like being a fem this week. Mmmm put it in me faux daddy" mess.
NCNCNCCCCCCCCCFCCCFFFFFF
Yeah and they're worthless.
Quote from: Bozo Bitches. on July 12, 2019, 07:08:04 PM
I come to find a lot of gay men have this kinda, well, uppity behavior about them when they discuss sports, tear down women, or act overtly aggressive in conversion.
Do they think they're better because they're adhering to the rule of straight men, who would shit on them in return? What's your experience with this? I know plenty of gorls that are obsessed with giving MAN teas and I just don't get it lol
its pretty sad but anyone who boasts about "Straight acting" or even uses that term, is clearly the opposite behind closed doors :dead:
Just be who you are. I have a deep passion for basketball and take pride in my knowledge of the game, but I'm not shading people for watching housewives
Cuz I'll sit up and watch both 🤷🏾♂️
Quote from: THE_FIRST_LADY on July 12, 2019, 07:18:53 PM
:supluv: as an alpha male myself, imma say yes... :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
🔑
cgggghhhhh petite self 🔑
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 07:46:33 PM
But yeah sometimes the gorls can do a bit much.
"HEY YALL LOOK AT MEH! RAINBOW BELT! RAINBOW SHIRT! IM FUCKIN GAY!!!! WATCH MEH VOGUE FOR YA ENTERTAINMENT!"
I mean in the club is one of thing but all on the train and bus and mess...Calm down :calmdownsis:
Your sexuality isn't an accessory or spectacle of some sort. It's good to be proud and stuff, but it becomes a bit much sometimes.
You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.
Yeah
Both extremes are a damn headache
Quote from: 1RIG on July 12, 2019, 09:45:35 PM
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 07:46:33 PM
But yeah sometimes the gorls can do a bit much.
"HEY YALL LOOK AT MEH! RAINBOW BELT! RAINBOW SHIRT! IM FUCKIN GAY!!!! WATCH MEH VOGUE FOR YA ENTERTAINMENT!"
I mean in the club is one of thing but all on the train and bus and mess...Calm down :calmdownsis:
Your sexuality isn't an accessory or spectacle of some sort. It's good to be proud and stuff, but it becomes a bit much sometimes.
You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.
Yeah
Both extremes are a damn headache
mxnncnffnfnfnfhfhf
In between self
I find the term "str8 acting" VERY offensive tbh
I'm a man, why can't I act like a man, why is that shunned :uhh:
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 09:57:00 PM
I find the term "str8 acting" VERY offensive tbh
I'm a man, why can't I act like a man, why is that shunned :uhh:
I feel the same way. People forget that men are inherently masculine. Gay is just a sexual orientation. It is NOT an act.
Edited: I actually believe that gay men have started to adopt effeminate traits far too much. Yes, a lot of us do have them naturally but nowadays they are exaggerated. It's like it's an agenda to rid men of their natural masculinity and make them beta while the females are made masculine.
Quote from: 7RiNGS on July 12, 2019, 09:20:06 PM
Some People ARE one way all the time.. it's called being who you are.
:plzstop:
Nobody has to act like a flaming faggot to be authentically gay... :uhh:
Honestly them overly FAGGY people are so forced and fake.
ssssssssssssss
Right! That's way more concerning to me
We need to be asking the following questions
1. Why does every gay man have to become a "bad bitch"
2. Why does every stud have to become a "thug"
And it be this SAME group of ppl that be ready to RAGE owt when thy get marginalized
Im like whoa nigger! you kinda marginalized yourself when you keep tryna put these flowery ensembles together with leather sandals tryna give Milan on Peachtree
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Some gay guys are masculine and some are effeminate. My issue is when society tries to make a masculine man more effeminate by writing his masculinity off as false because he's gay on some lets "clock" the queen stuff. That's toxic and homophobic. For example this whole thing with Lil Nas X and women saying oh you couldn't tell he was gay? That's so disgusting. It's like they try to find anything to distinguish gay men from straight men in the most stereotypical ways.
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 09:59:18 PM
Yeah I was a lil confused as to what we were defining "straight acting" as . Because to me that's a man who purposely tries to give a certain tea for the sake of projecting an image, as opposed to a gay man who just happens to be more on the masculine side.
I like this
You wanna take this mess a little further twinzy?
Let's discuss how toxic masculinity in general has skewed the way young black men view their manhood!
Because I see alot of black men who don't fit within the REAL NIGGA category, and they get shuffled to all white circles who are more accepting of non-normalized standards for manhood.
Quote from: Bozo Bitches. on July 12, 2019, 08:06:16 PM
Are there any fake straight-actors on the board? lol
n
I knew this is where you were going from the jump
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 09:59:18 PM
Yeah I was a lil confused as to what we were defining "straight acting" as . Because to me that's a man who purposely tries to give a certain tea for the sake of projecting an image, as opposed to a gay man who just happens to be more on the masculine side.
Masculine gays do tend to be very conceited. They think they are better than their feminine counterparts overall. More attractive, more successful and socially accepted. And a lot of times they are. Still no excuse for their behavior. Bitch you still a faggot like the rest of us.
I'd like to know why so many black gay men are attracted to the archetype of hyper-masculine because I've never been attracted to the Uber masculine type of character. Maybe it's because I always saw them as problematic and violent growing up and too closeted to make a life with later on. I once read on a scale of masculinity black men were at the top, of course, then it was brown Hispanic men, then white men and Asian men. I always preferred the white man's level of masculinity that kind of falls in between masculine and feminine, I.E, actor Chris Evans.
Many of you are throwing straight, straight-acting, straight-passing, masculine, and macho in one big pile. They're not all the same.
Not every heterosexual man behaves like a caveman and likes football. You would know that if you stopped isolating yourself and released your childhood trauma. Cry it out, grab your nuts, and step into your manhood.
Quote from: squid on July 12, 2019, 08:09:54 PM
This is a good example:
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 07:31:01 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 07:28:21 PM
Who here is femme? I wanna see smthn.
Over 95% of yall. And it's ok, some of yall kill me saying 6ou masc and I see the pics and see through the limp wrists etc...
:overit:
:plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Murrah on July 12, 2019, 10:25:08 PM
Many of you are throwing straight, straight-acting, straight-passing, masculine, and macho in one big pile. They're not all the same.
Not every heterosexual man behaves like a caveman and likes football. You would know that if you stopped isolating yourself and released your childhood trauma. Cry it out, grab your nuts, and step into your manhood.
You're edgy huh
Quote from: justcommenting on July 12, 2019, 09:58:07 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 09:57:00 PM
I find the term "str8 acting" VERY offensive tbh
I'm a man, why can't I act like a man, why is that shunned :uhh:
I feel the same way. People forget that men are inherently masculine. Gay is just a sexual orientation. It is NOT an act.
Edited: I actually believe that gay men have started to adopt effeminate traits far too much. Yes, a lot of us do have them naturally but nowadays they are exaggerated. It's like it's an agenda to rid men of their natural masculinity and make them beta while the females are made masculine.
y'all type the dumbest shit on here
Fem gays were originally the first gay men ever known. After AIDS and so much unprotected hatered gay people adapted to the "Hyper Masculine" behavior of hetro men to blend in and become unclockable.
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:43:45 PM
Quote from: justcommenting on July 12, 2019, 09:58:07 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 09:57:00 PM
I find the term "str8 acting" VERY offensive tbh
I'm a man, why can't I act like a man, why is that shunned :uhh:
I feel the same way. People forget that men are inherently masculine. Gay is just a sexual orientation. It is NOT an act.
Edited: I actually believe that gay men have started to adopt effeminate traits far too much. Yes, a lot of us do have them naturally but nowadays they are exaggerated. It's like it's an agenda to rid men of their natural masculinity and make them beta while the females are made masculine.
y'all type the dumbest shit on here
Fem gays were originally the first gay men ever known. After AIDS and so much unprotected hatred gay people adapted to the "Hyper Masculine" behavior of hetro men to blend in and become unclockable.
People were uncomfortable with effeminate gay men long before HIV/AIDS. The term is effeminate, not feminine.
Please explain to me how your response makes sense to anything I said?
Quote from: BowDown on July 12, 2019, 09:48:43 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 12, 2019, 09:45:35 PM
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 07:46:33 PM
But yeah sometimes the gorls can do a bit much.
"HEY YALL LOOK AT MEH! RAINBOW BELT! RAINBOW SHIRT! IM FUCKIN GAY!!!! WATCH MEH VOGUE FOR YA ENTERTAINMENT!"
I mean in the club is one of thing but all on the train and bus and mess...Calm down :calmdownsis:
Your sexuality isn't an accessory or spectacle of some sort. It's good to be proud and stuff, but it becomes a bit much sometimes.
You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.
Yeah
Both extremes are a damn headache
mxnncnffnfnfnfhfhf
In between self
ghhhhhhhh wow yea
My wrist is bent with my hand down my basketball shorts or whatever
Quote from: Twitter User on July 12, 2019, 09:59:18 PM
Yeah I was a lil confused as to what we were defining "straight acting" as . Because to me that's a man who purposely tries to give a certain tea for the sake of projecting an image, as opposed to a gay man who just happens to be more on the masculine side.
!!!!
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:48:24 PM
Please explain to me how your response makes sense to anything I said?
It all goes back to feminine being a woman's nature and masculine being a man's nature. Technically, the hatred of effeminate behavior is derived from the hatred of women. Basically, saying to be effeminate, like a woman, is to be weak. Being effeminate does not make you gay. There's no such thing as acting gay. Again, gay is a sexual orientation, not an act unless you're being happy.
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:43:45 PM
Quote from: justcommenting on July 12, 2019, 09:58:07 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 09:57:00 PM
I find the term "str8 acting" VERY offensive tbh
I'm a man, why can't I act like a man, why is that shunned :uhh:
I feel the same way. People forget that men are inherently masculine. Gay is just a sexual orientation. It is NOT an act.
Edited: I actually believe that gay men have started to adopt effeminate traits far too much. Yes, a lot of us do have them naturally but nowadays they are exaggerated. It's like it's an agenda to rid men of their natural masculinity and make them beta while the females are made masculine.
y'all type the dumbest shit on here
Fem gays were originally the first gay men ever known. After AIDS and so much unprotected hatered gay people adapted to the "Hyper Masculine" behavior of hetro men to blend in and become unclockable.
I'm having so much trouble with this tbh
It's just not true. By saying that you're assigning levels of masculinity with sexual orientation. I'm not sure how we came to the conclusion that the first known gay man was a fem
And honestly that's the issue, feminine gays want a certain level of masculinity assigned to the entire culture. Just like rainbow flags and pride parades and the sex parties afterward. Then the second somebody says they don't identify with that .....
"Self-Hatin phaggit!"
Where my gays like follow the NBA @ in here?
yawl see what happened to my team .... I'm ... disgusted
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 10:53:45 PM
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:43:45 PM
Quote from: justcommenting on July 12, 2019, 09:58:07 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 09:57:00 PM
I find the term "str8 acting" VERY offensive tbh
I'm a man, why can't I act like a man, why is that shunned :uhh:
I feel the same way. People forget that men are inherently masculine. Gay is just a sexual orientation. It is NOT an act.
Edited: I actually believe that gay men have started to adopt effeminate traits far too much. Yes, a lot of us do have them naturally but nowadays they are exaggerated. It's like it's an agenda to rid men of their natural masculinity and make them beta while the females are made masculine.
y'all type the dumbest shit on here
Fem gays were originally the first gay men ever known. After AIDS and so much unprotected hatered gay people adapted to the "Hyper Masculine" behavior of hetro men to blend in and become unclockable.
I'm having so much trouble with this tbh
It's just not true. By saying that you're assigning levels of masculinity with sexual orientation. I'm not sure how we came to the conclusion that the first known gay man was a fem
And honestly that's the issue, feminine gays want a certain level of masculinity assigned to the entire culture. Just like rainbow flags and pride parades and the sex parties afterward. Then the second somebody says they don't identify with that ..... "Self-Hatin phaggit!"
Preach.
I don't even like umbrella terms like LGBT anyway. Who says I agree with LBT...
If you go back in time and look at the history and watch the documentation. You'd see Gay Men were more out and proud and less masculine than today.
.
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:57:27 PM
If you go back in time and look at the history and watch the documentation. You'd see Gay Men were more out and proud and less masculine than today.
That was code and used to recognized by other gays or to be known as "gay" but there began the problem cause now dudes thinking they have to wear a skirt to be gay or be overtly effeminate to be gay. lol.
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:57:51 PM
And Bentley you're very fem.
Marg?
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Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 11:01:23 PM
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:57:51 PM
And Bentley you're very fem.
Marg?
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Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 11:04:55 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 11:01:23 PM
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:57:51 PM
And Bentley you're very fem.
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I'm one of the masculine gorls and you're pissed huh
me, Von, n Tanna bring the testosterone
:caramelapple:
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 10:53:45 PM
Quote from: Cheetah. on July 12, 2019, 10:43:45 PM
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Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 09:57:00 PM
I find the term "str8 acting" VERY offensive tbh
I'm a man, why can't I act like a man, why is that shunned :uhh:
I feel the same way. People forget that men are inherently masculine. Gay is just a sexual orientation. It is NOT an act.
Edited: I actually believe that gay men have started to adopt effeminate traits far too much. Yes, a lot of us do have them naturally but nowadays they are exaggerated. It's like it's an agenda to rid men of their natural masculinity and make them beta while the females are made masculine.
y'all type the dumbest shit on here
Fem gays were originally the first gay men ever known. After AIDS and so much unprotected hatered gay people adapted to the "Hyper Masculine" behavior of hetro men to blend in and become unclockable.
I'm having so much trouble with this tbh
It's just not true. By saying that you're assigning levels of masculinity with sexual orientation. I'm not sure how we came to the conclusion that the first known gay man was a fem
And honestly that's the issue, feminine gays want a certain level of masculinity assigned to the entire culture. Just like rainbow flags and pride parades and the sex parties afterward. Then the second somebody says they don't identify with that ..... "Self-Hatin phaggit!"
This is my problem why is the other side being attacked because that's just not what that person does. And it's ok, doesn't mean I hate you or think I'm better. That's something you projecting on to me for whatever reason...
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 10:54:52 PM
Where my gays like follow the NBA @ in here?
yawl see what happened to my team .... I'm ... disgusted
Who yo team bruh? :sup:
Sports!
Hi
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 11:11:00 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 10:54:52 PM
Where my gays like follow the NBA @ in here?
yawl see what happened to my team .... I'm ... disgusted
Who yo team bruh? :sup:
Thunder :supluv:
sssssss
the way everything went to shit in 7 days. it's a mess around here
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 07:27:54 PM
They do. But it should be a balance.
I'm masculine, but you will never hear me tearing other women down or on some super macho shit.
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Sle is as fem as they come if anyone wanted to knw. :nogrammynoneck:
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 11:40:49 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 11:11:00 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 10:54:52 PM
Where my gays like follow the NBA @ in here?
yawl see what happened to my team .... I'm ... disgusted
Who yo team bruh? :sup:
Thunder :supluv:
sssssss
the way everything went to shit in 7 days. it's a mess around here
At least yall in the conversation, kinda. The Bulls ain't on shit and isn't that what Westbrook wanted?
Sle be all in my DMs I be having to duck em.
Aint no masculine Brandy fans except for the straight men who wanna fuck her.
Quote from: Unmade on July 13, 2019, 10:50:45 AM
Aint no masculine Brandy fans except for the straight men who wanna fuck her.
well this is ignorant
Its a joke
drop that one from the set hun
Quote from: the ophelia edition on July 13, 2019, 10:57:39 AM
drop that one from the set hun
ff
You're so rude
Do u wanna fuck me :ohwow:
Read me first
Let's talk about fem gays like Milan who are always hating on other gays instead
he stays in comments coming for Lil Nas X
that ugly sissy phaggit Jason Lee too
like ... fems really think they can do whatever the fck they want huh, even be hypocrites :plzstop:
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Quote from: Unmade on July 13, 2019, 10:50:45 AM
Aint no masculine Brandy fans except for the straight men who wanna fuck her.
And you know this how? :hmph:
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im masculine and a huge brandy fan.
that is an ignorant statement :omf:
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masc! fem!
You're all putting your penises in someone's shithole
Poop dick selves
The same damn girls
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Wow, can't say I didn't expect fumes in here
New bsource group alert
The Mascs
:caramelapple: :heythere: :heyddy: :ohhey:
Coming #summer19
:feelinmyself:
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A mud pie to u too!
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 13, 2019, 11:16:05 AM
Let's talk about fem gays like Milan who are always hating on other gays instead
he stays in comments coming for Lil Nas X
that ugly sissy phaggit Jason Lee too
like ... fems really think they can do whatever the fck they want huh, even be hypocrites :plzstop:
Milan is femme to you? Interesting.
Fems are a kiiii and are fun to be around
BUT those masculine alpha males turn me on. :ohwow:
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 11:54:58 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 11:40:49 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 11:11:00 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 10:54:52 PM
Where my gays like follow the NBA @ in here?
yawl see what happened to my team .... I'm ... disgusted
Who yo team bruh? :sup:
Thunder :supluv:
sssssss
the way everything went to shit in 7 days. it's a mess around here
At least yall in the conversation, kinda. The Bulls ain't on shit and isn't that what Westbrook wanted?
Bro! I'm pissed
But yea he wanted owt of the mess, I think he told George to request a trade so he'd have a reason.
Cause there's no way the rockets deal just happen.
You watching NCAA football this year? I'll prolly make a thread for those of use who ... like it
the whole masc/fem topic is so tired and archaic
bottom line is you're all going to rot in hell for being a bunch off doo doo munching faggots
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:omgwatshappening:
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Yea! Those are church Kweens
But twinzy! There is definitely a God, but you can't let anyone tell you that you're not connected to him
I've finally grown past the stigma that gay can't be spiritual just because niggers decided to adopt every part of their religion from Roman Catholicism
Quote from: Twitter User on July 13, 2019, 01:38:46 PM
I feel bad for gays who still believe in God and attend church , etc.
It has to be hard when certain sermons pop up. Wonder if they just walk out or pop in their headphones and listen to Beyonce or something
Not a pastor condemning you to hell as you sit there in obedience and reverence to them
You don't have to feel bad. I attend church periodically and actually enjoy it.
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 13, 2019, 01:24:36 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 11:54:58 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 11:40:49 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 12, 2019, 11:11:00 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 12, 2019, 10:54:52 PM
Where my gays like follow the NBA @ in here?
yawl see what happened to my team .... I'm ... disgusted
Who yo team bruh? :sup:
Thunder :supluv:
sssssss
the way everything went to shit in 7 days. it's a mess around here
At least yall in the conversation, kinda. The Bulls ain't on shit and isn't that what Westbrook wanted?
Bro! I'm pissed
But yea he wanted owt of the mess, I think he told George to request a trade so he'd have a reason.
Cause there's no way the rockets deal just happen.
You watching NCAA football this year? I'll prolly make a thread for those of use who ... like it
Probably not. The last almost 2 years I cut out cable and only have streaming services, barely watch T.V. :dead:
I wish they had a streaming service for live sports
Quote from: animmai. on July 13, 2019, 01:35:52 PM
the whole masc/fem topic is so tired and archaic
bottom line is you're all going to rot in hell for being a bunch off doo doo munching faggots
All Mascs go to heaven. Dems go to hell. :ohhey:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 01:45:54 PM
Quote from: Twitter User on July 13, 2019, 01:38:46 PM
I feel bad for gays who still believe in God and attend church , etc.
It has to be hard when certain sermons pop up. Wonder if they just walk out or pop in their headphones and listen to Beyonce or something
Not a pastor condemning you to hell as you sit there in obedience and reverence to them
You don't have to feel bad. I attend church periodically and actually enjoy it.
There is a god/entity etc. Because somethings can't be explained and the feeling. But my spirit tell me we as humans have no idea of who exactly it is or what it is. I don't think we can even wrap our Brian's around what that truly is or understand it.
Like yall humans killed him when he came down here to help yall.(according to the book) You trying to tell me how he would feel about me? :dead:
Doesn't it depend what church and pastor you go to? :dead:
Not all churches gives that deep southern fire and brimstone, bible in hand SCREAMING at the congregation mess
Quote from: Twitter User on July 13, 2019, 01:56:11 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 01:45:54 PM
Quote from: Twitter User on July 13, 2019, 01:38:46 PM
I feel bad for gays who still believe in God and attend church , etc.
It has to be hard when certain sermons pop up. Wonder if they just walk out or pop in their headphones and listen to Beyonce or something
Not a pastor condemning you to hell as you sit there in obedience and reverence to them
You don't have to feel bad. I attend church periodically and actually enjoy it.
It does have a nice atmosphere and the services are usually pleasant.
How do you handle "those" sermons though? Do they ever pop up occasionally?
Well I go to a "white" church so the preaching style isn't like that. Also, my Pastor is out and Gay so that helps :dead:
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 13, 2019, 01:51:48 PM
Quote from: animmai. on July 13, 2019, 01:35:52 PM
the whole masc/fem topic is so tired and archaic
bottom line is you're all going to rot in hell for being a bunch off doo doo munching faggots
All Mascs go to heaven. Dems go to hell. :ohhey:
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yes Zankou
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Quote from: THE_FIRST_LADY on July 12, 2019, 07:18:53 PM
:supluv: as an alpha male myself, imma say yes... :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
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cgggghhhhh petite self 🔑
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That's gays in general but I feel like the super flamboyant fags act the most uppity of all. Also super catty and shady for no reason.
Quote from: LOONA. on July 13, 2019, 03:48:16 PM
That's gays in general but I feel like the super flamboyant fags act the most uppity of all. Also super catty and shady for no reason.
yep... reminds me of Ray tbh
I forgot some of y'all live overseas.
Maybe black churches over there are different cause the ones in the US..... :dead:
I just can't take black gay men heavily into church seriously. Honkies literally forced that mess on us to keep us in check.
Quote from: Scott. on July 12, 2019, 09:01:38 PM
And it's also funny when straight men are completely dumb and think that gay men are all the same like what they see on TV. I have to school them all the time
They really are dumb and think we're all the same.
What really surprises me is the blatant homophobia they display in the workplace. I've been placed in so many uncomfortable situations because of their one dimensional views on how gay men look/behave.
This boy I work with came to me recently and said something along the lines of "they've been hiring alot of fags lately"
And I'm looking at this faggot like.... :uhh: :uhh: :uhh:
I must've called him every name in the book dhjjfff. But yh I had to let him that I was a "fag" and don't ever talk to me again.
I get that there's privileges to being masculine but it really sucks when people assume you're straight and then start blatantly disrespecting you in your face with their homphobia.