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[Barbie Dangerous]

Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?

[Scott.]

You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.

THis.

[Navyman]

You've said something amongst those lines plenty of times before but ok 

prove it?

[Navyman]

You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.

THis.

[CREAM.]

But yeah sometimes the gorls can do a bit much.

"HEY YALL LOOK AT MEH! RAINBOW BELT! RAINBOW SHIRT! IM FUCKIN GAY!!!! WATCH MEH VOGUE FOR YA ENTERTAINMENT!"

I mean in the club is one of thing but all on the train and bus and mess...Calm down

Your sexuality isn't an accessory or spectacle of some sort. It's good to be proud and stuff, but it becomes a bit much sometimes.

You'd be surprised how many people will just respect you because you're comfortable and relaxed with who you are.

ack

Speak bitch

[fedswatchin]

Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?

I see a lot of gay men behaving in outlandish and rude ways as a response to being bullied by straight men and then vying for that straight acceptance. That's just somethin i don't fuck with

[Scott.]

Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?

I see a lot of gay men behaving in outlandish and rude ways as a response to being bullied by straight men and then vying for that straight acceptance. That's just somethin i don't fuck with

Now that you've mentioned straight acceptance, what I don't understand with gays sometimes is that if you say you are friends with a lot of straight guys, it means you're pressed for straight acceptance.

That's not always the case. Now there are some that longs for straight attention and acceptance. I don't really care to be accepted by straights, hell I'm NOT "accepted" well by gays lol.

[FAMÈ]

I do.

[fedswatchin]

Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?

I see a lot of gay men behaving in outlandish and rude ways as a response to being bullied by straight men and then vying for that straight acceptance. That's just somethin i don't fuck with

Now that you've mentioned straight acceptance, what I don't understand with gays sometimes is that if you say you are friends with a lot of straight guys, it means you're pressed for straight acceptance.

That's not always the case. Now there are some that longs for straight attention and acceptance. I don't really care to be accepted by straights, hell I'm NOT "accepted" well by gays lol.

Like I get that being accepted period is paramount for people who don't wanna be laypeople and actually lead productive lives. But just cause you play basketball don't put you above my queen next door with a tutu and stocking ensemble. I'd say the queen is living more true to what his core desires are than the rough housing, ill-mannered types. All this angst usually comes from pain.

Scotty you strike me as a dude who's totally comfortable to be you, regardless of who accepts you, and that's admirable

[Murrah]

Considering that most gay men have allowed themselves to become emasculated. Why wouldn't they think they're above you?

If anything femme gay men are jealous those men didn't allow their sexuality to define them or actually buy into the idea they were a sissy confined to being a purse holding accessory for women.

[FlowerBomb]

 

[Scott.]

Isn't it more of the mindset of how masculine men in general feel about femininity and not just how straight-acting gays feel toward other gays?

I see a lot of gay men behaving in outlandish and rude ways as a response to being bullied by straight men and then vying for that straight acceptance. That's just somethin i don't fuck with

Now that you've mentioned straight acceptance, what I don't understand with gays sometimes is that if you say you are friends with a lot of straight guys, it means you're pressed for straight acceptance.

That's not always the case. Now there are some that longs for straight attention and acceptance. I don't really care to be accepted by straights, hell I'm NOT "accepted" well by gays lol.

Like I get that being accepted period is paramount for people who don't wanna be laypeople and actually lead productive lives. But just cause you play basketball don't put you above my queen next door with a tutu and stocking ensemble. I'd say the queen is living more true to what his core desires are than the rough housing, ill-mannered types. All this angst usually comes from pain.

Scotty you strike me as a dude who's totally comfortable to be you, regardless of who accepts you, and that's admirable

Why thank you for that.

And it's all true. I just don't give a damn.

[Scott.]

And it's also funny when straight men are completely dumb and think that gay men are all the same like what they see on TV. I have to school them all the time

[fedswatchin]

I don't think anyone can allow their sexuality to define them. These trans out here and these drag queens are being who God called them to be.

Straight acting gays often adopt what society tells them is "masculine." From the basketball talk to the yugiyoh cards to the X-box. They have to push for interest in those things that are man made. But why is it a lot of them believe the opposite of emasculation is "naturally" behaving how a lot of douchebag-prone straight men do? I call bullshit on that emasculation comment. Any man is just as much of a man as the next one, regardless of what are personalities are

[fedswatchin]

But this all kinda goes back to why I personally don't subscribe to labels too much.

If someone were to ask me if I am "masc" or "fem"....I would honestly end the convo there because that's not someone I could honestly see myself entertaining - regardless of whether their preference is the former or the latter. People are more complex to me than that.

But that's just me. I know that for some people those labels are helpful because they may live in an area where they may not wanna be seen with someone who's fem out of concern for their safety/reputation, or maybe they're a guy who just prefers to be the "man" of the relationship.

Ch....

Exactly, that's all divisive silly shit

as if ppl are just one way all the time. I can see if you linger more toward one or the other you'd be tempted to pick, but I can't when ppl box themselves in like that.