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I say yes, depending on their dynamic. If you're in a relationship with this man then that includes his kid too.
I'm a wrong
:omf:
She's not wrong. She clearly said Him or his BM can pay for the child if he really wants him to be there. He needs to pay for his child.
and no. he or the mother needs to pay for that child. she has no obligation.
Quote from: opheliababe on October 31, 2019, 12:48:50 PM
I'm a wrong
:omf:
sdfbbnnnnnnnn
She clearly has bigger fish to fry :plzstop:
eh depends on a lot of things
but ultimately the father should pay if he really wanted his child to be there
If they ain't married, she ain't wrong. It's her choice.
well they aren't MARRIED, however I don't know their dynamic.
I say the kids should have been offered to atleast join though
I would feel weird just taking another person's kid on a vacation so I can't blame her
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
!!!!
Even if he is just a boyfriend, you sat your ass up and created a whole family with him. If they have kids old enough to take on a vacation that means they've clearly been together for a while. Long enough that his child need to be considered too.
do you know her
She is dead wrong PERIOD
No she's not wrong
Why is this even being questioned? She shares no financial responsibility over his oops baby.
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 01:44:16 PM
Why is this even being questioned? She shares no financial responsibility over his oops baby.
Right, how is she even minimally responsible for taking somebody else's child on a Damn vacation :dead:
Saying the lil nigger can go if one of his parents paid was nice enough
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
n
she isn't excluding the kid from the experience, just from her financial obligation... which she has every right to.
might as well!uh, shit costs money :uhh:
As much as tuition costs I ain't about to splurge a single cent on someone else's child.
Kwee said the kid could come (if they pay) and that was generous as this is going to get.
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I'm the opposite. I would feel weird excluding his kids and just bringing mine. At least ask/include them. If this is someone you're hoping to build a future with, this ain't cute and tells a man something different
Cuz I'm PRETTY sure if it was vice versa, her black ass wouldn't be having it. :uhh:
And y'all making the argument "she's just rejecting the financial obligation", but she already excluded the child before even allowing a conversation to see how they can work it out for the child to come. It's an excuse.
:udontlookok:
This nigger needs to leave her. There's plenty of desperate women out there for him.
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Quote from: Kalifornia on October 31, 2019, 12:44:18 PM
I say yes, depending on their dynamic. If you're in a relationship with this man then that includes his kid too.
That doesn't mean she should have to pay for the kid, though. Include, yes. Pay for, no. If she's already paying her bf's way, what's wrong that he can't pay for his own kid to come?
No. It's not like sis said they kid couldn't go. The daddy just needs to come off a coin. Simple.
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Trey on October 31, 2019, 02:05:01 PM
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I'm the opposite. I would feel weird excluding his kids and just bringing mine. At least ask/include them. If this is someone you're hoping to build a future with, this ain't cute and tells a man something different
Cuz I'm PRETTY sure if it was vice versa, her black ass wouldn't be having it. :uhh:
And y'all making the argument "she's just rejecting the financial obligation", but she already excluded the child before even allowing a conversation to see how they can work it out for the child to come. It's an excuse.
:udontlookok:
This nigger needs to leave her. There's plenty of desperate women out there for him.
Thank you!!!!!
I also think people's responses are probably a reflection of their own lives (completely and absolutely no shade). My parents are still married and I don't have step siblings, half brothers, WHATEVER. Ive never experienced being an extra child or the child out of the family unit, so i think it's utterly ridiculous for a bitch to pay for another hoe's child to go on a Damn trip. The argument would be stronger if they were married but her boyfriend? Gtfoh :dead:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 03:47:28 PM
I also think people's responses are probably a reflection of their own lives (completely and absolutely no shade). My parents are still married and I don't have step siblings, half brothers, WHATEVER. Ive never experienced being an extra child or the child out of the family unit, so i think it's utterly ridiculous for a bitch to pay for another hoe's child to go on a Damn trip. The argument would be stronger if they were married but her boyfriend? Gtfoh :dead:
But reading that, I didn't get that there was an issue with him paying for his child. The issue is that she never had a desire to include the other child at all and that's why he was pissed about it.
She didn't mention the whole,
Well, you and your baby momma can pay for her and then she can come" thing until he expressed that she was wrong for not thinking of their children's other sibling.
hmm first things first,
I noticed she opened with the phrases "my boyfriend" and "our kids", so yea ....
she really shouldn't be asking for conventional advice for an unconventional situation
but she's not linked to this man, so she's not link to that child yet. So she's not "wrong"
but ... in my opinion, because I have a half hellraiser sister
she should take the kid
having beef or separation between siblings always starts when one woman decides her children are different. It's not about you anymore, it's about your kids family
So she can exclude him to save a lil coin, but when she doesn't have it and his new girlfriend excludes her little hellraisers, and they come home crying because they can't spend time with their bro/sis, she looks like she'll be the first one in the street wanting baby mama drama
you really can't play those exclusion kinds of games with kids because it will come back to bite you
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And on top of that, she has kids by him, knowing that he also has a child with someone else. The kids are siblings. Why not include them all? I mean, women always say, "I'm a packaged deal!" when it comes to them and their kids. So are men and their kids.
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:53:25 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 03:47:28 PM
I also think people's responses are probably a reflection of their own lives (completely and absolutely no shade). My parents are still married and I don't have step siblings, half brothers, WHATEVER. Ive never experienced being an extra child or the child out of the family unit, so i think it's utterly ridiculous for a bitch to pay for another hoe's child to go on a Damn trip. The argument would be stronger if they were married but her boyfriend? Gtfoh :dead:
But reading that, I didn't get that there was an issue with him paying for his child. The issue is that she never had a desire to include the other child at all and that's why he was pissed about it.
She didn't mention the whole, Well, you and your baby momma can pay for her and then she can come" thing until he expressed that she was wrong for not thinking of their children's other sibling.
I just dont agree. Sorry. If she flat out didn't want the child to go then paying for the child to go wouldn't be the convo. Fuethermore, if she's planning a trip for her family and her nigga why tf WOULD She just include another woman's child? They aren't married. That's not her obligation. That's that mans and his baby mama's obligation to take their child on vacations at this point. And honestly we don't even know the relationships or the dynamics because my momma couldn't invite your other child on a trip with us and that's how it is sometimes. Nah, she ain't wrong
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 04:02:08 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:53:25 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 03:47:28 PM
I also think people's responses are probably a reflection of their own lives (completely and absolutely no shade). My parents are still married and I don't have step siblings, half brothers, WHATEVER. Ive never experienced being an extra child or the child out of the family unit, so i think it's utterly ridiculous for a bitch to pay for another hoe's child to go on a Damn trip. The argument would be stronger if they were married but her boyfriend? Gtfoh :dead:
But reading that, I didn't get that there was an issue with him paying for his child. The issue is that she never had a desire to include the other child at all and that's why he was pissed about it.
She didn't mention the whole, Well, you and your baby momma can pay for her and then she can come" thing until he expressed that she was wrong for not thinking of their children's other sibling.
I just dont agree. Sorry. If she flat out didn't want the child to go then paying for the child to go wouldn't be the convo. Fuethermore, if she's planning a trip for her family and her nigga why tf WOULD She just include another woman's child? They aren't married. That's not her obligation. That's that mans and his baby mama's obligation to take their child on vacations at this point. And honestly we don't even know the relationships or the dynamics because my momma couldn't invite your other child on a trip with us and that's how it is sometimes. Nah, she ain't wrong
Like you said, your parents are still together and you don't have half-siblings, so of course you're not understanding it and that's fine.
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:54:27 PM
And on top of that, she has kids by him, knowing that he also has a child with someone else. The kids are siblings. Why not include them all? I mean, women always say, "I'm a packaged deal!" when it comes to them and their kids. So are men and their kids.
but why isn't he coughing up the coin?
Depends on the type of vacation too. If you dont want to pay for another Disney ticket, I get it. But if you being petty over hotel room space and another mouth to feed at the steakhouse then you buggin
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:06:52 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:54:27 PM
And on top of that, she has kids by him, knowing that he also has a child with someone else. The kids are siblings. Why not include them all? I mean, women always say, "I'm a packaged deal!" when it comes to them and their kids. So are men and their kids.
but why isn't he coughing up the coin?
As I said in one of my previous posts, I don't think the "coin" was ever the issue here? I took it as he was upset because she didn't want to include the child at all from the beginning.
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on October 31, 2019, 03:54:21 PM
hmm first things first,
I noticed she opened with the phrases "my boyfriend" and "our kids", so yea ....
she really shouldn't be asking for conventional advice for an unconventional situation
but she's not linked to this man, so she's not link to that child yet. So she's not "wrong"
but ... in my opinion, because I have a half hellraiser sister
she should take the kid
having beef or separation between siblings always starts when one woman decides her children are different. It's not about you anymore, it's about your kids family
So she can exclude him to save a lil coin, but when she doesn't have it and his new girlfriend excludes her little hellraisers, and they come home crying because they can't spend time with their bro/sis, she looks like she'll be the first one in the street wanting baby mama drama
you really can't play those exclusion kinds of games with kids because it will come back to bite you
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Now THIS argument sounds better. SHOULD she do it to be kind and inclusive? Maybe. But to argue that she's wrong like it's her obligation is pure comedy
Quote from: Trey on October 31, 2019, 02:05:01 PM
This nigger needs to leave her. There's plenty of desperate women out there for him.
You said enough and a handful right here. S/o to this queen for having some self respect and not going for this ride or die mentality, show him I'm worthy type shit.
There's another out there he can goop to carry his responsibilities, she said naw.
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 04:08:30 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:06:52 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:54:27 PM
And on top of that, she has kids by him, knowing that he also has a child with someone else. The kids are siblings. Why not include them all? I mean, women always say, "I'm a packaged deal!" when it comes to them and their kids. So are men and their kids.
but why isn't he coughing up the coin?
As I said in one of my previous posts, I don't think the "coin" was ever the issue here? I took it as he was upset because she didn't want to include the child at all from the beginning.
that is an assumption based on your interpretation of the post.
word by word she made it clear his external kids could come, but she wouldn't be the one paying for them.
and if he can't afford to pay for ALL his kids to go.. maybe it's time to keep his damn dick in his pants.
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:13:18 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 04:08:30 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:06:52 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:54:27 PM
And on top of that, she has kids by him, knowing that he also has a child with someone else. The kids are siblings. Why not include them all? I mean, women always say, "I'm a packaged deal!" when it comes to them and their kids. So are men and their kids.
but why isn't he coughing up the coin?
As I said in one of my previous posts, I don't think the "coin" was ever the issue here? I took it as he was upset because she didn't want to include the child at all from the beginning.
that is an assumption based on your interpretation of the post.
word by word she made it clear his external kids could come, but she wouldn't be the one paying for them.
and if he can't afford to pay for ALL his kids to go.. maybe it's time to keep his damn dick in his pants.
Well I could say your argument is based on your interpretation of the post as well because she said he felt she was wrong for not including the child, THEN she said, well she can come, but y'all would have to pay. I'm not saying she's wrong for THAT part. But including the child IS wrong. I mean, let's just agree to disagree. I don't have the energy today at all :dead:
And why yall not questioning why this nigga making her pay for everybody vacation? This shouldn't even be an issue if the father is doing what he supposed to because he would already be coming up off the coin. :dead:
Quote from: Tonkaman on October 31, 2019, 04:12:00 PM
Quote from: Trey on October 31, 2019, 02:05:01 PM
This nigger needs to leave her. There's plenty of desperate women out there for him.
You said enough and a handful right here. S/o to this queen for having some self respect and not going for this ride or die mentality, show him I'm worthy type shit.
There's another out there he can goop to carry his responsibilities, she said naw.
:kii:
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:13:18 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 04:08:30 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:06:52 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:54:27 PM
And on top of that, she has kids by him, knowing that he also has a child with someone else. The kids are siblings. Why not include them all? I mean, women always say, "I'm a packaged deal!" when it comes to them and their kids. So are men and their kids.
but why isn't he coughing up the coin?
As I said in one of my previous posts, I don't think the "coin" was ever the issue here? I took it as he was upset because she didn't want to include the child at all from the beginning.
that is an assumption based on your interpretation of the post.
word by word she made it clear his external kids could come, but she wouldn't be the one paying for them.
and if he can't afford to pay for ALL his kids to go.. maybe it's time to keep his damn dick in his pants.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm not here for assumptions. She said if u pay for em then cool. That's what was SAID. PERIOD!
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 04:15:03 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:13:18 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 04:08:30 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:06:52 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:54:27 PM
And on top of that, she has kids by him, knowing that he also has a child with someone else. The kids are siblings. Why not include them all? I mean, women always say, "I'm a packaged deal!" when it comes to them and their kids. So are men and their kids.
but why isn't he coughing up the coin?
As I said in one of my previous posts, I don't think the "coin" was ever the issue here? I took it as he was upset because she didn't want to include the child at all from the beginning.
that is an assumption based on your interpretation of the post.
word by word she made it clear his external kids could come, but she wouldn't be the one paying for them.
and if he can't afford to pay for ALL his kids to go.. maybe it's time to keep his damn dick in his pants.
Well I could say your argument is based on your interpretation of the post as well. I mean, let's just agree to disagree. I don't have the energy today at all :dead:
not really.. because the post literally says the kids could come if the ones that created them are willing to pay.
it's there is black and white...word for word.
Quote from: Tonkaman on October 31, 2019, 04:15:08 PM
And why yall not questioning why this nigga making her pay for everybody vacation? This shouldn't even be an issue if the father is doing what he supposed to because he would already be coming up off the coin. :dead:
I MEAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:16:42 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 04:15:03 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:13:18 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 04:08:30 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:06:52 PM
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:54:27 PM
And on top of that, she has kids by him, knowing that he also has a child with someone else. The kids are siblings. Why not include them all? I mean, women always say, "I'm a packaged deal!" when it comes to them and their kids. So are men and their kids.
but why isn't he coughing up the coin?
As I said in one of my previous posts, I don't think the "coin" was ever the issue here? I took it as he was upset because she didn't want to include the child at all from the beginning.
that is an assumption based on your interpretation of the post.
word by word she made it clear his external kids could come, but she wouldn't be the one paying for them.
and if he can't afford to pay for ALL his kids to go.. maybe it's time to keep his damn dick in his pants.
Well I could say your argument is based on your interpretation of the post as well. I mean, let's just agree to disagree. I don't have the energy today at all :dead:
not really.. because the post literally says the kids could come if the ones that created them are willing to pay.
it's there is black and white...word for word.
My post was edited. Feel free to read. But yeah, we'll just agree to disagree
Why are y'all always calling somebody a nigger no matter the context good or bad lmao
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 31, 2019, 01:27:56 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
!!!!
Even if he is just a boyfriend, you sat your ass up and created a whole family with him. If they have kids old enough to take on a vacation that means they've clearly been together for a while. Long enough that his child need to be considered too.
right
If the kid is damn near grown, i doubt he'd Wanna go anyway, but intentionally leaving a child out of a vacation is trash
Will and Jada actually discussed this a while back. His oldest son used to wanna just stay home during their vacations and they'd let em sddd they said they regret it now because it actually caused descension
why not call a beast by its name.
#HeadShotsFuckYoVest
Quote from: opheliababe on October 31, 2019, 01:50:57 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
n
she isn't excluding the kid from the experience, just from her financial obligation... which she has every right to.
might as well!
uh, shit costs money :uhh:
this part is true
I just hope her delivery was better than her question we just saw. She made it sound like she didn't want him there
Quote from: Tonkaman on October 31, 2019, 04:15:08 PM
And why yall not questioning why this nigga making her pay for everybody vacation? This shouldn't even be an issue if the father is doing what he supposed to because he would already be coming up off the coin. :dead:
ssssss
am mean ... I'm pretty sure everyone had kinda summed up that he ain't shit
there's really no debate there
and I'm actually glad ppl are not trashing blk men about this type of stuff anymore
this dumb bitch not only opened her legs, but opens her pocketbook
"not gonna take her kid! payin for mines!"yea hun, and you look a complete fool doing it.
because at this point, we have concrete evidence that niggers aren't SHIT
so they aren't the variable in the equation
these dumb whores can't even solve for fckn x out here
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 03:47:28 PM
I also think people's responses are probably a reflection of their own lives (completely and absolutely no shade). My parents are still married and I don't have step siblings, half brothers, WHATEVER. Ive never experienced being an extra child or the child out of the family unit, so i think it's utterly ridiculous for a bitch to pay for another hoe's child to go on a Damn trip. The argument would be stronger if they were married but her boyfriend? Gtfoh :dead:
i don't have siblings at ALL so idk now any of that would work. I'd probably wanna stay home tbh
But everyone's different. I just like including people in things and don't like how "you can come if you want" sounds
it isn't if you want it is if you can afford to.
and as long as none of y'all are paying her bills.. kwee does what she wants with HER money.
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on October 31, 2019, 04:31:20 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on October 31, 2019, 04:15:08 PM
And why yall not questioning why this nigga making her pay for everybody vacation? This shouldn't even be an issue if the father is doing what he supposed to because he would already be coming up off the coin. :dead:
ssssss
am mean ... I'm pretty sure everyone had kinda summed up that he ain't shit
there's really no debate there
and I'm actually glad ppl are not trashing blk men about this type of stuff anymore
this dumb bitch not only opened her legs, but opens her pocketbook
"not gonna take her kid! payin for mines!"
yea hun, and you look a complete fool doing it.
because at this point, we have concrete evidence that niggers aren't SHIT
so they aren't the variable in the equation
these dumb whores can't even solve for fckn x out here
Alallalsls
Not arguing that, could've possibly choose better.
Quote from: 1RIG on October 31, 2019, 04:29:33 PM
Quote from: opheliababe on October 31, 2019, 01:50:57 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
n
she isn't excluding the kid from the experience, just from her financial obligation... which she has every right to.
might as well!
uh, shit costs money :uhh:
this part is true
I just hope her delivery was better than her question we just saw. She made it sound like she didn't want him there
That's how I took it as well
I'm sorry but yea...n
I damn sure ain't taking care of another hoe's baby financially. Y'all want the little fucker to go, Y'ALL pay.
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:33:43 PM
it isn't if you want it is if you can afford to.
and as long as none of y'all are paying her bills.. kwee does what she wants with HER money.
Yea, let's stop remixing the words. She said paying for a kid isn't her responsibility. That's a key word here. If it was just about her not wanting the child to go then I don't think that word wouldve been used. I'm going off what SHE SAID! She ain't wrong for not paying for this nigga other bastard
She probably doesn't care for the little girl too much
Quote from: 1RIG on October 31, 2019, 04:29:33 PM
Quote from: opheliababe on October 31, 2019, 01:50:57 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
n
she isn't excluding the kid from the experience, just from her financial obligation... which she has every right to.
might as well!
uh, shit costs money :uhh:
this part is true
I just hope her delivery was better than her question we just saw. She made it sound like she didn't want him there
That's how I took it too. She didn't want him to go. He felt some kinda way. Then she comes with, "Well if you want him to come, fine, but I'm not paying for it."
Quote from: Alpha on October 31, 2019, 04:38:33 PM
She probably doesn't care for the little girl too much
what make you say that?
i'm sure it's the other mother she's beefing with
you know how negresses act
I wouldn't want some little brat fucking up my family trip either
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on October 31, 2019, 04:40:16 PM
Quote from: Alpha on October 31, 2019, 04:38:33 PM
She probably doesn't care for the little girl too much
what make you say that?
i'm sure it's the other mother she's beefing with
you know how negresses act
If she really liked the little girl she would've made a way for her to go
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on October 31, 2019, 04:40:16 PM
Quote from: Alpha on October 31, 2019, 04:38:33 PM
She probably doesn't care for the little girl too much
what make you say that?
i'm sure it's the other mother she's beefing with
you know how negresses act
And it causes division amongst the kids. Me and my dad's other children didn't have a relationship until a year ago when I FINALLY came to Jersey to visit.
When the kids are excluded from a lot of things and the parents don't communicate at all with one another, it becomes a great divide.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 04:37:54 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:33:43 PM
it isn't if you want it is if you can afford to.
and as long as none of y'all are paying her bills.. kwee does what she wants with HER money.
Yea, let's stop remixing the words. She said paying for a kid isn't her responsibility. That's a key word here. If it was just about her not wanting the child to go then I don't think that word wouldve been used. I'm going off what SHE SAID! She ain't wrong for not paying for this nigga other bastard
the way they are attempting to shift the whole narrative from having the responsible parties pay to "does she REALLY want them to come" :plzstop:
Trying to turn her into a villain when they have no idea what she even had to do to be able to take her kids on a vacation.
https://eu.usatoday.com/story/money/personalfinance/2018/02/26/raising-child-costs-233-610-you-financially-prepared-parent/357243002/
"The cost of raising a child today is $233,610 – excluding the cost of college – for a middle-income family, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture."
:raycharles2urmess:
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:44:40 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 04:37:54 PM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on October 31, 2019, 04:33:43 PM
it isn't if you want it is if you can afford to.
and as long as none of y'all are paying her bills.. kwee does what she wants with HER money.
Yea, let's stop remixing the words. She said paying for a kid isn't her responsibility. That's a key word here. If it was just about her not wanting the child to go then I don't think that word wouldve been used. I'm going off what SHE SAID! She ain't wrong for not paying for this nigga other bastard
the way they are attempting to shift the whole narrative from having the responsible parties pay to "does she REALLY want them to come" :plzstop:
Trying to turn her into a villain when they have no idea what she even had to do to be able to take her kids on a vacation.
https://eu.usatoday.com/story/money/personalfinance/2018/02/26/raising-child-costs-233-610-you-financially-prepared-parent/357243002/
"The cost of raising a child today is $233,610 – excluding the cost of college – for a middle-income family, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture."
:raycharles2urmess:
!!!!!!!
All this conjecture........ um what did she SAY :dead:
Quote from: 1RIG on October 31, 2019, 04:28:14 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 31, 2019, 01:27:56 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
!!!!
Even if he is just a boyfriend, you sat your ass up and created a whole family with him. If they have kids old enough to take on a vacation that means they've clearly been together for a while. Long enough that his child need to be considered too.
right
If the kid is damn near grown, i doubt he'd Wanna go anyway, but intentionally leaving a child out of a vacation is trash
Will and Jada actually discussed this a while back. His oldest son used to wanna just stay home during their vacations and they'd let em sddd they said they regret it now because it actually caused descension
I mean, that's Will's fault though and not Jada's
It's a lot to take care of someone else's kid
What if the kid is bad? Is she allowed to discipline him/her?
What if the kid has allergies? Or some kind of mental disorder?
The kids father and mother really should be making the decisions to prevent any future issues
Quote from: Alpha on October 31, 2019, 04:41:13 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on October 31, 2019, 04:40:16 PM
Quote from: Alpha on October 31, 2019, 04:38:33 PM
She probably doesn't care for the little girl too much
what make you say that?
i'm sure it's the other mother she's beefing with
you know how negresses act
If she really liked the little girl she would've made a way for her to go
She didn't have to. It was ultimately up to him. But reading that, it came across like she didn't want the girl on the trip anyway and never intended on her coming until he said something and then she hit me with "Okay fine. Ian paying for it." :dead: which she doesn't have to (let me make that CLEAR), but still
And if I'm keeping it funky, I don't blame her for not wanting the other lil bitch there IF that's what it was
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 04:53:41 PM
And if I'm keeping it funky, I don't blame her for not wanting the other lil bitch there IF that's what it was
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Scott. on October 31, 2019, 03:38:05 PM
Quote from: Trey on October 31, 2019, 02:05:01 PM
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I'm the opposite. I would feel weird excluding his kids and just bringing mine. At least ask/include them. If this is someone you're hoping to build a future with, this ain't cute and tells a man something different
Cuz I'm PRETTY sure if it was vice versa, her black ass wouldn't be having it. :uhh:
And y'all making the argument "she's just rejecting the financial obligation", but she already excluded the child before even allowing a conversation to see how they can work it out for the child to come. It's an excuse.
:udontlookok:
This nigger needs to leave her. There's plenty of desperate women out there for him.
Thank you!!!!!
!!!
Finally some respectful REAL ass gorls in here
She'd be wrong if she said his kid couldn't come but she didn't say that. She simply said his parents have to pay, not seeing the issue.
Quote from: TinaSnow on October 31, 2019, 05:38:53 PM
She'd be wrong if she said his kid couldn't come but she didn't say that. She simply said his parents have to pay, not seeing the issue.
why tf isn't the father paying :uhh:
Quote from: WinglessAngel. on October 31, 2019, 05:39:40 PM
why tf isn't the father paying :uhh:
Okay?! Sounds like she's the one that needs to leave. :uhh:
Quote from: 89 on October 31, 2019, 04:47:24 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on October 31, 2019, 04:28:14 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 31, 2019, 01:27:56 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
!!!!
Even if he is just a boyfriend, you sat your ass up and created a whole family with him. If they have kids old enough to take on a vacation that means they've clearly been together for a while. Long enough that his child need to be considered too.
right
If the kid is damn near grown, i doubt he'd Wanna go anyway, but intentionally leaving a child out of a vacation is trash
Will and Jada actually discussed this a while back. His oldest son used to wanna just stay home during their vacations and they'd let em sddd they said they regret it now because it actually caused descension
I mean, that's Will's fault though and not Jada's
It's a lot to take care of someone else's kid
What if the kid is bad? Is she allowed to discipline him/her?
What if the kid has allergies? Or some kind of mental disorder?
The kids father and mother really should be making the decisions to prevent any future issues
oh i wasn't placing blame on Jada
It wasn't an analogy i was making. It just reminded me of that episode
They both had regrets about that though. It messed with the entire dynamic and he felt like the other kids were more loved
Quote from: WinglessAngel. on October 31, 2019, 05:39:11 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on October 31, 2019, 05:38:53 PM
She'd be wrong if she said his kid couldn't come but she didn't say that. She simply said his parents have to pay, not seeing the issue.
I blame the kids for this
Quote from: I Used to Know Her on October 31, 2019, 07:05:09 PM
You just hate children dhdhdjsk
:plzstop: but !!!!!!!
needy things
:hmph:
I mean in her defense, she isn't wrong but I'm sure his other kids want to know why their brother and sisters are on a trip and daddy didn't take them. It's not her responsibility to pay for those other kids BUT she can't say no if they are able. That's just selfish if she does. Let them kids be with their siblings.
Quote from: opheliababe on October 31, 2019, 01:50:57 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
n
she isn't excluding the kid from the experience, just from her financial obligation... which she has every right to.
might as well!
uh, shit costs money :uhh:
So basically she's broke
Quote from: LOONA. on November 01, 2019, 11:13:04 AM
Quote from: opheliababe on October 31, 2019, 01:50:57 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
n
she isn't excluding the kid from the experience, just from her financial obligation... which she has every right to.
might as well!
uh, shit costs money :uhh:
So basically she's broke
The bf sounds broke. What kinda man would even complain about this so his girl can pay for HIS kid? :uhh:
She sounds selfish..like all she care about is her and hers and that ain't cool.
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 01, 2019, 12:30:19 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 01, 2019, 11:13:04 AM
Quote from: opheliababe on October 31, 2019, 01:50:57 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on October 31, 2019, 01:23:56 PM
Yh she's wrong
Why is she excluding the other child.
I mean he's just a boyfriend so if you're gonna take him you might as well take the child too..like
n
she isn't excluding the kid from the experience, just from her financial obligation... which she has every right to.
might as well!
uh, shit costs money :uhh:
So basically she's broke
The bf sounds broke. What kinda man would even complain about this so his girl can pay for HIS kid? :uhh:
!!!!!!!
u ain't gotta broke to not want to SPLURGE on somebody elses' kid's vacation. it ain't like we talking about a trip to the damn movies :dead:
She'd be wrong if his bastard child lived with them but that doesn't seem to be the case. His parents need to pay for him.
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 01, 2019, 02:19:39 PM
She'd be wrong if his bastard child lived with them but that doesn't seem to be the case. His parents need to pay for him.
Yea now THIS would be fucked up
Why even get with a man that already has kids if that's your attitude?
She sounds like a selfish sheboon. Hope he cheats and gets another bitch pregnant.
I mean, it's not like she's completely denying the lil niglette.
If the baby mama can cough up the coin then it can go.
I wouldn't pay for some random child to go on vacation with me either.
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:33:12 PM
Why even get with a man that already has kids if that's your attitude?
:plzstop:
Yea, just find one that's single and never been married with no kids........... preferably with a career as a Dr. as well because all of these things are very easy to find and most black men check all these boxes. Boy shut the hell up :dead:
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:33:12 PM
Why even get with a man that already has kids if that's your attitude?
She sounds like a selfish sheboon. Hope he cheats and gets another bitch pregnant.
No wonder the bitch is still a gf and not a wife.
I'm WEAK :plzstop:
MOST niggas out here are sitting on atleast one baby mama. If we putting in orders for our ideal mate where tf can i provide my requirements. May, that was GOOFY asf :dead:
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:39:08 PM
No wonder the bitch is still a gf and not a wife.
Well that's more an issue of niggers loving to have bastard bvy's by multiple partners
Quote from: Nine. on November 01, 2019, 02:40:30 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:39:08 PM
No wonder the bitch is still a gf and not a wife.
Well that's more an issue of niggers loving to have bastard bvy's by multiple partners
Is he drunk
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Clearly this child was in the picture already before she laid down and got pregnant by him, more than once.
So why act like that? She needs to grow tf up.
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:38:48 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:33:12 PM
Why even get with a man that already has kids if that's your attitude?
She sounds like a selfish sheboon. Hope he cheats and gets another bitch pregnant.
Also, a lot of us are making a bunch of assumptions though and THROWING stories together. SDDDDDDDD We don't really know their situation. We don't know WHAT this nigger pays for at home and vacations he could've paid for in the past. :dead:
So yeah this lady did nothing wrong
except be from Baltimore
Quote from: Trey on November 01, 2019, 02:44:55 PM
Also, a lot of us are making a bunch of assumptions though and THROWING stories together. SDDDDDDDD We don't really know their situation. We don't know WHAT this nigger pays for at home and vacations he could've paid for in the past. :dead:
true
A lot of context is missing
I see a black woman with "kids" plural shacking up with a boyfriend who has another kid
I judged her tbh
She's wrong, she doesn't love herself, and I'm sure she'll have more kids by another man that she's taking care of once this "boyfriend" decides he wants a woman with no kids.
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Clearly this child was in the picture already before she laid down and got pregnant by him, more than once.
So why act like that? She needs to grow tf up.
Agreed.
Quote from: SoRockIt on November 01, 2019, 02:46:39 PM
Quote from: Trey on November 01, 2019, 02:44:55 PM
Also, a lot of us are making a bunch of assumptions though and THROWING stories together. SDDDDDDDD We don't really know their situation. We don't know WHAT this nigger pays for at home and vacations he could've paid for in the past. :dead:
true
A lot of context is missing
deadbeat! Broke nigger!
SCDJDJDJDJDJJDJDJDJSJDJSJDJJSJDJJSJDJDDDDRFFFD
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Nine. on November 01, 2019, 02:46:24 PM
So yeah this lady did nothing wrong
except be from Baltimore
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Because MOST these niggas out here have kids. Like HUH :dead:
This bitch would be sitting at home LONELY waiting to find this Damn diamond in that rough. Boy, shut up
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 02:57:56 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Because MOST these niggas out here have kids. Like HUH :dead:
That's not true. There are plenty of men with no kids.
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Clearly this child was in the picture already before she laid down and got pregnant by him, more than once.
So why act like that? She needs to grow tf up.
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 03:08:29 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 02:57:56 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Because MOST these niggas out here have kids. Like HUH :dead:
That's not true. There are plenty of men with no kids.
Yea ok :dead:
This ape knew what tf she signed up for.
So glad most of u won't ever have kids. The only positive thing about homosexuality
When you live in a city where the life expectancy is 12, having kids is the least of your worries
FAGGOT
:thatssowendy:
DDSDSDSDSDSDSDSDSDDSDSDSDSDSD
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 03:17:01 PM
When you live
And aint shit changing. U ain't EVER having kids ya Damn fruit :nowgorl:
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 03:17:01 PM
When you live in a city where the life expectancy is 12, having kids is the least of your worries
not 12
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Clearly this child was in the picture already before she laid down and got pregnant by him, more than once.
So why act like that? She needs to grow tf up.
It's not her place to offer a trip to someone else's kid.
Quote from: Trey on November 01, 2019, 02:44:55 PM
Also, a lot of us are making a bunch of assumptions though and THROWING stories together. SDDDDDDDD We don't really know their situation. We don't know WHAT this nigger pays for at home and vacations he could've paid for in the past. :dead:
:dead:
I'm sick of the back and forth, fuck this nigger. He, his kid, and his bm can stay home while Queen and the kids enjoy their vacay!
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 01, 2019, 04:47:35 PM
I'm sick of the back and forth, fuck this nigger. He, his kid, and his bm can stay home while Queen and the kids enjoy their vacay!
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 01, 2019, 04:47:35 PM
I'm sick of the back and forth, fuck this nigger. He, his kid, and his bm can stay home while Queen and the kids enjoy their vacay!
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
How about u AND yo lil niglet stay home :plea:
Bow was tired of the shit n cut straight to the mess :plzstop:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 03:14:15 PM
So glad most of u won't ever have kids. The only positive thing about homosexuality
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 03:17:01 PM
When you live in a city where the life expectancy is 12, having kids is the least of your worries
don't know who was wrong or right here actually
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 31, 2019, 03:47:28 PM
I also think people's responses are probably a reflection of their own lives (completely and absolutely no shade). My parents are still married and I don't have step siblings, half brothers, WHATEVER. Ive never experienced being an extra child or the child out of the family unit, so i think it's utterly ridiculous for a bitch to pay for another hoe's child to go on a Damn trip. The argument would be stronger if they were married but her boyfriend? Gtfoh :dead:
But you do experience an in home absentee father that kept you around gunshots and skewked your views on your own self worth while living in their basement tho developing a hatred for the world
Im sure the step cheerun skip past that stage most times
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Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 03:11:24 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 03:08:29 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 02:57:56 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Because MOST these niggas out here have kids. Like HUH :dead:
That's not true. There are plenty of men with no kids.
Yea ok :dead:
Do men in Chicago not know how to use condoms?
There are plenty who don't have kids and haven't been to jail.
Quote from: LOONA. on November 02, 2019, 09:06:11 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 03:11:24 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 03:08:29 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 02:57:56 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Because MOST these niggas out here have kids. Like HUH :dead:
That's not true. There are plenty of men with no kids.
Yea ok :dead:
Do men in Chicago not know how to use condoms?
There are plenty who don't have kids and haven't been to jail.
Fag I said what i said. Do u wanna fight about it?
He should just pay for his baby to go on the trip
not his baby mama
Seems kinda petty and ghetto tbh
And a lil broke
hun just say u can't afford to pay for all the kids
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
And the parents are ruining it for the kids, I mean this could be a good bonding experience and a good memory for the family but oh well
:raycharles2urmess:
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:11:17 AM
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
Kwee aint wasting her money on another bitch's child and that's fckn final
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 02, 2019, 09:12:25 AM
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:11:17 AM
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
Kwee aint wasting her money on another bitch's child and that's fckn final
Her man's child :letsmessfag:
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:13:15 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 02, 2019, 09:12:25 AM
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:11:17 AM
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
Kwee aint wasting her money on another bitch's child and that's fckn final
Her man's child :letsmessfag:
And her man gotta pay for it :cheerup:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 02, 2019, 09:14:43 AM
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:13:15 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 02, 2019, 09:12:25 AM
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:11:17 AM
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
Kwee aint wasting her money on another bitch's child and that's fckn final
Her man's child :letsmessfag:
And her man gotta pay for it :cheerup:
It just sounds like she normally pays for a lot of stuff
:letsmessfag:
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:22:49 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 02, 2019, 09:14:43 AM
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:13:15 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 02, 2019, 09:12:25 AM
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:11:17 AM
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
Kwee aint wasting her money on another bitch's child and that's fckn final
Her man's child :letsmessfag:
And her man gotta pay for it :cheerup:
It just sounds like she normally pays for a lot of stuff
:letsmessfag:
So u saying this nigga aint no Damn good huh :receipts:
Ive thought about it and
shes wrong morally but right practically
she said we are taking OUR KIDS thats your kids his kids and kids together
you do not let the child feel that separation from their siblings like that
without question though the father should take care of his kids with her and the additional
so that it does not put a strain on his GIRLFRIEND
but at the same time why not treat the child as your own if you really want to be with this man
but with throwing around bf and gf labels maybe she dont
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 02, 2019, 09:10:17 AM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 02, 2019, 09:06:11 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 03:11:24 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 03:08:29 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2019, 02:57:56 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on November 01, 2019, 02:42:04 PM
It's not about ideal. Why get with a nigga that has kids if you wanna act like that?
Because MOST these niggas out here have kids. Like HUH :dead:
That's not true. There are plenty of men with no kids.
Yea ok :dead:
Do men in Chicago not know how to use condoms?
There are plenty who don't have kids and haven't been to jail.
Fag I said what i said. Do u wanna fight about it?
Yh wassup?
Quote from: CREAM. on November 02, 2019, 09:10:36 AM
Seems kinda petty and ghetto tbh
And a lil broke
hun just say u can't afford to pay for all the kids
my 'ments exactly
Quote from: opheliababe on October 31, 2019, 12:49:59 PM
and no. he or the mother needs to pay for that child. she has no obligation.
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:11:17 AM
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
N
Not sure what decade you are stuck in. But these days any child over 2 damn near pays the same rate as an adult if they are flying anywhere.
Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on November 02, 2019, 09:29:08 AM
Ive thought about it and
shes wrong morally but right practically
she said we are taking OUR KIDS thats your kids his kids and kids together
you do not let the child feel that separation from their siblings like that
without question though the father should take care of his kids with her and the additional
so that it does not put a strain on his GIRLFRIEND
but at the same time why not treat the child as your own if you really want to be with this man
but with throwing around bf and gf labels maybe she dont
I agree
Plus she shouldn't put this online..she doesn't want to know if she is wrong or not, she just wants to complain about her bf's ex. She is going to destroy her relationship. She should discuss this with her family in private..but I guess that is the era we live in.
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on November 02, 2019, 09:35:55 AM
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:11:17 AM
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
N
Not sure what decade you are stuck in. But these days any child over 2 damn near pays the same rate as an adult if they are flying anywhere.
Depends on what kind of holiday
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:44:07 AM
Quote from: .::aClassique..::..Reimagined::. on November 02, 2019, 09:35:55 AM
Quote from: Annie on November 02, 2019, 09:11:17 AM
Most of the time one more kid isn't even that expensive
N
Not sure what decade you are stuck in. But these days any child over 2 damn near pays the same rate as an adult if they are flying anywhere.
Depends on what kind of holiday
It doesn't matter.
There's costs involved. Any of you started a go fund me yet for this child? :sobusyjetsetter: