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Title: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: M-Rocka on November 16, 2020, 06:13:21 AM
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Damn...

Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: klappa. on November 16, 2020, 08:14:49 AM
cvvccvvcvvc not her tagging the app and ceo

um what is he supposed to do? did u press charges hun
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: M-Rocka on November 16, 2020, 08:38:26 AM
Quote from: sandra_harris on November 16, 2020, 08:14:49 AM
cvvccvvcvvc not her tagging the app and ceo

um what is he supposed to do? did u press charges hun
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:dead: :dead:
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Freemala Harris on November 16, 2020, 08:49:16 AM
eeeek

Yeah I listen to too much true crime and these apps are scary. Sad story
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Eh... on November 16, 2020, 09:32:28 AM
😐
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on November 16, 2020, 09:33:58 AM
#HingeNightmares
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: brocka4life on November 16, 2020, 09:39:56 AM
Quote from: sandra_harris on November 16, 2020, 08:14:49 AM
cvvccvvcvvc not her tagging the app and ceo

um what is he supposed to do? did u press charges hun

The CEO could make it easier for the police to get info on the guy she was on the date with, instead of having to wait through a long legal process. He can also have the guy blocked from using the app and doing this to someone else.

Her first mistake was riding with him. Always best to bring your own transportation if possible.

Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Bruce on November 16, 2020, 09:40:57 AM
Why is she tagging the CEO and the APP? While the situation is horrible, there are many steps she failed to take to protect herself.  I went to Hinge's website and they have a list of safety tips, many of which she obviously ignored. 

Don't Rush 
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Hinge. 
Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Be in Control of Your Transportation 

What he did is awful, but she allowed herself to be the perfect victim. She should put more effort into explaining the precautions she should have taken that she failed to if she really want to keep women safe. Because this could happen with a guy you meet anywhere. 
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: klappa. on November 16, 2020, 10:12:52 AM
Quote from: brocka4life on November 16, 2020, 09:39:56 AM
Quote from: sandra_harris on November 16, 2020, 08:14:49 AM
cvvccvvcvvc not her tagging the app and ceo

um what is he supposed to do? did u press charges hun

The CEO could make it easier for the police to get info on the guy she was on the date with, instead of having to wait through a long legal process. He can also have the guy blocked from using the app and doing this to someone else.

Her first mistake was riding with him. Always best to bring your own transportation if possible.

her tagging him doesnt change the legal process they would have to go through in order to get his info that is protected by law

again she need to press charges and let the cops --the ones who can lawfully get that info-- handle it

and tbh she's seen his face, has his contact info, and knows what kinda mess he drives so im not even really seeing the necessity
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Purple Moon on November 16, 2020, 10:22:37 AM
Quote from: Bruce on November 16, 2020, 09:40:57 AM
Why is she tagging the CEO and the APP? While the situation is horrible, there are many steps she failed to take to protect herself.  I went to Hinge's website and they have a list of safety tips, many of which she obviously ignored.

Don't Rush 
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Hinge.
Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Be in Control of Your Transportation

What he did is awful, but she allowed herself to be the perfect victim. She should put more effort into explaining the precautions she should have taken that she failed to if she really want to keep women safe. Because this could happen with a guy you meet anywhere.

who actually ever reads the safety tips section? stop shaming the victim.

also, is it more likely to die on a date with someone from a dating app, than it is to die on a "regular" date? i dunno.
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on November 16, 2020, 10:28:49 AM
Quote from: Bruce on November 16, 2020, 09:40:57 AM
Why is she tagging the CEO and the APP? While the situation is horrible, there are many steps she failed to take to protect herself.  I went to Hinge's website and they have a list of safety tips, many of which she obviously ignored.

Don't Rush 
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Hinge.
Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Be in Control of Your Transportation

What he did is awful, but she allowed herself to be the perfect victim. She should put more effort into explaining the precautions she should have taken that she failed to if she really want to keep women safe. Because this could happen with a guy you meet anywhere.
How'd ya know she didn't do any of that?
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on November 16, 2020, 10:41:29 AM
I hate these stories trying to say dating apps are bad !!

im sorry you can meet a bad guy or girl at mutha fucking church a Jamal Bryant type 

or bad guy at the library the store the mall movies on an airplane etc 

ppl act like this shit didn't happen before dating apps.  

and not tagging the ceo Brenda Gorl 
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on November 16, 2020, 10:42:02 AM
There is a pandemic going on, stay your asses home.
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on November 16, 2020, 10:48:25 AM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 16, 2020, 10:42:02 AM
There is a pandemic going on, stay your asses home.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on November 16, 2020, 11:21:43 AM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 16, 2020, 10:42:02 AM
There is a pandemic going on, stay your asses home.
!!!
Right

Why is she going on dates in the first place? :uhh:
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Nonchalantboi on November 16, 2020, 11:24:12 AM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 16, 2020, 10:42:02 AM
There is a pandemic going on, stay your asses home.

:dead: But yea I feel for her
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Purple Moon on November 16, 2020, 11:26:04 AM
Quote from: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on November 16, 2020, 11:21:43 AM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 16, 2020, 10:42:02 AM
There is a pandemic going on, stay your asses home.
!!!
Right

Why is she going on dates in the first place? :uhh:

why not? as long as she's not going against any government guidelines and still reducing her contact to people in general? she might be lonely.
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Bruce on November 16, 2020, 01:32:26 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 16, 2020, 10:22:37 AM

who actually ever reads the safety tips section? stop shaming the victim.

also, is it more likely to die on a date with someone from a dating app, than it is to die on a "regular" date? i dunno.

People throw around victim-shaming too much. Crime is apart of our existence, so outlining the steps that a person could have taken to prevent being victimized, is not victim shaming.

She is trying to help women, so she says to always check-in with friends and let them know where you are going. But these are not the things that will keep someone safe and alive. Going somewhere public, and not jumping in the vehicle of some random man will. It seems like victim shaming, but these are the points that will really keep women safe.
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Marilyn on November 16, 2020, 03:33:42 PM
She did contact the police :uhh: Atlanta PD is currently looking for him.
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: FUCK Bey on November 16, 2020, 03:52:02 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 16, 2020, 10:22:37 AM
Quote from: Bruce on November 16, 2020, 09:40:57 AM
Why is she tagging the CEO and the APP? While the situation is horrible, there are many steps she failed to take to protect herself.  I went to Hinge's website and they have a list of safety tips, many of which she obviously ignored.

Don't Rush 
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Hinge.
Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Be in Control of Your Transportation

What he did is awful, but she allowed herself to be the perfect victim. She should put more effort into explaining the precautions she should have taken that she failed to if she really want to keep women safe. Because this could happen with a guy you meet anywhere.

who actually ever reads the safety tips section?
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Well maybe that's the goddam PROBLEM. :uhh:

Victim shaming!
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: FUCK Bey on November 16, 2020, 03:52:45 PM
Melmel got what he deserved. 
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on November 16, 2020, 06:34:13 PM
Quote from: Jayda X on November 16, 2020, 10:28:49 AM
Quote from: Bruce on November 16, 2020, 09:40:57 AM
Why is she tagging the CEO and the APP? While the situation is horrible, there are many steps she failed to take to protect herself.  I went to Hinge's website and they have a list of safety tips, many of which she obviously ignored.

Don't Rush 
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Hinge.
Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Be in Control of Your Transportation

What he did is awful, but she allowed herself to be the perfect victim. She should put more effort into explaining the precautions she should have taken that she failed to if she really want to keep women safe. Because this could happen with a guy you meet anywhere.
How'd ya know she didn't do any of that?

She was in his car so I'm gonna go with she didn't follow any of this
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on November 16, 2020, 06:34:59 PM
Abused and nearly killed self 
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: FUCK Bey on November 16, 2020, 06:42:02 PM
Quote from: Say Something on November 16, 2020, 06:34:13 PM
Quote from: Jayda X on November 16, 2020, 10:28:49 AM
Quote from: Bruce on November 16, 2020, 09:40:57 AM
Why is she tagging the CEO and the APP? While the situation is horrible, there are many steps she failed to take to protect herself.  I went to Hinge's website and they have a list of safety tips, many of which she obviously ignored.

Don't Rush 
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Hinge.
Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Be in Control of Your Transportation

What he did is awful, but she allowed herself to be the perfect victim. She should put more effort into explaining the precautions she should have taken that she failed to if she really want to keep women safe. Because this could happen with a guy you meet anywhere.
How'd ya know she didn't do any of that?

She was in his car so I'm gonna go with she didn't follow any of this
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Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Nine on November 16, 2020, 06:42:46 PM
Quote from: Say Something on November 16, 2020, 06:34:59 PM
Abused and nearly killed self
asfjanfds;kfjnfsd WTF
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Palladium on November 16, 2020, 07:09:53 PM
Quote from: Nine. on November 16, 2020, 06:42:46 PM
Quote from: Say Something on November 16, 2020, 06:34:59 PM
Abused and nearly killed self
asfjanfds;kfjnfsd WTF


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Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: klappa. on November 16, 2020, 08:40:42 PM
Quote from: Palladium on November 16, 2020, 07:09:53 PM
Quote from: Nine. on November 16, 2020, 06:42:46 PM
Quote from: Say Something on November 16, 2020, 06:34:59 PM
Abused and nearly killed self
asfjanfds;kfjnfsd WTF


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Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: M-Rocka on November 17, 2020, 12:14:05 AM
Quote from: Say Something on November 16, 2020, 06:34:13 PM
Quote from: Jayda X on November 16, 2020, 10:28:49 AM
Quote from: Bruce on November 16, 2020, 09:40:57 AM
Why is she tagging the CEO and the APP? While the situation is horrible, there are many steps she failed to take to protect herself.  I went to Hinge's website and they have a list of safety tips, many of which she obviously ignored.

Don't Rush 
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Hinge.
Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Be in Control of Your Transportation

What he did is awful, but she allowed herself to be the perfect victim. She should put more effort into explaining the precautions she should have taken that she failed to if she really want to keep women safe. Because this could happen with a guy you meet anywhere.
How'd ya know she didn't do any of that?

She was in his car so I'm gonna go with she didn't follow any of this
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Sheesh.....
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Hatsumomo on November 17, 2020, 03:53:20 AM
Quote from: sandra_harris on November 16, 2020, 08:14:49 AM
cvvccvvcvvc not her tagging the app and ceo

um what is he supposed to do? did u press charges hun

:dead:
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Hatsumomo on November 17, 2020, 04:27:02 AM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 16, 2020, 10:42:02 AM
There is a pandemic going on, stay your asses home.
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on November 17, 2020, 09:28:25 AM
Quote from:  evamarcille
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PLEASE WATCH AND SWIPE ⬅️ and SHARE. Seeing this literally broke my heart 💔. Broke me down to tears. The world can be so so cold. Unacceptable 🔁 @miketsterling
My client, @brittanycorreri, went on a first date through the @hinge dating site which bills itself as an app for people looking for long term relationships. What @hinge actually did was send her on a date with a lunatic with a criminal record of assaulting women. It was Brittany's first date from the first time using a dating site of any kind. This man beat Brittany in the head - punching her over and over again, grabbed her as she tried to escape, called her a "ni**** bi***" as he dragged her on concrete and told her "she was nothing" and "nobody will miss her" as he brandished one of his three guns and threatened to kill her. She thought she was going to die! And the only thing that saved her was a heroic security guard who heard her screams and came to her aid. We are working closely with police and the DAs office to bring this man to justice. In the meantime, @hinge insulted her with their tepid and canned response via social media. We have to get the message out. It is clear that sometimes the only way to get companies to do the right thing is a little sunlight. This should not happen to another woman. @brittanycorreri is being so brave and coming forward in aid of other women. #dreyesterling

Looks like Michael Sterling is repressing her
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: klappa. on November 17, 2020, 09:38:46 AM
dccvvvccc ok i can already tell this bitch is trynna sue hinge

hing sent her on a date with !

n

did hinge make ur dumb ass jump in his mess?
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: M-Rocka on November 17, 2020, 10:26:59 AM
Quote from: sandra_harris on November 17, 2020, 09:38:46 AM
dccvvvccc ok i can already tell this bitch is trynna sue hinge

hing sent her on a date with !

n

did hinge make ur dumb ass jump in his mess?
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King  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: klappa. on November 17, 2020, 12:14:59 PM
am just saying

sis went through a traumatic mess, which i acknowledge

but i also feel like shes trying to capitalize financiallly at the expense of hinge and.... this ain't on them  :uhh:
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: M-Rocka on November 17, 2020, 12:45:15 PM
Quote from: sandra_harris on November 17, 2020, 12:14:59 PM
am just saying

sis went through a traumatic mess, which i acknowledge

but i also feel like shes trying to capitalize financiallly at the expense of hinge and.... this ain't on them  :uhh:
I'm seeing EBTva Marcille sharing this story on her page as well. I saw a story almost similar to this on the ID channel (minus the violence). These women just need to be more careful.
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on November 17, 2020, 01:26:19 PM
Sis was chasing white dick and literally got her ass HANDED to her, huh?
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Palladium on November 17, 2020, 01:57:41 PM
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Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on November 17, 2020, 02:03:48 PM
Quote from: sandra_harris on November 17, 2020, 12:14:59 PM
am just saying

sis went through a traumatic mess, which i acknowledge

but i also feel like shes trying to capitalize financiallly at the expense of hinge and.... this ain't on them  :uhh:
she definitely is
Sis saw dollar signs as king was knocking her in the head in that Saturn
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: M-Rocka on November 17, 2020, 02:10:00 PM
Not everybody attacking Hinge on IG as they turn their comments off. :plzstop:
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: L0NZ. on November 17, 2020, 03:33:33 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 17, 2020, 09:28:25 AMIt was Brittany's first date from the first time using a dating site of any kind.

N oh Chile
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: M-Rocka on November 17, 2020, 04:02:35 PM
Quote from: BorderL0NZ. on November 17, 2020, 03:33:33 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 17, 2020, 09:28:25 AMIt was Brittany's first date from the first time using a dating site of any kind.

N oh Chile
Welp
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on November 17, 2020, 04:58:53 PM
Quote from: BorderL0NZ. on November 17, 2020, 03:33:33 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 17, 2020, 09:28:25 AMIt was Brittany's first date from the first time using a dating site of any kind.

N oh Chile
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The Virgin Brittany is a mess!
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Kalifornia. on November 17, 2020, 06:02:52 PM
What happened to her is terrible but the app isn't at fault 
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Brandy's Unconditional Ocean on November 17, 2020, 07:56:11 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on November 17, 2020, 01:26:19 PM
Sis was chasing white dick and literally got her ass HANDED to her, huh?
oh, a white man did this? Weirdos

He's probably a trump girl
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: M-Rocka on November 17, 2020, 08:32:22 PM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CHtrLmGh7Fb/?igshid=1mj0x6w7ulsc3
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Vonc2002 on November 17, 2020, 10:19:01 PM
How fckn stupid can u be to be beating up woman on a dating app after you've put in all you're info and pretty much given them all the tools to locate u :dead:
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on November 17, 2020, 10:20:17 PM
Seems like he meant to kill her but got stopped..
Title: Re: Please Be Careful w/ Online Dating
Post by: Vonc2002 on November 17, 2020, 10:21:54 PM
Yea, it's still pretty stupid. Wouldn't take much of a detective to figure it out