Notes:
- admits she was offended when White people reached out to check on her during George Floyd drama ..it made her sad because as hard as she tried to disassociate herself from Blackness, people could still see she was Black and let her know that by reaching out during the protests.
- breaks down crying every time she says the phrase "I'm Black"..cuz it's very hard for her to say it
- acknowledges that she internalized racism from her White family - was not raised by her Black family
- admits that she has a lot of work to do when it comes to reversing everything she's learned
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWYVQbj0W6M
this was a really honest vidya. :sistas:
my heart goes out to mixed black/white people who are raised by white families after the black parent disappears.
i know they feel a lot of the racism and internalize it.
goddess needs to tap Keke Wyatt on the shoulder.
cuz she's def on the right path
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Quote from: Say-Something-ReVon on February 03, 2021, 09:58:16 PM
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glad
someone in this bitch has a heart.
u can see she's legit struggling with something
I'm glad my daddy wasn't chasing racist snow bunnies and my mama wasn't a bed wench
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I'm glad my daddy wasn't chasing racist snow bunnies and my mama wasn't a bed wench
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I was typing something very ugly in the comments until it got to the 6:00 part. She lucky she started talking about that before I finished.
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yeah i like that she's become very self analytical
she's actually taking time to THINK about the "why"s of it all
why do i think this way? why do i not identify, etc.
These mixed people kill me with this. They clearly have and admit to having self-hate issues when it comes to their black identity. Then they turn around and say that Black kids were "so mean" to them. I wonder what type of behavior she first displayed to her black classmates before they started being "mean" to her. They never tell the truth about what is really hurting their feelings.
Be honest and say that you wish that the white world would accept you as White the same way the Black world is willing to accept you as Black. Your Black family will identify you as mixed or sans race every time. Your white side will forever see you as their "Black" cousin, niece, sister etc.
Quote from: bby ddy on February 03, 2021, 10:11:29 PM
I'm glad my daddy wasn't chasing racist snow bunnies and my mama wasn't a bed wench
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My mama did what she had to
The fuck is up?
:trannyjblige:
As someone who is half ukrainien, German, Nigerian, very rich, bajan, Indian and Martian, I'm very sympathetic to her plight and very offended by the ignorant comments in here
This was hard to sit through, glad I did because I would have written her off as another entitled mixed girl. At least she recognises that she has some issues with Blackness she needs to address.
!!!!!
i think it's very easy for people to write things off as "Oooh boo hoo look y'all she crying mixed tears 😩😩😩😩😩 awww!! 🙄 "
but I could not imagine being raised by a white family, and being disconnected from my black family
being surrounded by people who look absolutely nothing like me and have no interest in teaching more about my inherent culture . How can she connect with blackness when she isnt immersed in it?
thats why I feel that "mixed-ish" spin off is absolutely necessary. For people like her Who have one white parent and one black parent the mixed experience goes way further than just an aesthetic and people asking "wow what r u? :ohwow: "
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 09:25:25 AM
"Oooh boo hoo look y'all she crying mixed tears 😩😩😩😩😩 awww!! 🙄 "
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Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
it's never too late to realize things like she is realzing now...to me that's the most important...that she's finally owning it and movin' forward ..that's her journey...
who is this?
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:06:33 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 10:33:45 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:06:33 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks
or Becky has a couple kids
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 10:33:45 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:06:33 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
Wait , for sister sister they had ONE episode where they met their white father I believe ?
and that was it. He disappeared and it was back to them having a whole Black ass experience on that show.
If u missed that ONE episode u definitely missed the mention of them having a white parent .
I got my own mind
I do my own style on my own time
:trannyjblige: :trannyjblige:
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Quote from: Banana Powder on February 04, 2021, 10:58:29 AM
I got my own mind
I do my own style on my own time
:trannyjblige: :trannyjblige:
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Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:48:00 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 10:33:45 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:06:33 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
yes exactly they were bi-racial and portraying Black characters, so why couldn't this girl see herself as Black too is what Im saying and shes old enough to know that and have known it for years if shes 36
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 11:16:43 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:48:00 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 10:33:45 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:06:33 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
yes exactly they were bi-racial and portraying Black characters, so why couldn't this girl see herself as Black too is what Im saying and shes old enough to know that and have known it for years if shes 36
thats just not the same Ray
How was she to know they were biracial ? Lisa Bonets character was NOT portrayed as "hey although I am mixed I still identify with my Blackness ✊🏾 . I am STILL proud to be Black and acknowledge Black is part of my mixed identity."
If she was , I'd say that this woman had no excuse . But she wasn't .
Do u get what I'm saying?
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 11:21:48 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 11:16:43 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:48:00 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 10:33:45 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:06:33 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
yes exactly they were bi-racial and portraying Black characters, so why couldn't this girl see herself as Black too is what Im saying and shes old enough to know that and have known it for years if shes 36
thats just not the same Ray
How was she to know they were biracial ? Lisa Bonets character was NOT portrayed as "hey although I am mixed I still identify with my Blackness ✊🏾 . I am STILL proud to be Black and acknowledge Black is part of my mixed identity."
If she was , I'd say that this woman had no excuse . But she wasn't .
Do u get what I'm saying?
I get what you're saying but whether or not she knew what their actual race was
she could see women who look like her identifying as Black and being accepted as Black
that would tell a child that even though shes bi-racial, there are Black ppl that look like her that she can identify with
then add on to this, she would have found out these women are really bi-racial by her teens or twenties
at 36 come on now is she living under a rock?
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 11:30:33 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 11:21:48 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 11:16:43 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:48:00 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 10:33:45 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:06:33 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
yes exactly they were bi-racial and portraying Black characters, so why couldn't this girl see herself as Black too is what Im saying and shes old enough to know that and have known it for years if shes 36
thats just not the same Ray
How was she to know they were biracial ? Lisa Bonets character was NOT portrayed as "hey although I am mixed I still identify with my Blackness ✊🏾 . I am STILL proud to be Black and acknowledge Black is part of my mixed identity."
If she was , I'd say that this woman had no excuse . But she wasn't .
Do u get what I'm saying?
I get what you're saying but whether or not she knew what their actual race was
she could see women who look like her identifying as Black and being accepted as Black
that would tell a child that even though shes bi-racial, there are Black ppl that look like her that she can identify with
then add on to this, she would have found out these women are really bi-racial by her teens or twenties
at 36 come on now is she living under a rock?
now see... look at what ur saying
Look at what I bolded.
How can actual race and family heritage not matter when we are discussing biracial identity ?
I think what ur referring to is the aesthetic.
Her being lighter skinned . What she sees with her eyes. Phenotype. And I get that.
Not true representation , which includes acknowledgement of being biracial. And the experience that comes with it.
If we are just gonna name light skinned people who were on TV that she could have looked to, then that's different . Cuz there are plenty of black people out there who are her skin tone and don't have much immediate mixture in their family - who have two AA parents and four AA grandparents.
But it has to go further than that. Look at how conflicted she is . And yes she's in her 30s but it's not uncommon for the struggles of childhood to linger well into someone's adulthood. She's now addressing it.
I feel like some of these biracials lie about how often they're asked about it. Like Ray said, she just looks a lightskinned black woman. Keke Wyatt said the same thing. People would just STOP her in her tracks and ask what she's mixed with. I don't believe it. Faith Evans, Tiny, Tamia, Alicia Keys, Lauren London, the Mowrys, and Obama all have a full white parent. To me they all just look black. Of course the area and demographics of where they grew up matter but I feel like some of them straight up exaggerate.
Damns, the way she starts the mess off by speaking directly to us
Let me get it
See this why I never listen to u faggots
I was expecting some edgy mess and she's just pouring her heart out
Quote from: Marilyn on February 04, 2021, 11:43:21 AM
I feel like some of these biracials lie about how often they're asked about it. Like Ray said, she just looks a lightskinned black woman. Keke Wyatt said the same thing. People would just STOP her in her tracks and ask what she's mixed with. I don't believe it. Faith Evans, Tiny, Tamia, Alicia Keys, Lauren London, the Mowrys, and Obama all have a full white parent. To me they all just look black. Of course the area and demographics of where they grew up matter but I feel like some of them straight up exaggerate.
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I believe it.
I don't think people are RUNNING up to them frantically asking "omg omg omg omg omg tell me! Can I have ur autograph?!!"
But I believe they are questioned.
Keke said people ask her "what are u mixed with".
To me that's someone seeing ur Black, but seeing there's something else there maybe.
Keke never claimed to give an ambiguous mess
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 11:43:03 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 11:30:33 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 11:21:48 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 11:16:43 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:48:00 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 10:33:45 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:06:33 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
yes exactly they were bi-racial and portraying Black characters, so why couldn't this girl see herself as Black too is what Im saying and shes old enough to know that and have known it for years if shes 36
thats just not the same Ray
How was she to know they were biracial ? Lisa Bonets character was NOT portrayed as "hey although I am mixed I still identify with my Blackness ✊🏾 . I am STILL proud to be Black and acknowledge Black is part of my mixed identity."
If she was , I'd say that this woman had no excuse . But she wasn't .
Do u get what I'm saying?
I get what you're saying but whether or not she knew what their actual race was
she could see women who look like her identifying as Black and being accepted as Black
that would tell a child that even though shes bi-racial, there are Black ppl that look like her that she can identify with
then add on to this, she would have found out these women are really bi-racial by her teens or twenties
at 36 come on now is she living under a rock?
now see... look at what ur saying
Look at what I bolded.
How can actual race and family heritage not matter when we are discussing biracial identity ?
I think what ur referring to is the aesthetic.
Her being lighter skinned . What she sees with her eyes. Phenotype. And I get that.
Not true representation , which includes acknowledgement of being biracial. And the experience that comes with it.
If we are just gonna name light skinned people who were on TV that she could have looked to, then that's different . Cuz there are plenty of black people out there who are her skin tone and don't have much immediate mixture in their family - who have two AA parents and four AA grandparents.
But it has to go further than that. Look at how conflicted she is . And yes she's in her 30s but it's not uncommon for the struggles of childhood to linger well into someone's adulthood. She's now addressing it.
yea I get that there wasn't true representation, but it really all goes to just show that shes not really that different than a light skinned Black female, she seems to be getting it NOW but its weird that it took her this long.
I just dont see how you can feel so different than ppl who look like you? Even taking away the famous ppl
she was not the only light skin girl in her life, theres no way
but I digress however she got to this point, shes there so, kudos for that
Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
Light-skinned black folks are still having conversations about race. White people do not know how to have conversations about race. Then they are quick to alienate the mixed child as their "black relative". So their mixed-raced children grow up feeling as if they don't belong.
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Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
yes exactly they were bi-racial and portraying Black characters, so why couldn't this girl see herself as Black too is what Im saying and shes old enough to know that and have known it for years if shes 36
thats just not the same Ray
How was she to know they were biracial ? Lisa Bonets character was NOT portrayed as "hey although I am mixed I still identify with my Blackness ✊🏾 . I am STILL proud to be Black and acknowledge Black is part of my mixed identity."
If she was , I'd say that this woman had no excuse . But she wasn't .
Do u get what I'm saying?
I get what you're saying but whether or not she knew what their actual race was
she could see women who look like her identifying as Black and being accepted as Black
that would tell a child that even though shes bi-racial, there are Black ppl that look like her that she can identify with
then add on to this, she would have found out these women are really bi-racial by her teens or twenties
at 36 come on now is she living under a rock?
now see... look at what ur saying
Look at what I bolded.
How can actual race and family heritage not matter when we are discussing biracial identity ?
I think what ur referring to is the aesthetic.
Her being lighter skinned . What she sees with her eyes. Phenotype. And I get that.
Not true representation , which includes acknowledgement of being biracial. And the experience that comes with it.
If we are just gonna name light skinned people who were on TV that she could have looked to, then that's different . Cuz there are plenty of black people out there who are her skin tone and don't have much immediate mixture in their family - who have two AA parents and four AA grandparents.
But it has to go further than that. Look at how conflicted she is . And yes she's in her 30s but it's not uncommon for the struggles of childhood to linger well into someone's adulthood. She's now addressing it.
yea I get that there wasn't true representation, but it really all goes to just show that shes not really that different than a light skinned Black female, she seems to be getting it NOW but its weird that it took her this long.
I just dont see how you can feel so different than ppl who look like you? Even taking away the famous ppl
she was not the only light skin girl in her life, theres no way
but I digress however she got to this point, shes there so, kudos for that
ray that is kinda unfair
To say it's "weird" for her not to realize that she's not much different than a light skinned 100% AA girl , when she was raised by a White family
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Those are two totally different experiences
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Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
yes exactly they were bi-racial and portraying Black characters, so why couldn't this girl see herself as Black too is what Im saying and shes old enough to know that and have known it for years if shes 36
thats just not the same Ray
How was she to know they were biracial ? Lisa Bonets character was NOT portrayed as "hey although I am mixed I still identify with my Blackness ✊🏾 . I am STILL proud to be Black and acknowledge Black is part of my mixed identity."
If she was , I'd say that this woman had no excuse . But she wasn't .
Do u get what I'm saying?
I get what you're saying but whether or not she knew what their actual race was
she could see women who look like her identifying as Black and being accepted as Black
that would tell a child that even though shes bi-racial, there are Black ppl that look like her that she can identify with
then add on to this, she would have found out these women are really bi-racial by her teens or twenties
at 36 come on now is she living under a rock?
now see... look at what ur saying
Look at what I bolded.
How can actual race and family heritage not matter when we are discussing biracial identity ?
I think what ur referring to is the aesthetic.
Her being lighter skinned . What she sees with her eyes. Phenotype. And I get that.
Not true representation , which includes acknowledgement of being biracial. And the experience that comes with it.
If we are just gonna name light skinned people who were on TV that she could have looked to, then that's different . Cuz there are plenty of black people out there who are her skin tone and don't have much immediate mixture in their family - who have two AA parents and four AA grandparents.
But it has to go further than that. Look at how conflicted she is . And yes she's in her 30s but it's not uncommon for the struggles of childhood to linger well into someone's adulthood. She's now addressing it.
yea I get that there wasn't true representation, but it really all goes to just show that shes not really that different than a light skinned Black female, she seems to be getting it NOW but its weird that it took her this long.
I just dont see how you can feel so different than ppl who look like you? Even taking away the famous ppl
she was not the only light skin girl in her life, theres no way
but I digress however she got to this point, shes there so, kudos for that
ray that is kinda unfair
To say it's "weird" for her not to realize that she's not much different than a light skinned 100% AA girl , when she was raised by a White family
Nfnfnfnfnfnndnddn
Those are two totally different experiences
did she go to all white schools her entire life? work with only white co-workers? live in an only white neighborhood? Im sorry its weird to me how she somehow avoided seeing herself as Black or at least similar to Black
when she looks like that and lives in America
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Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
but the thing is, this girl has bi-racial cousinS plural so there's more than one Becky in the family smashing Blacks, if it even is a female it could be a white father
its not sounding like her white family is that harsh on dealing with Black ppl
I need to browse this girl's channel because this is not adding up
and if shes 30+ shes seen the Cosby Show with Lisa Bonet and the other girl portrayed as Black women with her same skin tone, then you have Sister Sister, A Different World, Tisha Campbell on Martin
there was plenty of women with her skin tone and overall look out there
youre referring to a bunch of women who were presented as 100% Black in those shows when they are not.
Lisa bonets parents and grandparents were All portrayed as Black in that Cosby show. Same for sister sister .
That's not speaking or touching on an experience. It's literally just taking mixed people and presenting them as 100% African American .
And a lot of people actually find an issue with that (erasure)...but that's a whole other conversation .
But there's a difference between just seeing someone who may look like you and having a conversation And experience touched on
yes exactly they were bi-racial and portraying Black characters, so why couldn't this girl see herself as Black too is what Im saying and shes old enough to know that and have known it for years if shes 36
thats just not the same Ray
How was she to know they were biracial ? Lisa Bonets character was NOT portrayed as "hey although I am mixed I still identify with my Blackness ✊🏾 . I am STILL proud to be Black and acknowledge Black is part of my mixed identity."
If she was , I'd say that this woman had no excuse . But she wasn't .
Do u get what I'm saying?
I get what you're saying but whether or not she knew what their actual race was
she could see women who look like her identifying as Black and being accepted as Black
that would tell a child that even though shes bi-racial, there are Black ppl that look like her that she can identify with
then add on to this, she would have found out these women are really bi-racial by her teens or twenties
at 36 come on now is she living under a rock?
now see... look at what ur saying
Look at what I bolded.
How can actual race and family heritage not matter when we are discussing biracial identity ?
I think what ur referring to is the aesthetic.
Her being lighter skinned . What she sees with her eyes. Phenotype. And I get that.
Not true representation , which includes acknowledgement of being biracial. And the experience that comes with it.
If we are just gonna name light skinned people who were on TV that she could have looked to, then that's different . Cuz there are plenty of black people out there who are her skin tone and don't have much immediate mixture in their family - who have two AA parents and four AA grandparents.
But it has to go further than that. Look at how conflicted she is . And yes she's in her 30s but it's not uncommon for the struggles of childhood to linger well into someone's adulthood. She's now addressing it.
yea I get that there wasn't true representation, but it really all goes to just show that shes not really that different than a light skinned Black female, she seems to be getting it NOW but its weird that it took her this long.
I just dont see how you can feel so different than ppl who look like you? Even taking away the famous ppl
she was not the only light skin girl in her life, theres no way
but I digress however she got to this point, shes there so, kudos for that
ray that is kinda unfair
To say it's "weird" for her not to realize that she's not much different than a light skinned 100% AA girl , when she was raised by a White family
Nfnfnfnfnfnndnddn
Those are two totally different experiences
did she go to all white schools her entire life? work with only white co-workers? live in an only white neighborhood? Im sorry its weird to me how she somehow avoided seeing herself as Black or at least similar to Black
when she looks like that and lives in America
i think it's safe to answer YES to at least two of those questions u asked if she was raised by White people luv
And it's not very weird considering that she admitted experiencing hints of racism in her family . Shes being open with her experience and admitting that her family did not really embrace her blackness .
I think it makes a lot of sense that she has issues : I mean just by the way she speaks (not just using "proper" language but her entire demeanor and accent), you can tell she's been heavily influenced by whiteness. So I believe her
I'll say this:
Chasing behind Black dick doesn't make you any less racist. White women are famous for fucking Black men just to spite their racist daddies. Once said nigga leaves Becky to raise the baby on her own, that's when shit starts to get murky. Most biracial people I've met had similar experiences/upbringings.
Quote from: bby ddy on February 04, 2021, 01:15:42 PM
I'll say this:
Chasing behind Black dick doesn't make you any less racist. White women are famous for fucking Black men just to spite their racist daddies. Once said nigga leaves Becky to raise the baby on her own, that's when shit starts to get murky. Most biracial people I've met had similar experiences/upbringings.
nffnnf
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I'm sure plenty of people think Keke Wyatt is "weird" af for that mess she pulled but I mean look at her mother
Some crazy Becky running around with hoop earrings , rolling her neck , calling her Black kids niggas
Cnnfnfnfnfnfnf
If we didn't have that footage and receipts on keke's mother we'd just assume Keke just put all this stuff in her own mind and was crazy for no reason
I was surprised as hell at keke's interview that was posted with her saying that Black is the SMALLLEST part of who she is, while everything else is Indian and White
like... Keke ? How could she feel this way when she's been so Black her entire career. Her music , energy, etc
but after seeing clips of her white mother it made sense . A woman who does not identify with being Black but loves giving a "Black" vibe . acting ghetto and mess .
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waitin for king to back tf down :trannyjblige:
these fkn pinstriped paragraphs everywhere :uhh:
give it a fkn REST
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 01:22:59 PM
Quote from: bby ddy on February 04, 2021, 01:15:42 PM
I'll say this:
Chasing behind Black dick doesn't make you any less racist. White women are famous for fucking Black men just to spite their racist daddies. Once said nigga leaves Becky to raise the baby on her own, that's when shit starts to get murky. Most biracial people I've met had similar experiences/upbringings.
nffnnf
!!!
I'm sure plenty of people think Keke Wyatt is "weird" af for that mess she pulled but I mean look at her mother
Some crazy Becky running around with hoop earrings , rolling her neck , calling her Black kids niggas
Cnnfnfnfnfnfnf
If we didn't have that footage and receipts on keke's mother we'd just assume Keke just put all this stuff in her own mind and was crazy for no reason
KeKe needs to have several seats because...
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these fkn pinstriped paragraphs everywhere :uhh:
give it a fkn REST
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Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 01:22:59 PM
Quote from: bby ddy on February 04, 2021, 01:15:42 PM
I'll say this:
Chasing behind Black dick doesn't make you any less racist. White women are famous for fucking Black men just to spite their racist daddies. Once said nigga leaves Becky to raise the baby on her own, that's when shit starts to get murky. Most biracial people I've met had similar experiences/upbringings.
nffnnf
!!!
I'm sure plenty of people think Keke Wyatt is "weird" af for that mess she pulled but I mean look at her mother
Some crazy Becky running around with hoop earrings , rolling her neck , calling her Black kids niggas
Cnnfnfnfnfnfnf
If we didn't have that footage and receipts on keke's mother we'd just assume Keke just put all this stuff in her own mind and was crazy for no reason
KeKe needs to have several seats because...
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yea nobody is asking that, what it is
actually, they might but not how she's sayin it
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Quote from: RAY7 on February 04, 2021, 09:51:04 AM
Im trying to understand how a person like her really couldnt identify with Blackness through her life
there's plenty of light-skin non bi-racial ppl out there that look like her. Was her white parent brainwashing her?
She has bi-racial cousins too, so Im doubtful that the white ppl in her family are very openly racist cus clearly there's more than one of them making Black kids
hmmm
!!!
It's def some racism
And it makes sense . Just because Becky decided to let dayquan cum inside of her doesn't mean everyone in beckys family is gonna welcome the bvy with open arms and embrace her
And we have to take this woman's age into consideration as well. She's in her mid 30s , which means she did not grow up in the era where shows and representation like "mixed ish" existed . She wasn't able to perch in front of youtube and watch people talk about the stuff she is tackling
It's super important for people to see those who look like them and that they can relate to. Especially if those people represent the inherent racial diversity they have.
Not watching but if she is British I can believe some of her plight. In the UK you see dumb racist bitches taking BBC all the time. I wouldn't be surprised at all if her own mother was racist.