Yea, I?m not sure what to do. My lease ends in March and we set on moving together. Though, I can save more money with a roommate...I?m thinking it may not be a good idea because I?m afraid I can?t put my feelings aside. On top of that, he has a girlfriend. He says he doesn?t see himsef marrying her but then again he spends a lot of time with her and her kid. Then comes to spend time with me, I feel like he?s trying to balance us both. This will be his first time moving out on his own from his parents place. Do you all think he?s trying to convince me he waits to be with me in the long run or he?s just using me? He?s dead set on getting the apt then eventually getting a house. In a way I feel like he?s trying to convince me he?s serious about me but my reservation he?s confused about if he wants to be fully authentic with his life. Should I play it by ear?