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[Vonc2002]

But at the same time.... idk. I have a tendency to just silently remove myself from friendships without explanation. People think that's childish/toxic because you don't give the other person an opportunity to be aware and change...

But I know myself... and it takes a lot for me to get mad... so if I'm at the point where I'm ready to detach from you, there's really no resolution. I'm done.

Mfs know what tf they did.  I have done it both ways. Im confrontational so I definitely have no issue letting someone know why I feel wronged but sometimes I don't fckn feel like it.  U know what u did and I ain't fckn EXPLAINING it

[𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉]

But at the same time.... idk. I have a tendency to just silently remove myself from friendships without explanation. People think that's childish/toxic because you don't give the other person an opportunity to be aware and change...

But I know myself... and it takes a lot for me to get mad... so if I'm at the point where I'm ready to detach from you, there's really no resolution. I'm done.

Mfs know what tf they did.  I have done it both ways. Im confrontational so I definitely have no issue letting someone know why I feel wronged but sometimes I don't fckn feel like it.  U know what u did and I ain't fckn EXPLAINING it

Are you sure? Lots of ppl aren't able to self reflect. And I don't have the energy to tell someone that they fucked up.
I've dealt with a narcissistic close friend for 10 years, but I'm so happy now without that person.

[Vonc2002]

But at the same time.... idk. I have a tendency to just silently remove myself from friendships without explanation. People think that's childish/toxic because you don't give the other person an opportunity to be aware and change...

But I know myself... and it takes a lot for me to get mad... so if I'm at the point where I'm ready to detach from you, there's really no resolution. I'm done.

Mfs know what tf they did.  I have done it both ways. Im confrontational so I definitely have no issue letting someone know why I feel wronged but sometimes I don't fckn feel like it.  U know what u did and I ain't fckn EXPLAINING it

Are you sure? Lots of ppl aren't able to self reflect. And I don't have the energy to tell someone that they fucked up.
I've dealt with a narcissistic close friend for 10 years, but I'm so happy now without that person.

U know what,  that's fair.  I just feel like if we were good and then all of a sudden we weren't,  you should be able to infer sum shit. Sometimes I don't feel like explaining some shit to a grown mf.

[FUCK Bey]

But at the same time.... idk. I have a tendency to just silently remove myself from friendships without explanation. People think that's childish/toxic because you don't give the other person an opportunity to be aware and change...

But I know myself... and it takes a lot for me to get mad... so if I'm at the point where I'm ready to detach from you, there's really no resolution. I'm done.

Mfs know what tf they did.  I have done it both ways. Im confrontational so I definitely have no issue letting someone know why I feel wronged but sometimes I don't fckn feel like it.  U know what u did and I ain't fckn EXPLAINING it

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You know what you did. And if you don't, that's more of a reason for me to get the fuck on. We're not children. I'm not teaching anyone how to be a good friend to me.

[FUCK Bey]

And I'm not really a confrontational person. But if I DO choose to confront an issue with you, it usually means I'm very on edge. So you just better be careful and just listen....

cuz I can turn into Porsha real quick.

[ATLien]

I'm generally a very empathetic person and I am literally ALWAYS seeing things from more than one point of view or angle .

I try to be reasonable as possible and consider everything I know about someone before drawing conclusions. Or even consider things that I may NOT know before drawing conclusions  or "taking sides"..... even when it's behavior that I am strongly against or personally offended by.

I'm a neutral ass bitch.

So if I'm at a point where im ready to just stop contact with you, you have to be like .. on some BEYOND next level type shit. Just completely past the point of me being able to rationalize or understand or explain or give you some sort of pass on your behavior and/or attitude .

It's very rare that I simply cannot understand where someone is coming from.

[Eh...]

I cut off one of my best friends for about 16 around Thanksgiving last year... It's weird but I felt it was best.

It's crazy bc I have literally cut no one out my life ever, I always just let them leave or stop talking/hanging with them that much but never block them

[CHOKE]

It felt good tbh

There were times I would type out how I really felt but then erase it and post a gif or some but this time I told sis she was outta line and it was over

[klappa.]

We both indirectly shade each other

She'll send me a pic of her funny looking bby and I'll reply asking what I should eat for dinner without acknowledging it

She'll bring up embarrassing mess that happened at a party and I'll kii like I don't hate her for bringing it up

But that mess weighs on u after a while and she recently took it too far

u sound very passive aggressive bby

i think THAT needs to addressed first. start communicating what upsets you. only then can you more accurately guage how important your feelings are to this person. but if you kii at her mess you make her think its okay to bring up, so you cant really be mad at her if she don't know u actually hate it.

[CHOKE]

I did communicate OPH that's the whole point 

Either agree with me or get OWT

[klappa.]

I did communicate OPH that's the whole point 

Either agree with me or get OWT

vvvvvvccccccv u didn't say that at all FAGGOT

She'll bring up embarrassing mess that happened at a party and I'll kii like I don't hate her for bringing it up

[FUCK Bey]

Either agree with me or get OWT

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are you Porsha?

[Purple Moon]

Its been 3 months of no contact for me. It was a very dear friend of mine, best friend for the past couple of years. But I was betrayed and hurt in ways that I couldn't easily get over. In the end everything pointed to narcissism and according to experts, no contact seems to be the only healthy thing to do, although we had plenty of good times and (what i thought was) a meaningful connection.  Part of me wants to contact that person again but I know all the progress I made would be meaningless then.

[ATLien]

If bad far outweighs the good it's best to keep it pushing 

[𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉]

Its been 3 months of no contact for me. It was a very dear friend of mine, best friend for the past couple of years. But I was betrayed and hurt in ways that I couldn't easily get over. In the end everything pointed to narcissism and according to experts, no contact seems to be the only healthy thing to do, although we had plenty of good times and (what i thought was) a meaningful connection.  Part of me wants to contact that person again but I know all the progress I made would be meaningless then.

I feel you. Humans are really trash sometimes.