i just think tamar may have been babied too much by them
she def has that youngest sibling/family member syndrome
that "baby of the family" tea
shes used to getting away with certain things, and being handled with kiddy gloves
so when she's actually held accountable, she's taken aback a bit.
sfsffsfssf
like how can be she be in the wrong? surely it's everyone else ganging up on her just for the hell of it.
i stopped calling my bvy sis "the baby of the family" and all that mess for that very reason.
i show her a lot of tough love these days when she needs it, and telling her "no" a lot more often .
goddess was def like

when i first started implementing it
but a light bulb went off for her once she got a huge promotion at her job. she thanked me for pushing her.
thankfully it didn't take her a whole decade for her to GET it.