Quote from: Scott. on March 14, 2022, 04:51:27 PM
Quote from: ophelia_b on March 14, 2022, 03:34:21 PM
it is hard to get over the past, but the issue wasnt a matter of them still treating her any certain way. again, i think her issue was resentment stemming from them moving on with their careers. thats the root of the tension. and we saw the way traci would act out on the show with our own eyes. imagine dealing with YEARS of that. their treatment of her was a result of her behavior and that behavior was rooted in her resentment.
I don't think anyone is denying the fact that she had resentment towards them for moving forward in their careers without her. But it also doesn't negate the fact that she was treated a certain way. It was plain to see, especially in their actions. So no I don't think she was victimizing herself and I don't think she had the attitude she had for no reason. They did treat her differently than they treated each other.
It's easy for the person whose making you a feel a way to tell you get over it, because it's not them on the receiving end. And BESIDES the record deal, like someone else, the parents divorce plays a part as well as the fact that she was the odd one. She didn't fit in with the rest of them. She was an outcast.
im not saying it negates at all, i agree it doesnt. but they got their record contract when they were YOUNG af. we could see the resentment still present on the show, so you KNOW back them she was feeling some type of way even heavier and im sure thats when the division started. the girls were away so i kinda understand WHY she felt left out, but it wasnt their fault. yall keep talking about what traci had to deal with all those years, but not acknowledging the way traci was prob ACTING all those years and what the SISTERS had to deal with, and the show gives us a pretty good idea of what that was prob like. the mere fact that they moved on in their careers is what i think made her feel left out. and she definitely leaned into that identity imo. trina's wedding is a PRIME example of this. and then she lied to her therapist and said she SAW the girls laughing at her. again, leaning into that victim role. i was actually rooting for traci, but gotta keep it real.
