As I mentioned earlier in this thread, it's clear Kelly has seen and heard a lot regarding her existence as a Black large woman that she's internalized
these stories aren't really surprising.
a lot of these men were simply saying out loud what a lot of people do passively.
i just want kwee to make sure she's sharing and talking to people who can actually give her useful tools (professionals), in addition to sharing her stories with those who can do nothing more than just listen and provide and insert a "mmmm hmmm" or "oh no they didn't!" here and there.
on the flip side....many times people who actually promote a lot of the toxicity against unambiguous Black women (or excuse/ignore it) are the same ones who will negatively and unproductively psychoanalyze them when they find these women showing signs of an internalized tea.
if you're not part of a solution you're part of the problem.
