Quote from: with love, Glock on February 26, 2016, 02:23:13 PM
i am madly in love with my dude..
but i feel like one of my friends might be my soul mate..
we can talk on the phone for hours and be ourselves around each other. and i feel something for him thats unexplainable..
we have done anything or crossed the line.. but we both know that we feel this way about each other..
my heart races when im around shorty..
i look at him and want the best for him and see the best in him...
and hes such a man-whore... But hes such a great guy and lights something inside of me that ive never felt before..
its a deep thing.. something beyond the surface
this is really taken the life out of me..because i love my dude so much and hes a great guy..
but the connection is just not the same like the one with my friend...
we text all day long.. about life and just all kinds of shit...
and i think ive fallen in love with him...
but im still in love with my dude!
i feel like SHIT!
and i feel like a horrible person
its absolutely possible to love two people, but when that happens, there's ALWAYS a stronger PULL toward one or the other. If you both feel this way, then its time to have a conversation.
Loving someone and being IN love are two separate things. Don't deprive yourself of something so special just because you dont wanna hurt this man that you care for. If you really love him, then you need to let him go find someone that feels the way you feel about your friend. Its not fair to you or
him to just stick with what's comfortable or the norm for appearances or to save face
go with how you feel and what ur heart and mind is telling you to do. He'll be hurt but he'll appreciate you a LOT more in the future for being honest, allowing him to find his true love, instead of cheating on him or betraying his trust. You haven't done anything wrong yet, but you would be if you ignored this feeling.