How do you know someone is your soulmate? And can you have more than one?

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tigernathan

Quote from: Young on February 26, 2016, 09:06:05 PM
Yeah someone who is a twin flame doesn't necessarily complete you. Yet there is a profound connection.

However when talking about SoulMATES, we break down the word mate and realize that this is a word that discusses duality, and two joining. Meaning they are meant for each other. They complete each other now by being two things now described as one.

The several thing you all are talking about are members of your soul group and or kindred spirits. People who mean something profoundly to you. You help them spiritually and likewise maybe but not necessarily COMPLETE each other.

Two very different things. There's only one yin to your yang in a lifetime.

A mate can be a friend though and it doesn't mean they're meant to be for each other. A soulmate can be in and out of your life but the difference is that they leave an impression.

http://www.psychicsuniverse.com/articles/love-relationships/relationships/marriage/soulmates-vs-twin


Ulysses

Only one.

SoulmatE not soulmateS.

There is only 1 that can truly capture you and be your equal because every one else after shouldn't even matter.

So in other words, whoever you THOUGHT was your "soulmate" obviously WASN'T your soulmate. I have mine and nobody else even exists to me.



RekeRig

Quote from: with love, Glock on February 26, 2016, 02:23:13 PM
i am madly in love with my dude..
but i feel like one of my friends might be my soul mate..
we can talk on the phone for hours and be ourselves around each other. and i feel something for him thats unexplainable..
we have done anything or crossed the line.. but we both know that we feel this way about each other..
my heart races when im around shorty..
i look at him and want the best for him and see the best in him...
and hes such a man-whore... But hes such a great guy and lights something inside of me that ive never felt before..
its a deep thing.. something beyond the surface


this is really taken the life out of me..because i love my dude so much and hes a great guy..
but the connection is just not the same like the one with my friend...
we text all day long.. about life and just all kinds of shit...
and i think ive fallen in love with him...


but im still in love with my dude!

i feel like SHIT!
and i feel like a horrible person
its absolutely possible to love two people, but when that happens, there's ALWAYS a stronger PULL toward one or the other. If you both feel this way, then its time to have a conversation.

Loving someone and being IN love are two separate things. Don't deprive yourself of something so special just because you dont wanna hurt this man that you care for. If you really love him, then you need to let him go find someone that feels the way you feel about your friend. Its not fair to you or him to just stick with what's comfortable or the norm for appearances or to save face

go with how you feel and what ur heart and mind is telling you to do. He'll be hurt but he'll appreciate you a LOT more in the future for being honest, allowing him to find his true love, instead of cheating on him or betraying his trust. You haven't done anything wrong yet, but you would be if you ignored this feeling.

RekeRig

Quote from: Scott. on February 26, 2016, 02:33:51 PM
Quote from: Young on February 26, 2016, 02:26:57 PM
Quote from: Scott. on February 26, 2016, 02:24:17 PM
Awww Young.

I wish I could find a love like that.

You will love. Know that. You're amazing. Just trust God and let him have his way in your life.
Your steps have already been ordered. <3

I don't believe it at all. But I would hope so.
You're extremely young and have so much life in front of you and more of the world to see. Trust, you haven't even scratched the surface of all the potential for ur life, in terms of love and outside of that. I know you've been through a lot but there's still so much more to experience




Herb.


Kurama

Quote from: gudit on February 26, 2016, 08:56:40 PM
Some of you are describing a Twin Flame, not soulmate.

There's no limit to the number of soulmates one can have. They can be a friend or lover but they're people who help you grow spiritually and mentally.

We all only have one Twin Flame.

:usuresis:

BigDawg

Quote from: Young on February 26, 2016, 02:38:21 PM
Glock sometimes you have already found your soulmate but you guys just arent meant to be together in life yet.
Sometimes we are prepared enough in life and the soulmate is always there as a constant reminder of what you truly want subconsciously. however they for whatever reason arent with you because certain things may not yet be in order with your or their life. Some people go to the grave never knowing their soul mate was actually the best friend they had for many years because they never confessed their love for that person. They weren't sure enough in that love they had  for that person. and because they didnt reach for the love they really wanted they missed out.
YOUNG, BIT


GLOCK

Quote from: RIG on February 27, 2016, 05:05:22 AM
Quote from: with love, Glock on February 26, 2016, 02:23:13 PM
i am madly in love with my dude..
but i feel like one of my friends might be my soul mate..
we can talk on the phone for hours and be ourselves around each other. and i feel something for him thats unexplainable..
we have done anything or crossed the line.. but we both know that we feel this way about each other..
my heart races when im around shorty..
i look at him and want the best for him and see the best in him...
and hes such a man-whore... But hes such a great guy and lights something inside of me that ive never felt before..
its a deep thing.. something beyond the surface


this is really taken the life out of me..because i love my dude so much and hes a great guy..
but the connection is just not the same like the one with my friend...
we text all day long.. about life and just all kinds of shit...
and i think ive fallen in love with him...


but im still in love with my dude!

i feel like SHIT!
and i feel like a horrible person
its absolutely possible to love two people, but when that happens, there's ALWAYS a stronger PULL toward one or the other. If you both feel this way, then its time to have a conversation.

Loving someone and being IN love are two separate things. Don't deprive yourself of something so special just because you dont wanna hurt this man that you care for. If you really love him, then you need to let him go find someone that feels the way you feel about your friend. Its not fair to you or him to just stick with what's comfortable or the norm for appearances or to save face

go with how you feel and what ur heart and mind is telling you to do. He'll be hurt but he'll appreciate you a LOT more in the future for being honest, allowing him to find his true love, instead of cheating on him or betraying his trust. You haven't done anything wrong yet, but you would be if you ignored this feeling.
Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmf

:loose2when:

BigDawg

GODRig is right. Dont deny yourself the chance of a lifetime bby.