Serious topic: How do you feel about this? and is this Okay?

Started by BrokenHeartsHeal, May 05, 2016, 01:29:36 AM

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Kurama

Quote from: Boomer on May 05, 2016, 01:36:10 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:24:56 PM
Quote from: Boomer on May 05, 2016, 01:02:45 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 01:00:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:56:23 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
The alternative is much worse for them. .

What's the alternative?

To not be adopted at all, to be in foster care and get shuffled from home to home, to watch other kids get adopted while they slowly feel unwanted and unworthy and just plain LESS THAN. That's the real alternative.

And that's the reality a lot black children in the system live.

There are actually more white children in foster care than Black children.

Also, its less expensive to adopt a black child opposed to a white one.

Just throwing this out there a bit.

I didn't know that. But it makes sense because there's more white people in America.

The second part made my stomach drop. You don't think thats because its hard to get people to adopt black children?

No I agree with your point but I think the reasons its so difficult is because of stereotypes and the disparities for Black children to be placed into foster care more often.


Kurama

Quote from: BENTLEY! on May 05, 2016, 01:38:11 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:54:21 PM
Aside from them looking creepy I dont see an iss'
!!!!!!

it looks creepy, but I can't find anything to gripe about :dead:

I mean ... if anything MAYBE the lil boy GRABBING their faces and pushing them together

BUT even that view, we as adults FORCE sexualized things on children, and what is innocent to them seems dirty to us, like when Janet's nipple popped out and ppl were saying their children were RUINED... like ... why would seeing a titty ruin your child? what are you teaching them about titties?! :uhh:

and I'm glad I caught myself after reading the comments, because the kids are really surrounded by love
bb


Yeah Bent people in western society sexualize everything. It's sad sometimes


yummy

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 12:46:21 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 12:05:37 PM
oh wait

maybe the kids are siblings. the little boy and girl look alike
This EXACTLY what i was thinking but
ACCESSORIES

Well, I said what I said and I ain't changing it, ya blue black hoodlum.


One Of Those Nights.

Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 04:20:23 AM
My only concern with any race adopting kids from another race is "Are the kids learning about and being exposed to their culture" because IMO that's very important and has a lot to do with self love. The kids know these guys love them but are the kids making strides to love themselves!

I would never adopt a Asian baby and only expose them to things I'm culturally familiar or comfortable with. We would learn about Asia together maybe even take a trip there. I would find some old Asian lady who I could befriend and ask her questions about Asian family dynamics and traditions. I wouldnt want kid idolizing black people simply because they are different and that's all they know.

Then your ass should adopt these children so u can stop bitching.

Be happy they have a nicer home than you instead of in a cold system that treats them like they ain't shit.

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: One Of Those Nights. on May 05, 2016, 01:47:12 PM
Quote from: Herbie's Podcast on May 05, 2016, 02:01:24 AM
They throw the black kids to the gay couples. Like they're leftovers or something.

There are more AA children in the foster system up for adoption. It easier to adopt them because there are more to adopt.

V

Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:24:56 PM

There are actually more white children in foster care than Black children.

Also, its less expensive to adopt a black child opposed to a white one.

Just throwing this out there a bit.

:usureuok: so whats the truth here


One Of Those Nights.

Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 06:03:36 AM
I don't like the idea of white people adopting black children and using them as an accessory.

WTF

It's easier to adopt black children because more are available for adoption. It was already hard for them I'm sure cause they are a gay couple.

What a dumb fucking comment.

Earings! Accessories! Purses!

Dummy

One Of Those Nights.

Quote from: GoDiegoGo on May 05, 2016, 06:49:47 AM
They have a beautiful family. This couple did what most people, no matter what race, would never do?take in someone else's children to raise as their own. Some of y'all can't even raise a bar of soap to clean your asses. Good for them.

!!!

Kurama

 Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)

Who are the 415,129 foster children?

Sex

Age

Race

52% male
48% female

39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old

2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races


:receipts:

yummy


One Of Those Nights.

Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:41:56 AM
But this is such a touchy topic. Yes it's a family and there seems to be love amount the parents but part of me feels like that lil boy smudging their heads together is gonna turn out gay by what he's being exposed to. He may just go to school and try to kiss Tommy! It's just my opinionata. Not that you shouldn't show affection but it's such a young age. But then again u would not want ya child to grow up and u spring your gayness on them. It's hard  :stressed:

You do know people can't be convinced to become gay. You are born gay or you aren't. It isn't some club you can join after seeing two men kiss.

SMH

One Of Those Nights.

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 09:30:26 AM
Quote from: Stewie on May 05, 2016, 09:29:24 AM
mmmm

if this were a man and woman everyone would be like 'so cute...aww adorable!'

so the way you guys reacting right now is a sign of self hate and shame about being a fag
!!!!!!!!!!! :plzstop:

!!!

SUPREME

Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)

Who are the 415,129 foster children?

Sex

Age

Race

52% male
48% female

39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old

2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races


:receipts:
:omgwatshappening:

Where are your receipts One of those nights

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)

Who are the 415,129 foster children?

Sex

Age

Race

52% male
48% female

39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old

2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races


:receipts:

It would appear One of Those Nights is misinformed.