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[Gilgamesh.]

Not trying to a debate but the whole point of a relationship is to find someone that completes you, so I don't think you have to embody all the qualities you're looking for in a mate. That's how I feel about it anyway.

I don't like the idea of someone else having to complete me.

Does that mean I'm inadequate or less than when I'm not in a relationship?

No, i'm very comfortable being single, probably too comfortable 

But you don't get in a relationship to be with another version of yourself. Or do u?

[Kurama]

Not trying to a debate but the whole point of a relationship is to find someone that completes you, so I don't think you have to embody all the qualities you're looking for in a mate. That's how I feel about it anyway.

I don't like the idea of someone else having to complete me.

Does that mean I'm inadequate or less than when I'm not in a relationship?

Agreed. I think two complete individuals coming together Is the point of a relationship. Too many people waiting for someone to come along to validate their existence romantically and it keeps them from doing it themselves imo.

[GLOCK]

I actually would date myself..
I want to know what it feels like..
What about me that would annoy me or get on my nerves!!
I want to know what about me would be a deal breaker for me.. Hmm

[Real]

I really enjoy someone that knows how to communicate and be vulnerable

ddddd @ these being my biggest problem in EVERY relationship

It really is!
It's sad.. As a Capricorn I use to struggle with these things but as I gotten older I've come into my own..
My dude really lacks these things.. He's such a work in progress tho.
Really enjoying his growth as of late..
He kinda cried to me A couple days back saying he fears me leaving him
I was like
But deep inside I was like 

I just don't like to talk tbh. I mean, if you give me some kinda topic  music, sports, politics, etc. I can go all day. But to sit and talk about my personal thoughts and feelings and shit like that  Or if I'm upset or frustrated or just not having a good day, I don't wanna discuss it. I don't need the help or to vent. Don't understand why that's so hard.

Fuck this country TBH ...
But yes... I don't like to vent at all ..
But I have learned that telling someone how I feel about them increases our chances In a relationship..
Cuz I hate to argue and I feel that being silent about issues or problems end in a huge mess smh

That's kinda my issue. I don't like to argue at all. So if we disagree, I'll explain my position...once. If you don't understand it, then we can just agree to disagree or just let the shit play out on its own. Or hell, break up. But I'm not gonna keep sitting and talking about it. That's when I just shut down and you get nothing.

[yummy]

Not trying to a debate but the whole point of a relationship is to find someone that completes you, so I don't think you have to embody all the qualities you're looking for in a mate. That's how I feel about it anyway.

I don't like the idea of someone else having to complete me.

Does that mean I'm inadequate or less than when I'm not in a relationship?

No.
But are u against someone adding to what you have to offer?
Are u against growth?
That's when you're inadequate

I think any great relationship can help your growth as a person, but I don't see that as completion or someone making me whole.

Happiness and support are always welcome but it doesn't have to come a from a lover.

[Real]

Yeah I feel it's more about complimenting than completing.

[Kurama]

I actually would date myself..
I want to know what it feels like..
What about me that would annoy me or get on my nerves!!
I want to know what about me would be a deal breaker for me.. Hmm

Yeah, whew!

[Vonc2002]

I really enjoy someone that knows how to communicate and be vulnerable

ddddd @ these being my biggest problem in EVERY relationship

It really is!
It's sad.. As a Capricorn I use to struggle with these things but as I gotten older I've come into my own..
My dude really lacks these things.. He's such a work in progress tho.
Really enjoying his growth as of late..
He kinda cried to me A couple days back saying he fears me leaving him
I was like
But deep inside I was like 

I recognize this in both of u btw, my 2 cents. BYE, lol

I'm sorta perfect FAGG
And I doubt that you'd know how to be vulnerable even it came with a chance to clear those felonies off ur record

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I dont have an issue communicating and being "vulnerable". Im actually a GREAT communicator

V

I said being vulnerable FAGG..
U always try to carry this hard ghetto ass exterior when inside ur sweet as pie LaRay..
You need to work on being more vulnerable IMHOF (in my honest opinion faggot)

Ur a walking time bomb so of course u know how to communicate .. And drive a point to the ground!

fag, vulnerable is there, READ! "Ghetto" and "hard" is this perception u paint of me and not at all my reality. I have no problem with any of that. Im definitely stubborn and can be very strong willed but when I feel a way, good, bad, or indifferent, I have no issue with sharing that

[Real]

I actually would date myself..
I want to know what it feels like..
What about me that would annoy me or get on my nerves!!
I want to know what about me would be a deal breaker for me.. Hmm

I'm VERY difficult to date and I accept it 

[GLOCK]

I really enjoy someone that knows how to communicate and be vulnerable

ddddd @ these being my biggest problem in EVERY relationship

It really is!
It's sad.. As a Capricorn I use to struggle with these things but as I gotten older I've come into my own..
My dude really lacks these things.. He's such a work in progress tho.
Really enjoying his growth as of late..
He kinda cried to me A couple days back saying he fears me leaving him
I was like
But deep inside I was like 

I just don't like to talk tbh. I mean, if you give me some kinda topic  music, sports, politics, etc. I can go all day. But to sit and talk about my personal thoughts and feelings and shit like that  Or if I'm upset or frustrated or just not having a good day, I don't wanna discuss it. I don't need the help or to vent. Don't understand why that's so hard.

Fuck this country TBH ...
But yes... I don't like to vent at all ..
But I have learned that telling someone how I feel about them increases our chances In a relationship..
Cuz I hate to argue and I feel that being silent about issues or problems end in a huge mess smh

That's kinda my issue. I don't like to argue at all. So if we disagree, I'll explain my position...once. If you don't understand it, then we can just agree to disagree or just let the shit play out on its own. Or hell, break up. But I'm not gonna keep sitting and talking about it. That's when I just shut down and you get nothing.

!

Ch.. Honestly I be ready to just dump and press the fuck on..
And it never takes me a long time to get over anyone..
I'm a little to aggressive tho..
as much as I hate arguing I can understand how my lawyer-like approach can start some arguments that ensue
I'm kinda always right and I'll stop talking to u or communicating until you admit that I'm RIGHT and ur wrong!

I need to work on this .. Well I'm actually working on it..

How are u when u know ur right and someone is lying or wrong? How do u handle it? 

[GLOCK]

I actually would date myself..
I want to know what it feels like..
What about me that would annoy me or get on my nerves!!
I want to know what about me would be a deal breaker for me.. Hmm

I'm VERY difficult to date and I accept it 

what makes u difficult?

[yummy]

Not trying to a debate but the whole point of a relationship is to find someone that completes you, so I don't think you have to embody all the qualities you're looking for in a mate. That's how I feel about it anyway.

I don't like the idea of someone else having to complete me.

Does that mean I'm inadequate or less than when I'm not in a relationship?

No, i'm very comfortable being single, probably too comfortable 

But you don't get in a relationship to be with another version of yourself. Or do u?

I want happiness and endless support from my partner.

The whole idea of needing someone to complete me sounds kinda fairytaleish, no shade. And that's a lot of pressure to put on someone.

[Vonc2002]

I actually would date myself..
I want to know what it feels like..
What about me that would annoy me or get on my nerves!!
I want to know what about me would be a deal breaker for me.. Hmm

I'm VERY difficult to date and I accept it 

what makes u difficult?

He's a terrible person, thats all

[Kurama]

C

Boiii shush

[yummy]

Yeah I feel it's more about complimenting than completing.