Do you just settle to avoid being alone?

Started by BAPHOMET., July 19, 2016, 05:11:06 PM

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BAPHOMET.

I will say I dont expect someone to give me what im not willing to give.

But giving me less than what I give is a BIG NO.


4 fucking k

I could never. I see so many who do and they're miserable.


Glenda

Nope. Haven't done it yet and will continue not to do so.

GRAND

I know a very sweet girl who I think has settled because they have a baby now

But he's cheated and he refuses to give her a ring. And he's unemployed.

I'm trying to get her to cheat. :bvy:

Boomz

Quote from: GRAND on July 19, 2016, 05:31:20 PM
I know a very sweet girl who I think has settled because they have a baby now

But he's cheated and he refuses to give her a ring. And he's unemployed.

I'm trying to get her to cheat. :bvy:
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:omgwatshappening:

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: GRAND on July 19, 2016, 05:31:20 PM
I know a very sweet girl who I think has settled because they have a baby now

But he's cheated and he refuses to give her a ring. And he's unemployed.

I'm trying to get her to cheat. :bvy:

:rudone: Not him being unemployed and a cheater too.


b7

Quote from: Kurama on July 19, 2016, 05:23:27 PM
Im fully okay with being alone. I enjoy it most times.


I don't think I settle, I am flexible though. Allowing for people to have room for growth rather than demanding they be all I want in a boyfriend immediately.
wow wow wow

Yea lolz

BAPHOMET.

makes sense that he cant give her a ring tho'. He's fucking BROKE


Zankou.


Boomz

Quote from: RIGGY on July 19, 2016, 05:24:46 PM
Quote from: Boomer on July 19, 2016, 05:21:40 PM
Quote from: Jonovan on July 19, 2016, 05:16:37 PM
i feel like everyone has to do that at some point.
n

Nah. We all have to realize that there will be things about someone that we don't always like, but "settling" suggests something else entirely, and I'm never doing it lol
;

Even if you're in your late 40's, early 50's and still haven't found what you are looking for?

Shit, at that point...if you are sane, have a 401K & a clean bill of health...I'll take it. I don't have to be in love or even find you cute.  :kii:

I'm okay with being alone now (in fact I prefer it @ this age) but when I enter that age bracket I can't imagine still being alone.

Glenda

Quote from: RIGGY on July 19, 2016, 05:33:19 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 19, 2016, 05:23:27 PM
Im fully okay with being alone. I enjoy it most times.


I don't think I settle, I am flexible though. Allowing for people to have room for growth rather than demanding they be all I want in a boyfriend immediately.
wow wow wow

Yea lolz

!!!! That's the space I'm in now.

Gotta allow people to do their own thang.  :ohwow:

b7

July 19, 2016, 05:36:17 PM #26 Last Edit: July 19, 2016, 05:36:38 PM by RIGGY
Quote from: Boomer on July 19, 2016, 05:34:25 PM
Quote from: RIGGY on July 19, 2016, 05:24:46 PM
Quote from: Boomer on July 19, 2016, 05:21:40 PM
Quote from: Jonovan on July 19, 2016, 05:16:37 PM
i feel like everyone has to do that at some point.
n

Nah. We all have to realize that there will be things about someone that we don't always like, but "settling" suggests something else entirely, and I'm never doing it lol
;

Even if you're in your late 40's, early 50's and still haven't found what you are looking for?

Shit, at that point...if you are sane, have a 401K & a clean bill of health...I'll take it. I don't have to be in love or even find you cute.  :kii:

I'm okay with being alone now (in fact I prefer it @ this age) but when I enter that age bracket I can't imagine still being alone.
yikes

Sorry to hear that you're putting so much pressure on ur self. Hopefully you'll grow out of that

Boomz

I feel like there are levels to "settling"

In my head, I want my hubby to give Tyson Beckford aging wise and make 6 figures but I've realized that's not living in reality.

Now me settling would be going for someone who is jobless and looks like Flavor Flav. :uhh:

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Boomer on July 19, 2016, 05:34:25 PM
Quote from: RIGGY on July 19, 2016, 05:24:46 PM
Quote from: Boomer on July 19, 2016, 05:21:40 PM
Quote from: Jonovan on July 19, 2016, 05:16:37 PM
i feel like everyone has to do that at some point.
n

Nah. We all have to realize that there will be things about someone that we don't always like, but "settling" suggests something else entirely, and I'm never doing it lol
Shit, at that point...if you are sane, have a 401K & a clean bill of health...I'll take it. I don't have to be in love or even find you cute.  :kii:

But why?
For the comforting "thought" that you wont die alone?

Im trying to understand


Glenda

Quote from: r u ok on July 19, 2016, 05:36:38 PM
My older sister rejected her bf's proposal because of the lackluster ring. Her theory was that if he couldn't afford to get a decent ring then he wasn't ready for a family! :cheerup:

Thought it was kinda mean but didn't like him anyway , knew she could do way better , so I had to agree! :cheerup:

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